Do you think there is fate, destiny takes a hand?

I think people have destiny in their hearts. Some people believe it, others don't. The same person has different views on fate at different stages. The older I get, the more I feel that there are many things that reason and wisdom can't solve, control and be helpless. We attribute this strength to fate. Actually, it doesn't matter whether you believe it or not. The important thing is that you have always been full of longing and hope for life and lived a full life. After all, life is too precious. Let me tell you why I believe in fate.

I have just received the admission notice from the university. I was in the county seat. It is said that the blind people in a village are very accurate in fortune telling, especially the first person who counts in the morning. Some people say that you can count without reporting your birthday. Curious, I found this old gentleman early in the morning on a bike of 15km. The old man had just finished breakfast, and after I made clear my purpose, the old man asked me to talk about my birthday. I said I forgot. The old man gestured that there was a bucket of rice in front of me, grabbed it and told him a few grains after the calculation. After I told him, he thought for a moment, then told me the specific time when I was born, and told me the great events that happened before, and said that I would be a doctor in the future (exactly the same as my admission notice). What makes me feel incredible is that the old man is about 38 kilometers away from my home, and there was no information at that time. How did he know? However, it is not accurate to say what happened later. It's also strange to know the past and not the future.

In retrospect, since I went to college, I have been helped by outstanding people at a critical moment, from graduation to work to becoming a leader (the first person who told me that I was promoted was not my superior leader, but a "well-informed" person), which I think can be said to be fate.

Not whether there is, but whether there is. Fate, like an invisible hand, controls everyone's fate.

Sometimes you have to hit it with one blow, and you can't always insist. Because I can't hide, not because I can't ask for it. In the dark, there are providential arrangements. Everything happens for a reason, and good and evil will eventually be rewarded. God has a plan!

As for fate, no one can say for sure, maybe it really exists. Colleagues in a certain department jumped ship. Once, the army wanted to build a training camp and occupied a piece of land in it. It's a little special. There is a temple on it. Strangely, the small piece of land occupied by the temple is full of red loam, and it is surrounded by cinnamon soil. It was suggested that the land could not be moved. The battalion commander did not believe in evil and personally took people to level the temple and prepare the soil. Two days later, the battalion commander returned to his hometown in Henan to visit relatives and died unexpectedly. After the battalion commander's accident, no one dared to move that land. Later, a local wizard who knows Yin and Yang was invited to the temple to talk with the Bodhisattva. He planned to move the temple to a beautiful mountain nearby. The Bodhisattva disagreed, thinking that all the big Bodhisattvas were stationed on the mountain, and a little Bodhisattva would be bullied if she went, but the Bodhisattva agreed to give up most of the land and only asked to build a small temple on the camp corner. Now, a small temple has been built in the corner of the training camp, and everyone in the camp is safe.

It is futile for a person to know his life until he is 40 years old.

For example, a person's life is like a car, which of course includes the person who controls the steering wheel; People's means of transportation are roads, including rural roads (rural roads, etc.). ).

With this metaphor, we can describe people's lives according to vehicles and roads.

Some people naturally take highways, while others naturally take country roads. Of course, this is just a metaphor, there is no discrimination, just to illustrate the problem. If I have to struggle, I can't help it.

We all hope that our life path will be smooth and unimpeded by the expressway, with road signs guiding and warning. What a carefree life path this is. However, such people are definitely only a few. For example, classmates enter the fast lane as soon as they go to school, study smoothly, and achieve their life goals without getting in the way. This kind of car is a natural BMW. Its configuration is different, this is life; This is good luck. No one (parents) wants to buy a BMW (children) and walk on a muddy road, right? However, this is not everything. If a BMW driver neglects to see the scenery, such as having fun, and gets off the bus on the wrong ramp without reading the sign, then the BMW driver will enter the country road, that is, his fate will change, and he will walk into the mud pit of life, that is, he will walk on the lame road of life. It will take a long way for BMW to get back on the highway, and some of them may never get on the highway. This is why we should grasp ourselves in the key place of life. If you don't grasp it well, you will have bad luck. To use an inappropriate old saying, life is like this. If you are poor, you will get rich. A good luck or a bad luck will never get old. Of course, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? With more life experiences, we can have a deeper understanding of life.

Our hopes are the same, and life will be smooth. But some cars, such as tractors, are set on rural roads when they leave the factory. Of course, we don't think of ourselves as tractors! Although we are not very clear about the road of life, we are all full of hope for our own life, and we should face our own life with great pride, that is, the road of life. Of course, the choice of thousands of roads is the first choice. For example, as soon as we go to school, the teacher will teach us what to do and what kind of life we can live in the future! However, no matter how hard we study, we will never catch up with the schoolmaster! Disagreements have just emerged! However, we have not lost our ambition, and we are always moving towards our own goals in life. Many times, we are thinking, why can't others do it? I am also working hard, studying hard and struggling hard! But why is everything not going well? Hit the wall and get less than half the harvest? Am I really a useless person? Is intelligence really bad? Wait a minute, it never occurred to us that their factory settings are totally different from ours! We can't beat others. Although all roads lead to Rome, when we arrived in Rome, people were already drinking coffee leisurely! We haven't caught our breath yet! This is still good. Most cars are still limping on the road. This is the difference, that is, the difference of fate.

Change the existing settings unless you reinstall the system.

Change the settings, such as paying a hundred times the price, that is, paying more efforts than others, being guided by people with life experience, choosing ways and means with excellent ability, and so on. Reinstall the system, such as changing your inherent stubborn thinking mode, changing your inherent mentality with good behavior and good lifestyle and skill training. Let it adapt to the environment faster, let it adapt to living conditions more conveniently and so on to change our destiny. This is often said that fate is in your own hands. Without this change, tractors will never get on the highway, that is, the inherent original factory setting (fate) can only be like that.

So the destiny can be changed, but for most people, they are streaking on the road of life and seldom think about changing their own life, that is, the inherent mode of fate, which is very bad thinking.

Everything has a destiny. Fate exists. Life is innate and luck is acquired.

Fate should be interpreted separately, which we can't violate and change, just like your birth environment, your gender, your animal sign, health or disability are all fates and cannot be changed.

On the other hand, luck is different. I think it has more to do with the day after tomorrow. As the saying goes, three points are destiny takes a hand, and seven points depend on hard work. There is a saying that the harder you work, the luckier you are.

In a word, we can't change our fate, but our luck can be grasped by our own efforts the day after tomorrow.

A few people control the fate of many people. So you have to take control of your life.

I think there is such a thing as luck. There are many things that I have to go through before I know the harm of this thing, such as gambling, because I have lost too many things! Some people know the harm of gambling after losing once, but I have to be black and blue to feel the pain!