What do you mean, Xiang Tuo?

To meet each other, that is, to date each other. Once upon a time, it was almost an essential process and part for young men and women in Lingnan to talk about marriage. It is the embryonic form of free love and has strong Lingnan cultural characteristics. 1, meeting, that is, dating. Once upon a time, it was almost an essential process and part for young men and women in Lingnan to talk about marriage. It is the embryonic form of free love and has strong Lingnan cultural characteristics. 2. Pay attention to procedures and etiquette. First of all, after married men and women find a good partner, they should entrust the matchmaker to send their birthdays to each other. This is called "Happy New Year". Please ask the fortune teller to calculate and make an appointment only if there is no conflict between the two. 3. When taking pictures, I am usually accompanied by my mother and aunt. The two sides looked at each other several feet apart. In the meantime, young men and women must step back a few steps to show that their limbs are sound; Be sure to say goodbye loudly when you leave, which means you are not deaf. After meeting, if both parties are satisfied, the woman will ask the man for a bride price through the matchmaker. The two sides usually bargain several times. In the end, it is convenient for the man to choose the day of "sending Wen Ding" and send the bride price to the woman's home. On the wedding day, the girl to be married will cry and sing the "crying wedding song" in the boudoir, which means feeling the kindness of parents, urging younger siblings to be filial, and so on. Outside the window, the idle woman pretended to persuade her to cry, which was very lively. 6. Finally, the wedding team came and got married. Xiangzi broke through the bondage of arranged marriage by his parents and gave young men and women the opportunity to face marriage directly. Until today, many people's marriage is still achieved through marriage.