I am a girl, and my parents always prefer boys to girls. I am not very happy. Now I have found a boyfriend from other places, and I always tell him what I think.

Your boyfriend actually said, "Don't go back to your mother's house after marrying him." In this case, you can basically conclude that your boyfriend is not a person with high emotional intelligence. This sentence tells you that you can't listen to your boyfriend in the future. He is not a man who can make the right decision. You must have your own opinion.

If your boyfriend raises you as a daughter and you enjoy being a daughter, you are all wet. This situation cannot last. It is not a long-term way for marriage and feelings. I can tell you responsibly that men will not treat you as their daughter all their lives. It may not be a good thing for you. You must change him in your way.

You probably exaggerated your parents' unkindness to you. It has caused your boyfriend's opposition to your parents, and it has also caused a passive relationship between you and your boyfriend. I don't think your boyfriend loves you very much. If he loves you very much, he won't disrespect your opinion and complain for thousands of dollars. This man is a little narrow-minded.