I talked about my boyfriend for seven years, broke up for a month, and the man got married. Should I be angry?

You should be angry, but you should think about why you didn't end up together. He would rather marry someone else than save you. In fact, many things happen for a reason. Take me for example. I finally broke up with my girlfriend after more than four years. After breaking up, I didn't keep her. At first, she cried alone for several days, and she had a lot to give up. Why did you get married less than a year after breaking up? Actually, she doesn't understand. She likes to beat me at ordinary times and asks me why I don't have a house or a car all day. When will it happen? It's unbearable that she always breaks up with me again and again. I'm not without brains. Of course, I want to have a house and a car, but it needs a process, because it is not so easy to work hard on my own.

I broke up with my girlfriend, and my friend introduced me to an object. At first, I didn't consider marrying her, but she didn't ask me for a house or a car. More importantly, she said that even if she had nothing, she would get married if she wanted to live with her. I suddenly found out that this is the person I want to be with all my life, so I got married for several months without hesitation. Many people think it's too fast. In fact, if you say from the heart, as long as you think she is suitable to be a lifelong companion, there is nothing to hesitate. Now there is a car and a house. If it is not very expensive, it is not bad to drive it. If the house is not wide, it is not bad to have three bedrooms and one living room.

In short, everything happens for a reason, not by accident. Let go of the past and reflect. How to go in the future is your choice.

After talking for seven years, sister, are you running a life love marathon?

For seven years! Not getting married? A few years have passed, and I am almost thirty. It is true that the other party got married more than a month after breaking up with you. If marriage cannot be given, the other party has the right to ask for something else. So sister, you have no reason to be angry, because life never believes in the tears of the weak.

Sister says you can't do it unless you are angry, right? Keeping a pet still has feelings, not to mention seven years of love. It's no use getting angry. We should sum up our experiences and lessons, so that we will not regret in the future, embrace the sunshine and face life optimistically and calmly. Sister, we must understand that there will always be some regrets in one's life, and no one is always smooth sailing, so we must learn to look down on regrets, look down on the world, and walk smartly between heaven and earth.

Sister's life won't stay in the past forever, so we don't need to be covered in scars. Make everything simple. If you like it, go for it. If you get it, cherish it. Forget it if you miss it. If you can tolerate the world, the world will accept you. Dispel the pain and tears in life with indifference and tolerance in a smile. There is no rain in life, but there is a rainbow. With indifference, we must learn to be tolerant and understand the true meaning of life with our hearts. With tolerance, we will be kind to ourselves, the incomplete page of life will become open-minded, and we will understand the weakness of human nature and get out of the inherent blind spot of life. From this, we will become wise men in life. With indifference and tolerance, we will have wisdom, and in the years to come, we will become stronger. Because life only listens to the call of the strong ...

Sister, we still have time. Is it necessary to be angry? To dwell on the past is a punishment for our mistakes. Are we wrong?

Raise the wings of dreams, take a young step, do what you want to do, go where you want to go, and love the people you should love. After all, the future road is our own, right!

Give me an example. My friend, her senior, graduated from China Normal University and is now a teacher in a university. 1992 She was still a girl. She is beautiful and has a good figure. I met his current boyfriend in high school. At that time, she was the representative of English class. Her boyfriend was good at all subjects, but his English was not very good. Later, the senior sister helped him make up lessons every day, and slowly the two developed feelings. With the help of his senior sister, he was successfully admitted to Sun Yat-sen University. After graduation, he came out to start an Internet company. It can be said that in just a few years, he has reached a height that many people can't reach in their lifetime. Graduated from CUHK, my girlfriend is beautiful and talented, and she has a successful career. She bought a house and a car, and now she is only 27 years old. The relationship between the two was determined after graduating from high school, and now it is just the seventh year. They said they would get married in two or three years. At first, boys were afraid that such a beautiful girlfriend would have a crush on someone else, and they planned to get married the next year after graduation, but they didn't know why, and then they put it off until now. I heard that that boy has no desire to get married now. I once asked him, and he said it wasn't because he didn't love her, nor because his girlfriend was bad. On the contrary, she is excellent, beautiful and impeccable, but she has no passion for getting along for a long time, so she has no desire to get married now. He said it's good for two people to live like this now, but it's actually quite scary. After all these years, he still failed to get married. He is really afraid that one day he will suddenly say that he doesn't love her and break up. That's all.

Actually, let's not say whether you are angry or not. After all, it's no use being angry. He's married. It's no use arguing. You should reflect on why you can't get married after seven years together, and learn from the next relationship. Seven years of youth, really few girls can afford the energy. Why didn't he marry you seven years later, but married another girl in a short month? There must be a reason.

So why do some people say that if you want to get married, it is best to get married in the first year and the second year, otherwise once the passion period is over, there will be no desire to get married. So there may be a reason why you and your boyfriend have been putting off getting married for so long. On the other hand, it is also possible that you asked too much of him in your last life, and he couldn't meet your requirements, so he gave up. He would rather find a girl who doesn't dislike his conditions. On the other hand, maybe he doesn't love you anymore, so he chose to end this relationship and stop wasting each other's youth.

However, whatever the reason, you are all over, and it is impossible in the future, so let's move on, just be sad and adjust your state in time. Life is too long, and sometimes ending an inappropriate relationship is more important than starting a bad marriage. You will find the right person in the future. Best wishes. Although seven years is a long time, it is only a drop in the ocean compared with a lifetime.

No matter how many years we talk about it, no matter how long we break up, one party should get married and the other party should not be angry. Because you are divorced, you have become passers-by since the divorce, even if you have been in love for seven years? Lovers belong to lovers and marriage belongs to marriage. These are two concepts. Marriage is serious and protected by law. Everyone should respect the law and be a law-abiding citizen.

Both men and women should have a correct outlook on life.

That's how I suffered a fiasco again and again. 1993 after my first marriage fiasco, I went to Fujian from Hunan to engage in the research and development of edible fungi equipment. At that time, I worked overtime to develop edible fungi wood pulverizer. Once after working overtime until midnight, I was in a state of extreme fatigue. Inadvertently, the right hand was bitten by a machine, and blood flowed at that time. Was sent to the hospital by the workers for rescue. Later, my right thumb, middle finger and ring finger were sutured, and my right hand.

An old pioneer lost his horse-a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. At that time, I was loved by my boss's daughter because I worked hard in the factory. At that time, I only knew how to work hard, learned a full set of edible fungi and medicinal fungi techniques, and had a six-year love run with my boss's daughter. Later, a relative of my boss came back from Taiwan Province Province. That relative is rich and a good businessman. I don't know what to do. Later, I brought my boss's daughter back to Taiwan Province Province. A month later, they got married in Taiwan Province Province, although the man was thirty years older than her.

As the saying goes, if you walk more, you will suffer more. At that time, I took the green leather train, which was very crowded, not to mention the air conditioning. I still remember that I climbed in through the train window. After I climbed in, there was a girl in the back who wanted to climb up from the window, but that girl was even more powerless. Then I had a brainwave, grabbed the window frame with both hands and let the girl grab my feet. In this way, I persistently dragged the girl into the carriage. After I got up, the girl thanked me very much, and I immediately said no thanks. The girl immediately expressed great sympathy for me. We laughed and laughed all the way. Then the train arrived at the terminal, and I asked the girl where she was going. The girl said she would go wherever I went. This is really a god who has gained something, but left one after another.

After working for two years, I finally broke up with that girl and missed every relationship. Although it ended in nothing, I gained something from every relationship. Since we broke up, let's wish each other well.

Think about it, if a person only has a life span of 70 years, then falling in love requires110, and he can't fully understand and know a person. Even the basic emotional foundation is so loose that he can't stand the test of any wind and waves. He can forget this person immediately after breaking up and marry her quickly. This is not an emotional reminder.

At the same time, it can be seen that your seven-year relationship is like a marathon, which is neither painful nor itchy, and is often accompanied by differences of opinion, which cannot be solved or unified. Although the parties in love are often together, they are far apart, which has become the will of the people. You can't get married smoothly because he didn't find a better one, or he kept walking on two legs, and in the end, by contrast, he could only dump you.

If my guess is correct, the reason why you have been in love for seven years is not that you are too demanding. When I meet him and propose to you, you are always lukewarm. Even if you/kloc-started dating at the age of 0/8, now you are 25 years old. It's time to get married, but you're not in a hurry. It is normal for a man to be frustrated and choose to marry her.

Otherwise, this man has been eating a bowl and looking at the pot, and he is busy at both ends. He takes you as a spare tire in love, but you haven't discovered the secret that he also loves her. The woman he chose to marry is better than you in every way. Who would you dump?

In a word, this heartless man has nothing to miss. He can be so unreliable and irresponsible, which is enough to prove that you are not fellow travelers. If you make mistakes again and again in your marriage, you will go your separate ways sooner or later. It is correct to treat him as a rotten piece of meat, give him up completely and let go of his unhappiness completely.

Hello, everyone, I'm Shenshan Xiaowen. There is no need to entangle this kind of thing. Consider yourself blind once and not married to you for seven years. It is conceivable that his character is not much better. Another reason is that you two have been together for too long, he knows all your shortcomings, he thinks that he will not be happy with you, and he is not young, so he broke up with you and got married quickly.

Take a friend around me as an example. Your question is exactly the same. Xiaochao is from Sichuan. Ten years ago, she came to Suzhou to work and met a girl from Shaanxi. Her name is Pearl Krabs. She is small and exquisite, and she is very beautiful. I was single at that time, and I especially envied their love. I thought I would be satisfied to find someone like his girlfriend in the future. They work in the same electronics factory and are inseparable every day. When they went, they held hands and were very much in love, which was enviable. I often go to his house to play, and Pearl Krabs can cook a good dish. Because our two brothers are close, I often joke with Pearl Krabs and say that if you have children in the future, you must recognize me as michel platini. In fact, I have a lot of thoughts about his girlfriend, because I am too lonely, but in line with the principle that a friend's wife can't bully, I always kill this idea in the cradle. In fact, it is not impossible to really have sex with your girlfriend. Many times I went to his house to play Xiao Chao, but I had physical contact with her roommate's girlfriend, but I managed to control it. After all, it's mean to do something wrong to your friends. 67 years passed quickly, and my wife got pregnant unexpectedly. Pearl Krabs is very happy and wants to marry Toyoko. However, Xiaochao looked unhappy after learning about it, and advised her to abort the child, saying that it was a bit bad for us to have children before we got married. After all, this is their business, so I can't interrupt. A few days later, Pearl Krabs persuaded the hospital to abort the baby who was pregnant for one month. Pearl Krabs had a rest at home and went to work as usual. But a few days later, Xiaochao resigned, saying that he would go back to his hometown for development. Pearl Krabs refused to go, so they broke up. I simply don't understand. After more than six years of feelings, I can't believe in love. After Xiao Chao left, Pearl Krabs cried her eyes out. It's no use trying to persuade her. She just cried endlessly in my arms. After I comforted her in every way for more than ten days, Pearl Krabs's mood improved. Just a few days after things subsided, I saw Xiaochao's wedding photos in my circle of friends. I was surprised, so I chatted with him. He said he would get married in five days and asked me if I would come. I asked him why he gave up Pearl Krabs. At this time, he didn't tell the truth. He said Pearl Krabs was too short. If her son is born in the future, I don't want my son to grow so small and exquisite in the future. It's ok for a girl like her to fall in love and have fun, but not to be a wife. But her greatest advantage is that she can play a lot of tricks, because she is small and saves energy to play. It's not difficult for you.

Everyone has their own ideas. It doesn't mean that he will marry you after a long time together. Therefore, as a girl, don't waste your youth on a fruitless man. It is ok to fall in love, but there is no need to talk about not getting married for many years. It doesn't matter if others delay. The key is to upset your desire for love.

Seeing your problem, I want to tell you with my personal experience. This is my real life experience. Personally, I think people who get married should be doomed to collect the debts I owed in my last life. When I was twelve years old, I was told by a fortune teller that I had been married three times. I also have a good relationship with someone for five years. When I first met Zhongshan, I started a shop in business, and later I was engaged in senior management in the company. Even when my mother was ill in hospital, I didn't have time to go back. I didn't go back when my two brothers went back. She went back. She lived happily together for several years and was very beautiful. She is very kind to my son and parents. But in the fifth year, I got sick in an accident. I broke up with her and got married ten days later. I can't think of many things. I just want to be happy and do my own thing every day. Sometimes there can't be compulsion in my life.

In this case, I think it's useless for you to be angry again. There are many such things around me. I know an old sister. She has been dating her boyfriend for more than four years. Less than a month after breaking up, both men and women are engaged to different people. My cousin, who started dating his girlfriend in college, married another girl less than a month after breaking up, and now his wife is pregnant.

So don't get angry when encountering such problems. Consider falling in love with other boys, enjoy life and don't waste your youth.

The boyfriend who talked for seven years broke up and said that he was not angry was false. After all, we all gave. You have been married for seven years, not to mention that you are not married and are not protected by law. There are many young people who just got married and divorced in January. How can they talk about feelings?

Speaking of feelings, it's really depressing. My colleague's mother just passed away the other day. Her parents' feelings are the envy of friends around her. Every day after dinner, they go for a walk in the park arm in arm. On weekends, I go to the vegetable market to buy food. Her father cooks and mops the floor. To be honest, I am one of them. In my mind, how happy this woman is that men can do these housework! Isn't it the princess type at home?

But my colleague cried the day she came back from her mother's funeral. I felt very sad, but she said no because of her father.

It turned out that her mother found out the terminal stage of uterine cancer a year ago. During this period, she underwent chemotherapy four times and lost weight quickly. Her mother learned about her illness and chatted with her colleagues. When she left, her father was most worried. Her mother said that you are married and very happy. You must take good care of your father.

Unexpectedly, just a few days after my mother left, my father told her that during my mother's illness, someone introduced him to a girlfriend. They got along well and wanted to get married.

From this point of view, you don't have to worry. You should be glad that you recognized him early. If he cared about you for so many years, he wouldn't refuse to marry you. And he got married a month after you broke up, which means they were dating before you broke up, right?

This man has a personality problem. I believe you will meet a handsome guy who is 100 times better than him. Bless you!

I talked about my boyfriend for seven years and married someone else a month after breaking up. Should I be angry?

If it were me, I would be angry. After all, we have been in love for seven years and broke up for a month before getting married. It will make me feel cheated and insincere, and make me feel that he has cheated me for seven years. Maybe there is no affection between us, only sex.

Marriage has a seven-year itch. After seven years of friction, it is also problematic that love has not grown into family ties.

We might as well assume that:

First, when your boyfriend is with you, he is with someone else. Otherwise, any normal man will never break up for a month in order to marry someone else as long as he is not in a hurry to get married. It is also possible that the woman is pregnant.

Second, you have been good for seven years, and he has been good to you from beginning to end. Your feelings are very harmonious. You can guarantee that he has absolutely no other woman. Then, a month is enough for him to marry someone else. You can think that he is angry with you. But then again, it's a relief that you play with marriage, because he married someone else!

Third, after seven years together, he proposed to you. You didn't mean to get married, which means that his family has been urging him to get married, and he was in a hurry, so he got married!

To sum up, in a word, in a word: whatever the possibility, you should be angry. There is a simple reason. You will think that he has cheated you for seven years! Finally, anyway, I hope you can get out of the grief of lovelorn. In this way, I can give an explanation to the rest of my life and my future husband!