What is the meaning of the sentence "there are three chaos in the family, and it is difficult for future generations to get rich"? Does the ancestor's words make sense?

From the day I can remember, my parents and teachers taught us that we must be a good boy who loves cleanliness and pays attention to hygiene.

It is not only the traditional virtue of our Chinese sons and daughters, but also the respect for others.

I have seen all kinds of disgusting behaviors in the report more than once. The glamorous girl turned the rental house into a garbage dump.

From the moment I opened the door, the pungent stench was suffocating.

It's hard to imagine how she survived in such an environment.

Fortunately, such people are very few after all.

I don't think anyone with normal IQ and mental health will do such a dirty thing.

It is not only the landlord who hates such a tenant, but everyone else will sneer at her.

Don't make a mess of the original clean room, even if the room is a little messy, it will leave a very unfriendly impression on others.

Therefore, the ancestors have long said: "There are three chaos in the family" and "it is difficult for children and grandchildren to be rich".

This sentence of the ancestors has been circulated among the people for thousands of years, and people are convinced and take it as a warning.

Since it is so popular, it shows that the ancestor's summary of this life experience is very philosophical.

Although there is only 10, it contains a lot of information.

As long as we know what the "three chaos" refers to, the whole sentence will be easy to understand.

I finally got the answer to the "three chaos" by working hard with the old people in the village. After listening to the explanation of my elders, I was really convinced, even if it is applied to our daily life, it is very reasonable.

Not much to say, direct dry goods.

This first mess refers to the mess in our kitchen.

First, the kitchen is in a mess, and second, the edible ingredients are in a mess.

As we all know, there was no natural gas when the ancients lived, so an open space must be set aside in the kitchen to store firewood.

If the kitchen furnishings are chaotic, it is easy to cause fire hazards.

Not only that, some foods are compatible with each other, and it is very dangerous to eat them by mistake if they are not clear.

From this perspective, the chaos in the kitchen is a potential safety hazard, and the kitchen is a place to prepare food for family members. Food safety is more important than anything else. In the world of "food is the most important thing for the people", it is no exaggeration to call the kitchen a "heavy device".

We should understand that in farming society, good health is very important, because we have to do manual labor.

Because the kitchen was in a mess and the food was not clean, it eventually made my family sick. That means that after the main labor force is broken and productivity is lost, it is difficult for families to be related to wealth.

Next, let's look at "Erluan". If the kitchen is "important", then the study is forbidden.

In ancient times, people who could read and learn Chinese characters were not simple people.

The study is specially prepared for someone, which displays his favorite books and various learning tools.

In this private area, others are not allowed to get involved easily.

Reading can not only learn knowledge, but also educate people.

Knowledge needs systematic learning and cannot be confused.

If you can't even tidy up the study, how can you do other things well? The ancients said, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" That's the truth.

People who study should have strict logical thinking and do things in an orderly way, which will exert a subtle influence on the younger generation.

If you neglect your studies and do things carelessly, you will go to an extremely difficult road to the imperial examination.

For scholars, if they don't make achievements in the imperial examinations, their lives will basically be in vain.

Without the hope of promotion, it is impossible to pave the way for future generations in advance. It is easy for a family to prosper. Finally, the "third chaos" mainly refers to the unclear relationship and appellation between relatives.

Although there is a saying that "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor", it only applies to families whose relatives are far apart.

In ancient times, people in a family lived in the surrounding area and were very close to each other.

Therefore, the phenomenon of "beating tiger brothers and beating father and son" is widespread.

When you are in trouble, your relatives are the first to help you.

If the relationship and address between relatives become confused, it means that they don't care about each other, and even it is difficult for generations to care. After feeling unfamiliar, it is difficult to realize the friendship that blood is thicker than water, and the impulse to help each other becomes weak.

This is bad news for the whole family.

Conclusion It is extremely difficult for the ancients to sum up such a sentence with their own life experience: "There are three chaos in the family, and it is difficult for future generations to get rich."

In a family, the kitchen and study are in a mess, and the relationship between relatives has become chaotic. It is really difficult for future generations to get rich because they have lost a "platform".

The implication is that our ancestors warned us that we must pay attention to a healthy diet, and only when we are in good health can we have the capital to struggle.

In learning, we must be in good order, and don't have the idea of muddling along, so we can't do things well.

Especially when dealing with relatives, we must be reasonable. At the critical moment, most people who can help us are family members.

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