My life is so bitter! The fortune teller is right. My husband is really having an affair. ...

There are many factors for men to cheat, which can be simply summarized into two types:

The first type: derailed because of the man's own subjective reasons.

Some men want to prove that they are still attractive. Men have a rebellious period between the ages of 40 and 50, which is the so-called "midlife crisis". During this period, men began to question life and resist aging. Especially those men who work hard, always feel that they have missed the best years of their lives. They never seem to enjoy the joy of life, and this is what they really love-eating, drinking and having fun. So, when they see young girls, they want to start over. Some men want to add passion to sex. When men need more sex and can't satisfy it at home, having an affair becomes a new attempt to have fun. Some men just want to get rid of boring life or escape the pressure in real life. Some people have lost their enthusiasm for life. Neo-Confucianism points out that losing enthusiasm for life and feeling depressed will make men feel helpless, incompetent and accomplish nothing. Therefore, the simplest solution is to find an understanding and sexy woman … to escape from the real environment that makes men depressed. Other men are born with the seeds of romance. This kind of man who likes the new and hates the old is different from those who use an affair to escape intimacy. These amorous prodigals often feel good about themselves, but they are not good at marriage at all.

The second type: men's infidelity is actually forced by women. Many behaviors of women in marriage life may prompt men to betray their marriage.

Maybe you are so used to your man's existence, like the old oak tree in the backyard, that you almost forget that he is also a fragile person. He needs company, praise and comfort. If you can't find these at home, he may bypass you who "turn a blind eye" to him and go outside to find another woman.