Do you have any elders with Alzheimer's disease in your family? How do you carry it?

My mother-in-law is an old man with advanced Alzheimer's disease. From the early onset of her illness in her seventies to the late 87 s, her children are going crazy with her!

In the early days, I just felt that her memory was getting worse and worse, and many things were forgotten as soon as I told her, and then she would joke that she was half a brain. At that time, no one would think she was abnormal except me. I once reminded my husband that your mother is likely to have Alzheimer's disease. Unexpectedly, my husband flew into a rage, calling me ruthless and scolding his mother. I fainted. Now that I think about it, if I had known to take my mother-in-law to the hospital to intervene with drugs, it is possible that the symptoms are not so serious now!

Slowly, my mother-in-law's symptoms of Alzheimer's disease are getting worse and worse, and now it's advanced! Because she doesn't know how to shit, she has to take her to the toilet every two or three days, endure her beatings and abuse, and force dew into her anus before she can shit. I don't pee in the toilet, I pee where I can't feel it, and I have to change her diaper every day. I refused to wear it at first, or took it off and hid it secretly. Later, I forced her to wear it for a long time, and she gradually got used to wearing diapers. But I still have to take her to pee every two hours, otherwise the diaper will always be wet, and it will be more troublesome to change her diaper. But she is determined not to pee, always saying that people bully her and force her to pee, but don't believe her. At this time, we should seduce her with some sweets and biscuits and praise her for saying that she is good.

She doesn't know anyone, sometimes she doesn't even know her own name. She called me my father-in-law, that is, her husband and father, and asked me where I came from and how old my child was. You asked her how old she was, and she said she was only in her thirties and not married. When swearing, she will curse you with the most vicious, obscene and yellow words she has never heard, and also say that I am dead long ago and give me urine to eat ... Fortunately, I hardly pay attention to her. They are her two daughters, one is retired, one is a full-time housewife, and the other is a son who specializes in stock speculation, so he doesn't have to go to work, that is, my husband specializes in serving her. In this way, it is not bad to say that she is miserable, because her children are really too patient and too kind to her.

At night, she often doesn't sleep. She sat on the bed, asking questions and talking to herself. Sometimes she will hear her calling her long-dead mother, father, uncle and grandfather in the morning ... Sometimes she slaps the bed board with her hand all night, disturbing people to sleep ... Fortunately, her knee joint has rheumatoid arthritis and she can hardly walk. Otherwise, it is more difficult to talk and walk at night.

She has a greedy mouth and always wants to eat. Just finished eating, she said she didn't eat. Interestingly, when eating, she put it on the table without remembering, and then you have to keep reminding her to eat, eat, eat. In a blink of an eye, her tableware is gone. It is stuffed in her trouser pocket. Help her find it and let her continue to eat. ...

Now, her face is clean, with no age spots and few wrinkles. Her hair is all white, and she has grown almost half a head of black hair. She is clean and has no smell, because she takes a bath and washes her hair in the shower room every day. She hates washing her hair and taking a bath. Wait on her children, and endure being cursed by her when giving her a bath. If she is not careful, she will bite your hand, leaving blood stains, or beat you and scratch you with her nails. ...

Looking at her like this, there is almost no problem living to 100, but it is difficult to serve the children, but who knows, anyway, my husband doesn't resent his mother growing up every day.

I have the most say in this. One of my two classmates has Alzheimer's Harmo's disease and the other has cerebellar atrophy, but the symptoms are similar to Alzheimer's Harmo's disease. Let me introduce you to the actual situation:

First, let's talk about my classmate's grandmother's Alzheimer's disease. Her symptoms are more serious. She may always stay in a certain state when she is free every day. For example, she will always take the stairs, climb the stairs back and forth, or have a bad temper. She scolds children when she meets people and forgets her relatives.

I will argue with people around me and I can't control my emotions. I don't remember anything. At this time, her children are also under great pressure. Because my classmate's grandmother has a bad temper and often curses, several children take turns to take care of the elderly every day. If she only takes care of one person for a long time, she will be unable to bear the pressure emotionally.

There is also a classmate's father, 56 years old, with cerebellar atrophy. The clinical manifestations of cerebellar atrophy are similar to those of Alzheimer's disease. I often can't remember things. Now my classmate's father can't find a home where he has lived for decades, and his memory is close to zero. If you ask him later, you won't remember what just happened. I only remember everything when I was a child, but I can't remember anything else after a long time.

And don't be emotionally stimulated. Speak to him gently. As the family members of patients, we should try our best to make patients happy every day, which can delay the development of the disease.

This symptom of Alzheimer's disease may suddenly develop very quickly. The illness will progress to a stage overnight, so when taking care of the elderly at ordinary times, try not to make him angry and stimulate his emotions to speed up the development of the illness.

If there are many children at home, try to take turns to take care of them, so that everyone's mood will not be particularly stressful.

If you haven't experienced it, please be prepared for the following words. The following description of what happened in our family may subvert your understanding of the life of some elderly people in their later years. In fact, if you are unlucky, you may not escape from this cruel and heartbreaking company in the future.

Fortunately, you and I are predestined, and we can learn from my experience here in time, so as to learn from the experience and lessons, avoid the detours caused by the rapid deterioration of the elderly's condition, alleviate the pain of the elderly, and free you from endless depression, complaints and physical and mental exhaustion.

All tears. My father-in-law suffered from Alzheimer's disease for 10 years. Remembering these past events is like a nightmare.

Below, I divide my father-in-law into several sections, from the onset, to the uncontrollable emotions, to the incredible personality change, and we have never been at a loss and don't understand, to gradually understand the causes and solutions of his illness, and give you a systematic description, hoping to help more people avoid detours.

First of all, just because the elderly are healthy when they are young doesn't mean that they won't get Alzheimer's disease in their later years. My father-in-law is 9 1 year old this year. He is a cadre from the south. When he was young, he liked hunting, playing table tennis and swimming. In the year of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, he used to bridge and pave the way in the river at minus 10. In the first half of his life, there was nothing wrong with his health. In his words, he never knew where the hospital door was open in his life. Therefore,

When her mother-in-law left, the old man was less than 80 years old. As the eldest son of our family, in order to take care of the elderly, we moved from our own home to live with him. The old man hired a long-term nanny at his own expense, and his family has a backyard of 100 square meters. The old man keeps a husky, grows some vegetables and flowers, and gets together with his grandson every weekend. Children are smarter than each other. As long as they make grandpa happy, the old people will not hesitate to give each child a red envelope.

Two years ago. We feel the warmth of our family at home. The old man praised his son and daughter-in-law for their thoughtfulness and filial piety.

Second, the words and deeds of the elderly gradually became abnormal, and later even developed to a stage that their loved ones could not bear. At this time, we must pay attention to it. If serving our father-in-law goes well from then on, I am not qualified to give you a long speech here. After three days and three nights, I can't finish talking. I'll pick a few key points and describe several abnormal phenomena that the elderly gradually show after suffering from Alzheimer's disease. You must pay enough attention when reading.

1. What are the abnormal manifestations of early Alzheimer's disease in the elderly? How did I carry it?

Later, from the old man's manners, he found that his father-in-law was gradually indifferent to those who had served him for a long time. He has never been resistant to food and daily arrangements and has become unreasonable and picky. On the contrary, he is especially kind to children who call occasionally but seldom accompany him.

At this stage, I feel a little inexplicably sad about this matter, not to mention how I came here, but I am a little lost in my heart. In the face of the abnormal reaction of the elderly, I often look for reasons from myself, more or less wronged. I thought that the old man just had mood swings because of something. I never thought that the old man was a prelude to senile diseases and missed the opportunity to control and delay the deterioration of the old man's condition.

2. What are the abnormal manifestations of middle-aged Alzheimer's disease in the elderly? How did I carry it?

A year later, my father-in-law's memory dropped significantly. It is obvious that he did something wrong, but he put the blame on others. There is no logic in his speech. When communicating with us, he began to look impatient, with a big temper and a rough voice. He often thinks that we are taking care of him, and even hides some of his personal belongings and personal belongings in case others steal his things. The next day, he forgot to blame others and often made mistakes when he got home.

At this stage, we suddenly realized that there was something wrong with the old man's health. With his mind and personality, it is impossible to say such cruel words. In this case, on the one hand, I continue to serve the elderly more carefully, nursed back to health more carefully from the nutrition of food, turned a deaf ear to the gossip of the elderly, and secretly wiped my tears, hoping that one day the elderly can return to their former appearance.

On the other hand, there are many friends around me who are my age and ask about my girlfriends from the side. However, what my father-in-law is doing now is not a case. The old people in many families are strikingly similar to my father-in-law, and their expressions are different. Since then, I have learned more about the symptoms of Alzheimer's disease from my friends. It turns out that this senile disease has another name, called "Alzheimer's disease".

If you ask me how I survived this time, I can only say that knowing that these abnormal behaviors of the elderly are caused by senile diseases makes my heart much calmer. I no longer think that the old man is deliberately targeting me, but deliberately making things difficult for me. I'm just tired, and I frequently respond to the old man's orders. I can't wait to end this unacceptable life as soon as possible. I began to ask the other children of the old man for help, even if I was afraid of replacing me one day, I was grateful.

Summary:

At this stage, I have to make a summary for readers. In this case, I took the detour mentioned above. I didn't have a deeper understanding of the old man's condition at the beginning. In fact, at this stage, although the disease is irreversible, there are still ways to control the spread of the disease, at least to let the children who serve the elderly catch their breath from heavy physical labor and not suffer from nightmares in the next life.

3. Are the elderly in the third stage of Alzheimer's Harmo's disease, the elderly and children serving the elderly nightmares? I want to die.

I have to say, my father-in-law's condition has deteriorated rapidly due to our couple's mistakes. Next, the old man and our family were in a daze for a day. He can lie with his eyes open, openly distort the facts in front of me, speak ill of me behind other children's backs, and even develop into beating and scolding children or caregivers. What is exasperating is that we serve him meticulously, as fierce as prisoners, and among his friends and nurses, we are as vicious as prisoners. He also looked tortured, with clear logic, and told us about our infidelity and unfilial. Speaking of lies, he made the audience attack us with indignation. In fact, no one can see that the old man is a little uncomfortable. In a word, my husband and I have become rats in the bellows, and both ends suffer indignities.

Recalling the kind face of the old man in those days and comparing his outrageous and unreasonable expression today, my friends who have experienced it will certainly understand me. Really, this terrible senile disease can really change human nature and quality.

At this stage, how did you carry it? Well, it's a long story. I can't live, I can't beg for death, I can't wait to run into an old man. Can you understand?

If you have seen friends here, if you simply want to know how the children of elders with Alzheimer's disease suffer, you don't have to ask friends who serve the elderly around you casually, there will be an answer. It's just that these kind people often treat this kind of thing as a dirty laundry, and when they can't bear it, they will tell you something. For me, it is self-inflicted, only myself to blame, and I have to bear it again and again.

What I want to say below has nothing to do with this topic, but I think it is necessary to repeat a few words and share some of my suggestions and solutions with you. Otherwise, what I went through above is meaningless to you.

Third, it is not terrible to have elders with Alzheimer's disease at home. As long as it is found early, it can be well controlled. First of all, I want to declare that I am not the creator of this field, and I will try my best to avoid minefields in terms and terms involved. Please understand that I will briefly share your four key points and experience them with my heart.

1. If you are on duty and your old man is unfortunately suffering from Alzheimer's disease, you must remember to take him to the hospital for examination when he shows abnormal behavior at an early stage. Sj internal medicine and geriatrics can be used. In short, this is a sj system disease.

2. You can know everything you want to know by seeing a doctor or searching for this condition to a certain extent or tone.

3. After the inspection report of the hospital comes out, according to the expert's conclusion and the disposal plan for the elderly, it can be well controlled to a great extent to avoid the rapid development of the disease. Doing the above three points is the best policy.

4. If you are like me, you neglected the illness of the elderly from the beginning, resulting in unbearable consequences. For the sake of the elderly, for yourself and for your family, please send the elderly to mental rehabilitation and pension institutions and receive all-round care (in fact, it is difficult to serve them well in all aspects of the family). This is a helpless policy.

Write at the back: Now, my old man has been in this nursing home for more than two years, and his condition has been well controlled. My children visit the old man from time to time. He looks much better than before. This is a blessing in disguise for the old man. I always feel at ease with my children, but this is really heartfelt. ...

The above only represents my personal experience and views. Please make corrections and supplements in the comments section. Thank you!

With the increase of age, the incidence of dementia in the elderly is on the rise. According to statistics, the incidence of dementia is 50% when people live over 90 years old. How terrible! But not many people live to be 90.

A friend of mine, her mother, got Alzheimer's disease at the age of 70 and was taken care of by her sister-in-law. Her brother died, and her sister-in-law has been living with her mother. Her mother has a pension and can support her life. She works and is the head of the unit, so she can't take care of her mother comprehensively. But it costs a lot of money. She said that when her mother felt the worst, she pulled the stool onto the bed, grabbed it and threw it everywhere. The wall is terrible. She moved to a big new house. She dare not let her mother live there. Dementia patients don't even have the IQ of their children. In severe cases, he was disobedient and noisy, and lived to be over 80 years old.

Another friend's mother is also dementia. She doesn't know outsiders, but she knows her daughter and can't communicate with others, but she is quiet and obedient, like a child. Finally, she broke her bone in the shower and was paralyzed. She stayed in bed all the time. He is over 80 years old. Her brother takes care of her all the year round, and her sister and brother pay for it.

A relative bought it a year ago.

Dementia, unfortunately, when she was young, she was very kind, always complaining, and was also very kind to her mother-in-law. He is a good man, but somehow he has dementia. She doesn't make noise when she is sick, but she can't do anything. She has been crying recently and can't eat. I only eat very little food, and I am 76 years old, and my wife and children are taking care of me.

The situation of Alzheimer's disease is also different. If there are such patients at home, they have to be taken care of and there is nothing else to do. Be patient with them. Better be taken care of.

My grandmother gradually didn't know anyone since 1990. 1998 died, about 7 years later.

First of all, I kept asking: Who are you? Later, I ate whatever I saw, washing powder, nails ...; Later, I began to spoil people like a child, and shit and urine poured downstairs from the window, bit by bit ...; I hired a nanny to accompany me around the clock, and I took care of it for more than five years.

Until I die, my arms are stronger than mine, and I want to catch something. Generally speaking, no one can grab her, and her legs and feet are not good. If she wants to leave, you must follow quickly. I just don't know how to eat or pull. The nanny feeds me bite by bite, cleans the toilet and changes clean clothes almost several times a day. Now that I think about it, that nanny is really a good person. She works hard. Our own family was exhausted in the back, and when we heard that there was shit again, we felt our hearts shaking-if you didn't see it, the shit would be rubbed in places you didn't expect, and the whole family had to look for it everywhere ... At first, we changed several nannies, and people couldn't stand it. Later, this nanny followed her for many years and took care of her grandmother. He died of a heart attack.

The old lady came from the war years and was very admirable all her life. Therefore, although the last few years were not good, she was still a respectable old lady.

For more than four years, my mother has been suffering from Alzheimer's disease. In the first two years, she worked hard. She has no fixed timetable. Sometimes she can sleep for two days, and sometimes she stays up day and night for two days. She went out and did something stupid that she didn't even know. For example, pulling out all the onions my dad just planted and refusing to admit it. Because she did it unconsciously.

Therefore, in the long run, the family will be exhausted and miserable. Because you don't know what he will do next. Therefore, relatives and friends have provided clues for seeking medical treatment. Fortunately, after treatment, my mother is now in a stable mood and much better. Although her legs and feet are getting less flexible every day, it is really a good thing as long as she is emotionally stable and clear-headed and can communicate with others.

There are patients at home, especially Alzheimer's patients. Don't disturb her, and don't yell at her. Be patient with her and stay with her. Let her take medicine on time and be in a good mood is the key to control her illness.

My life is quiet, I hope my answer can help you.

My mother has Alzheimer's Harmo's disease and my daughter has Alzheimer's Harmo's disease. Will Alzheimer's disease be inherited?

There is a female colleague whose mother is over 60 years old and has Alzheimer's disease. She didn't recognize her son and daughter, and the children were helpless, so she had to ask a nanny to take care of her mother. Every time my colleagues come back from seeing my mother, they tell them about my mother's work. At that time, my colleagues didn't know that they would get the same Alzheimer's disease as their mother in a few years. Later, I heard from my colleagues that my mother died.

My colleague retired at the age of 55 and began to have symptoms of Alzheimer's disease at the age of 67. On the eve of the Spring Festival one year, the unit invited retirees to dinner, and she went, so did I. As a result, she met her on the way, but she came in the opposite direction. I took her to the hotel. After dinner, the unit leader sent her colleagues to send her home.

My colleague's Alzheimer's disease was not very serious in the first few years. Her husband takes good care of her and takes her with him wherever she goes. The company invites retirees to dinner every year, even her husband.

I am over 70 years old. I heard that my colleague's Alzheimer's disease is getting worse and worse. Even my husband and son can't recognize it. It was also a person who wandered around and got lost many times. The family had no choice but to send her to a nursing home.

Occasionally, I heard from other friends this year that my 77-year-old colleague was dying and only depended on hanging needles to maintain his life.

The author is thinking: My mother has Alzheimer's disease, and my daughter also has Alzheimer's disease. Will Alzheimer's disease be inherited? What I said above is true.

My mother-in-law fell three years ago and was afraid to walk after the operation. At first, I walked around the house with crutches and exercised step by step. Later, I fainted and changed my wheelchair directly. Old people have no academic qualifications, and they don't read books or newspapers. My only hobby is cleaning, and cooking is a sideline. I like watching TV and war movies every day after I get sick. The kind that dominates the screen. I can't get enough of the Flying Tigers [smile]. I still can't sit still After 20 minutes of tossing, I am tired and want to go to bed. More and more people need to be around.

I'm too busy at home to afford a babysitter. She either doesn't respect others, doesn't pay attention to hygiene, eats and cleans up indiscriminately, or doesn't respect others to say that she is. I must be taken care of by my family.

Because I am sick at home for a long time, I have a good appetite and don't like activities. Slowly start constipation, and sometimes incontinence; My brain is also struggling, and I often can't remember things. If you don't see anyone for five minutes, just call his name. Why don't you go home? Why aren't you off work yet? Ask before 4 pm. Why don't you cook? When my son didn't come to see her on a business trip, he was extremely worried that something would happen to his child. My mother-in-law was a neat person when she was young, but when did she become such a mother-in-law Slowly, we realized that the old man had Alzheimer's disease. [tears]

To this end, the whole family held an emergency meeting. The children decided to take turns to take care of the daily life of the two old people. The leisurely old couple took the initiative to cook and buy food, and everyone paid, contributed and chatted with each other. Try to slow down the dementia of the elderly. Massage and pat your mother-in-law every day to prevent leg muscle atrophy; Change clothes frequently, take a bath frequently, and keep it fresh and clean.

As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. Now, with the joint efforts of her family, although her illness has not been stopped, her mother-in-law is getting better and better, and she can walk a few steps with her help. When she is awake, she can talk happily about her family. It is also a blessing for the elderly. I hope her old man can delay her illness and get better and better.

My mother-in-law is 92 years old. She followed her aunt until she was paralyzed. My family paid 3000 yuan, three children and six women. She was paralyzed two years ago, and she added 3000 yuan. After serving for two years, she finally collapsed and stopped serving. I watched my three sons discuss what to do. She doesn't sleep, tickle and pee every day. She is full of energy.

My mother is 77 years old and suffers from Alzheimer's disease. She suffered a lot when she was young. Old, with a pension. I can enjoy some happiness and get this disease. Sometimes, she is irritable, annoying and abusive. Sometimes, when I am awake, I hold my hand. Or hold me against my face. Looking at her, it's really hard, and it doesn't work.