Why not be a bridesmaid?

China's traditional culture pays great attention to a lottery, and hiring a maid of honor means that marriage can be more happy. From a numerological point of view, if the bridesmaid suits you, it can really add points to your marriage on this auspicious day.

But the protagonist we are talking about today is the maid of honor, not the bride. Does this affect the bridesmaids themselves? The answer is: yes, and it has a great influence.

If you casually work as a bridesmaid for others, the more you do, the worse your marriage will be. You are using your beautiful marriage to make wedding clothes for others. Therefore, it is not difficult to find that many people around us have been bridesmaids, accompanied one after another, and accompanied so many people to get married, but they have never been married. Because your beautiful marriage is over.

In the old days, bridesmaids were also called "seeing off female guests". This kind of seeing off the female guests is very strict, which is not something that ordinary people can do. Besides being young and beautiful, you need to have a son. When choosing a candidate, you need to look for it among your peers. You need to get married, not remarry. After choosing the right person, you need to find a fortune teller to calculate the birthday of the "bridesmaid" to determine whether she and the bride are a good match. This kind of "bridesmaid" is called "American" or "all in one", which means perfection.

It can be seen from this custom that in the old society, bridesmaids were "tools" to make the bride's marriage better. However, this "tool" requires him to be married, not "unmarried" now. Why do you want married women as bridesmaids? In the past, it was known that the bridesmaid's marrying him would damage his marriage, so it was more appropriate to get married. Unmarried people never get married. If it is so bad, this life is probably over.

Tracing back to the source of bridesmaids earlier, it is not difficult to find that bridesmaids can't be.

Old customs are also handed down from ancient times, so what is the true face of ancient bridesmaids? In ancient times, bridesmaids were called "bridesmaids" or "maids"

What do you mean by "dowry girl" and "servant girl"? It means that the bride will marry together when she gets married. Married to the bride, of course, it can't be the bride, but all concubines or maids.

On the wedding day, all the bridesmaids need to do is run errands for the bride and groom and do whatever they want. Just like getting married now. Nowadays, people who are married as bridesmaids follow behind, drinking, pouring water, seeing off guests and being servants, but it is not as obvious as in ancient times, but it is essentially the same.

After the wedding, the bridesmaids are married to the man's house together, and this dowry is used as a mistress or maid. So it is also called "maid of honor".

As can be seen from the word "Tongfang", in ancient times, the position of this handmaid was higher than that of the servant girl. This kind of bridesmaid also serves the groom, so their residence is usually arranged next to the bedroom of the host family, and the bride should be a concubine when she is away. However, their status is not the same as concubines. They are lower than concubines, but taller than maids. There is such a "maid-in-waiting" in A Dream of Red Mansions.

This is the evolution of real bridesmaids from ancient times to modern times. Evolved to modern times, it became to find an unmarried person as a bridesmaid. Why are you looking for unmarried people? The purpose is to give the bride a good marriage with unmarried people and let the bride have a good marriage. What a selfish act this is.

In fact, in the process of evolution, it has existed since ancient times, and some folk experts have pointed out these methods, but they have not revealed the mystery. It is said that the bride can have a good marriage by doing this, but everyone is using other people's good marriages as wedding dresses.

From the perspective of numerology, a person's good marriage is limited. Some people don't have a good marriage in their own lives and have been bridesmaids. You will only get worse and worse, and everyone around you will get married. You've been a bridesmaid all your life, but you haven't been able to marry yourself because your marriage has been with you.

Do you know that every grand wedding, in life and metaphysics, represents a marriage, a marriage. Being a bridesmaid is essentially equivalent to marrying yourself once, and marrying him is also a marriage. Whether you are really married or not, hell will give you an account.

How many times in your life have you been married well enough to play wedding games like "play house"? Someone else is married, and you are still yourself.

Looking at the friends around you, it is not difficult to find that there are too many such fools. She is happier than the bride when others ask her to be a bridesmaid. I don't know why you are so happy. Without wisdom, knowing nothing is really terrible. The mystery of life is everywhere.

My student once told me that she was a bridesmaid, and I kept reminding her not to do it. Everyone should know more about these truths and wisdom, or your fate will be better. Where can you find your own good marriage? Don't be a bridesmaid!