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A married woman can't go back to her hometown to worship her ancestors or even her parents. Why is there such a statement?

There are many ways to raise children to prevent old age, including that after a person dies, the son goes to worship his parents, and the daughter is spilled water, so she can't go back to her mother's house to worship her ancestors. If his daughter comes back to worship, it is very shameful to break up this family. Who doesn't want a room full of "children" and "grandchildren"? Not enough children and grandchildren. Do you need her daughter to come back and make up the numbers? So a married woman can't go back to her hometown to worship her ancestors.

Tomb-Sweeping Day's married daughter can't go home. Whether visiting relatives or worshipping ancestors, it also proves that daughters can't go back to their parents' homes on the festival of worshipping ancestors. If a daughter gets married, no matter whether there is a son at home or not, she can't go back, which is not good for her family and her husband's family. It is said that she will lose everything. The husband's family also hopes that the daughter-in-law will take her son and children to worship their ancestors, and the family will be busy instead of thinking about their parents.

There is a feeling that the married daughter is no longer a family member, and she is not allowed to worship her ancestors or go home. It is said that all this is to highlight the status of her husband's family. I don't think it has anything to do with losing everything. I just told a woman that when she got married, she couldn't think of her family, and her husband's things couldn't be taken from her family. Everything in her house belongs to her son. Don't think about it.

Now that men and women are equal, there is no need to care about ancestor worship. Women nowadays are not like before. My mother-in-law says one is one, and her mother-in-law says two is two. It has changed a long time ago. What's wrong with going home to worship your ancestors? What's wrong with getting some money for my mother's house? What can I do if I waste some time at my parents' house? I earn money, have children, raise children and take care of them outside. I don't have the right to go home yet. It's definitely not easy for me, home.