What is the relationship between the fate of parents and the fate of children?

The fate of parents and children is a dialectical relationship. The ancients had an answer:

"Rich but three generations". Good parents' fate will bring good material living conditions to children, which is beneficial. However, there are also unfavorable factors. If children do not make progress in a rich material life, they will decline.

"The cabin is open." Parents' fate is not good, family economic conditions are not good, and children's lives are not good in harsh environments. However, in order to change their own destiny, children will make a difference in their struggle.

The fate of parents is greater than that of children.

The fate of good parents is basically the same as that of good children.

But the good fate of children is often different from that of parents, because sons will be hindered by their wives and daughters will be hindered by their husbands' families because they marry others!

Everyone has his own life. If you come from a poor family, don't blame your parents, it's your life. Just work hard and be nice to your parents. No complaining can change your origin, only hard work can change your destiny.

It is the relationship between cause and effect, and it is an irresistible community of destiny. All the "species" of animals and plants in the world are a genetic gene, which is a basic factor independent of human will, but this factor is in a subtle change due to the difference of time and space and karma. The result of this change is the later cause, and the cause and effect are constantly changing.

I don't think the fate of parents directly affects the fate of children. Genetic genes are not completely inherited.

It is the way and method of parents' education for their children, which will determine their fate.

Bad education methods, such as beating and cursing children all day, cursing them for "doing nothing", belittling and reprimanding children, will directly affect their fate and have a great impact on their healthy growth.

For example:

There was a bad mother who gave birth to her and died.

She has never seen her mother's face since she was a child, let alone enjoyed her love. She grew up in an environment without love. She has never experienced what it is like to have a mother's love, and she doesn't know what it is like to love a child.

When I gave birth to my first child, I knew I was cursing, cursing that the child was "useless" and kept silent all day.

Make children timid, appoint Nuo Nuo, dare not speak, dare not move, and feel inferior ...

When she gave birth to the second, third and fourth children, she didn't care so much, and whether she asked the last child or not.

As a result, this child is the most promising. 14 years old, admitted to a famous university, a builder-postdoctoral-became a first-class leader. The unit rewarded him with three best buildings, and he bought one himself, all of which were vacant.

However, his sister, a child who grew up in a mother's abusive environment, has the most tragic fate. People in their fifties and sixties are still fighting for others!

She studied very hard since she was a child and got good grades. She worked hard all her life. Why does she still accomplish nothing in her life?

I think the fundamental reason is that the education method is wrong.

We often say that fate is in our own hands, and we strive to change the future. However, some people have worked so hard for most of their lives, but they can't change their fate.

Modern genetic science shows that although diligence is very important, fate is not necessarily in your own hands.

Many times, parents decide your fate, and the most direct factor is genes and educational methods.

The fates of parents and children are linked by the same F number, both with the same genetic composition and through the transformation of education, everything becomes better than parents. Blood relationship has the same personality for offspring, but it is not absolute. If future generations want to have super powers, they must be educated from an early age, including parents and schools, but Guan Jianping is a school. Because the teachers in the school have a comprehensive and systematic rest in moral, intellectual and physical aspects, and their scientific and cultural knowledge is relatively comprehensive. So the school teachers are the best teachers. The fate of children depends on their efforts at school. Correction: In the second half of the seventh line, "But Guan Jianping" should read "The key is the school."

The fate of parents is not necessarily related to the fate of children! !

The average father often has a weak foundation and comes out of the countryside, relying entirely on his own efforts and hard work to gain a foothold in society and obtain a better living condition.

In the children's generation, parents create good living conditions, which can make children live better when they are young, have no worries about food and clothing, and hopefully get good educational conditions. The fate of children ultimately depends on their own efforts and struggles, and parents can't win the world! !

Of course, it does not rule out that a few particularly successful parents can influence the fate of their children! ! A few successful entrepreneurs can deliberately train their children to take over and provide them with good living conditions. There are also a few successful "politicians" who can deliberately raise children! ! But where the child can finally go can only rely on himself! !

As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't be cattle and horses for them! !

Just look at the Yellow Emperor Laozi and the son of the Yellow Emperor.

The fates of parents and children are interrelated and mutually restricted.

First of all, parents can't travel far at home.

This has a certain impact on any family. Children are unfilial and may not be willing to pay attention to this old saying. But for a filial child, when making every choice in his life journey, he will put his parents' affairs first. When I was young, I wanted to join the army, but my parents said no, so I gave up. Being admitted to a normal school requires teaching students all their lives. Parents say it's better than being a cadre!

My parents are old and in poor health. I want to travel to the sea, but who will take care of my parents when they are sick?

Of course, for the rich, this may not be a problem. But rich people also have troubles.

If parents have money, children's lives will be smooth sailing. Some parents give their children hundreds of millions of hands. For ordinary families, there is no comparability.

Excellent children have their own careers and can support their parents, which is the most desirable result of any parents. But there are also many parents who don't want to drag their children down, preferring to die alone.

From this, it can be concluded that the fate relationship between parents and children is multifaceted.

Indian film lines: the judge's son is a judge. ...