How to treat the eight-character numerology correctly?

First of all, I want to tell you that the predictable things of the eight characters are: a person's ideological and personality characteristics, physical health, parents, brothers and other six relatives, his own marriage and love, education, official career, wealth, career, occupation (that is, the situation of the rich and the poor), whether there are disasters, lawsuits, criminal proceedings, as well as the basic development fortune of a person's life, the specific good or bad luck in some years, and the solutions to bad luck.

Then I want to answer you two sentences: the eight-character fortune-telling does have a high accuracy and is of great guiding significance to life; But fortune telling can never be 100% accurate. For example, if two people with the same horoscope start from roughly the same place and both want to go to Beijing, then their direction of progress is the same (that is, the information of fate and Universiade is roughly the same, for example, they are both rich in life or wealth). But as the saying goes, all roads lead to Beijing, you can go your way, and I can go mine, so the process and way of traveling are different, and the time to Beijing may be different (that is, fleeting information is different from specific things, such as being rich or prosperous, but the time, way and degree of getting rich may be different). If we go further, there will be more differences in the time from one place to another, and there will be more differences in the things we experienced on the road (that is, Ryutsuki and Liu Ri are more different from specific events and data, and it is difficult to have an absolutely unified law).

This is the general situation of the accuracy of fortune telling. In a word, fortune telling does have a high accuracy, but it can never be 100% accurate. But now, a strange phenomenon has appeared. People who go to fortune telling, especially those who have no knowledge of numerology, hope that fortune tellers can be 100% accurate about their own affairs, even if it is a trivial matter. And those fortune tellers, in order to cater to customers' psychology, call themselves fortune tellers, who are outspoken and accurate in everything. "Zhuge Liang knows what will happen before and after you", in fact, it is precisely because fortune-telling is not 100% accurate, but it has great accuracy that people dare to try. Otherwise, you will collapse next year, you will lose money next year, and you will die next year. So, who dares to tell fortune? Therefore, it is unrealistic for customers to ask the owner to accurately calculate their life span, and it is immoral to ask the owner to brag or even threaten to blackmail customers.

Here, then the second question comes: since fortune telling is very accurate, how can I change my fortune and crack it if it is bad or even disastrous? You can't watch yourself die, can you? This is the so-called problem of changing life and luck. Yes, you can tell your fortune without changing your life. A happy event is laughter, and a bad thing is tears. This problem is really tangled and difficult for life teachers to deal with. My point is that life is determined by heaven, and if people want to change their lives, they have to compete with heaven. So is it reasonable to compete with heaven? Can you win? In fact, we humans have been fighting against the sky for thousands of years. We humans are successful, which means that we have won the battle with the sky. However, we humans are often punished by nature, unable to accurately guess and grasp the future destiny, that is, unable to compete with the sky. So it's the same for individuals. We can contend with the sky and try to grasp our destiny by ourselves, but success depends on fate. As the saying goes, "Man proposes, God disposes".

So, what's the point of fortune telling? The real significance of fortune telling lies in making people correctly know and understand their own destiny, so as to adjust some unhealthy psychology and attitude towards life, and make them face and accept life more rationally and peacefully. If this can be done, it will be a real success for customers and life teachers.

For example, what should we do when we know that a person's fate may be tragic? I think if this happens, life teachers should treat it differently. In fact, a person's psychological quality and personality can be seen from the eight characters (if you don't have this ability, then the life teacher itself is unqualified). For a strong person, you might as well tell the truth and let him be prepared as soon as possible. But for the disadvantaged, the life teacher should speak mildly. Don't throw away the sermon, and don't talk about it, saying that you are bound to encounter great misfortune next year and break your fortune. Don't kill others before it happens. In addition, we should also tell them how to treat numerology and life correctly, and must not be pessimistic and give up.

Therefore, I am writing this article today, mainly to get rid of the superstition of Zhouyi numerology, and to get rid of superstition, so that we can understand the essence of Zhouyi numerology more deeply. In fact, Zhouyi's numerology is metaphysics and fuzziness in essence, neither science nor mathematics, but now many people like to preach that Zhouyi's numerology is science, which is either a misunderstanding or an advertisement to attract business. Zhouyi numerology is an abstract summary of life destiny and objective things. It just captures and generalizes some common characteristics of life destiny and objective things, but can't accurately express the different characteristics of different individuals. That is to say, it can only reflect abstraction, but can't accurately express concreteness and concreteness. It is true that in the practice of numerology prediction in Zhouyi, we can sometimes get to the point of the fate of life and the specific performance of objective things (for example, we can calculate the specific year, the specific cause, process, result and so on. ), but we must see that this kind of accuracy is not fixed, and it is not high, with certain contingency and coincidence, so it cannot be regarded as a law and science. Only by knowing and understanding the numerology of Zhouyi from this height can we not mislead our lives.

In fact, in the ancients, fortune telling was not called fortune telling at first, but called talking about life, life, ideals and philosophy, and talking about how to deal with the contradiction between ideals and reality-life is for talking, not for counting! It's a pity that people nowadays don't understand that the principle of living is the principle of death. To a certain extent, such as career choice, the arrangement of life events, etc., numerology does have important guiding significance. Fate is like roads, some roads are suitable for you, some roads are not suitable for you, some roads are thoroughfares for you, and some roads are dead ends for you, even cliffs. By examining our destiny, we can clearly see the way we should go, so it may be meaningful to change our thinking and direction. I think this is the best way to turn fortune-telling into disaster. If fortune telling has any positive significance, this is its significance. There are no absolute things in this world. Everything must be split in two, not just numerology, but everything else must be split in two.

Finally, in order to make people treat their destiny correctly, let me give an example: fate is like a soybean seed, and then we plant it. The acquired environment is various, such as falling on fertile land and barren land is completely different. Therefore, the same seed, the same fate, the future growth will not be exactly the same. Of course, there is still a problem, that is, whether the farmers sow carefully themselves, so the final harvest is different. Although soybean is soybean, no matter how much nutrition you give it and how hard you plant it, it can't become as big as a potato, but there is a difference between the size and thinness of soybean. This is where we can change, and it is also the true meaning that fate depends on itself. Therefore, no matter what fate, we should treat life positively, optimistically and enterprising.