Why do you say "character determines fate"?

Character determines fate. This sentence is so simple and seemingly old-fashioned chicken soup, but it is a wise saying summed up by generations of blood and tears. Although we often heard this sentence when we were young, we didn't really understand it until we grew up and had a deeper understanding of ourselves.

I was not convinced when people told me this when I was a child. Young and frivolous, never stumbled, the biggest thing is just to get the first place in the exam. I grew up stubbornly all the way, only to find that I ran into a wall at work and missed many opportunities, and then slowly learned to converge. Fortunately, it was not too late.

I have a classmate and good friend. When she was studying, she was humorous and generous, considerate of others everywhere, and occasionally said nothing. Everyone likes her very much. Later, when she graduated, a dormitory classmate introduced her to a good company through family ties, where she met her husband, and her love and career were fruitful.

Compared with her smooth sailing after entering the society, what is the small loss she has eaten before? She must have never expected that her kind character would rewrite the fate of her life. Sometimes, the actions made by personality may rewrite their own destiny at a later node.

Xiang Yu and Liu Bang in the dispute between Chu and Han are typical cases in which personality determines fate. Xiang Yu was born noble and young, but lost the favorable situation and eventually committed suicide; Liu bang was born humble, brave and resourceful, and shameless. Finally, after taking refuge in Xiang Yu, he destroyed Xiang Yu. I have to say that there are a lot of personality factors.

Personality can also make up for other shortcomings to a great extent. In life, people who are depressed because of their unlikable or flawed personalities abound. If you have a bad personality, ordinary people are nothing special, and there is no mine at home, you will take a lot of detours less than people with good personality and won't win a bright life to a great extent.