Why is it always painful for me to talk to others? Always say but others. What shall we do? They always talk about me.

When you get along with others, you must be alert to the mental control of others. If you find that when you get along with someone, the loser will always be you, but you can't find a reason to refute it, please leave that person quickly, because such people often like to take advantage of other people's weaknesses and will prepare a fairly complete set of values to reason with you. On the one hand, even if you are not wrong, he will continue to belittle you and make you feel guilty. On the other hand, because of his values,