The distress of the 35-year-old leftover woman: Why haven't you found Prince Charming after 20 blind dates?

I went out to eat with a female client, and she kept complaining to me: Although I am 35 years old, I am well maintained and often blind date, why can't I find my own Prince Charming?

Later, as far as I know, she had no less than 20 blind dates. She belongs to the kind who will meet as soon as there is a suitable introduction, but in the end it has been fruitless.

I asked her curiously what the criteria for choosing a spouse were, and she confidently told me that it was actually not high:

In the past, I asked the man to be handsome, have a car, a house and a job, be filial to his parents and have a good personality. Now I have removed the first two items, as long as I am filial to my parents, have a good personality and are about the same age!

According to her previous requirements, it may not be easy to find, but according to her current requirements, why is no one paying attention to her?

Later, one of her girlfriends told me the reason:

She used to pick men, but now men are picking him, saying that she is 35 years old and not married. Is there a psychological problem? Is there a genetic disease? Can you still have children? If you can't have a baby, don't post it backwards!

For some "leftover women" who are not married in their thirties, some netizens ridiculed:

Girl, she is only 35 years old now. Don't worry. Work hard. After retirement, you have plenty of time to find someone!

It can be said that before the age of 30, she has been finding fault with others. Now that she is 35 years old, it's her turn to be bullied by others. Seeing that I am getting older, I can only "make do" with people I don't love if I want to get married. Looking back, she chose to be an unmarried family and live her own life.

02

A problem was found in the census: most of the leftover men are rural hukou, and the leftover women are basically urban hukou!

For some, some netizens explained:

This question highlights why there are so many leftover men and women in society, but they don't like each other! Can rural life thoughts, three views and urban life thoughts be consistent? How can people who grew up in different environments live together?

Therefore, it boils down to one sentence: the economically handsome look down on you, and the economically poor and not handsome look down on you and dislike each other, which probably forms the present situation. If you want to break the game, either improve yourself or lower your standards!

03

In today's society, I find that many people are impetuous.

Men should be beautiful, and women should have cars and houses when they get married. The two aspects of marriage are different!

Men are worried about being cheated when they are rich, and women are worried about being played, so they must buy a house before marriage!

Even, some couples go to the point of talking about marriage, but in the end they part ways because of a house!

I have to say that people in the society are realistic enough now, they may not really love each other, but only think about their own future!

Two people make do together and defend each other.

Might as well stay single. After all, if marriage doesn't make you happier than being single, why should we wronged ourselves to complete a marriage in name only?