What is vanity?

Question 1: What does vanity mean? Vanity is a common psychological state of human beings, regardless of ancient and modern times, Chinese and foreign, men and women, old and young, rich and poor. Vanity is a distorted self-esteem, an excessive expression of self-esteem, a character defect of pursuing vanity, and an abnormal social mood and psychological state that people show in order to gain honor and attract general attention.

Vanity is manifested in behavior, mainly in blind comparison, ambition, excessive emphasis on other people's evaluation, strong desire for self-expression, strong jealousy and so on.

Question 2: What is vanity? Excessive self-esteem, especially good face, and the pursuit of superficial glory have led to vanity. For example, you can't correctly evaluate yourself and take the glory of your parents or others as your own; For fear of being looked down upon by others, regardless of whether the economic conditions allow, they keep up with each other in dressing; In terms of knowledge, I don't know how to pretend to understand; I always want to show that I am always right, and I can't listen to other people's criticism of myself, and so on. These are all manifestations of vanity. Vanity is built on inferiority complex. People with vanity are very concerned about their image in the eyes of others. In order to appear as good as others or superior to others, they will always involuntarily cover up their weaknesses. Vanity makes them not try to improve their own strength, but make superficial articles for quick success and instant benefit. As a result, they can't really change their disadvantage, but further lose their self-esteem. Therefore, vanity can't really make us feel inner enrichment, and never-satisfied vanity can only bring endless troubles to people. Vanity and jealousy are common weaknesses of human beings. Psychologists tell us that vanity is a contradiction, a characteristic of human beings, and it is terrible, and its terrible scope is almost infinite. Numerous facts show that normal social relations are lost because of vanity. If you want to find a person without vanity in the world, it is as difficult as finding a human who does not hide his inferiority on the surface. Mothers show off their children, men boast that they are more capable than women, and the rich laugh at the poverty of the poor. It can be said that the circle of vanity is complete, and it is no wonder that sensitive poets want to say "vanity, vanity, everything in the world is vanity!" There are various ways of emptiness, and the ocean is infinite. From race and figure to eyes and nose, it is worth boasting about. Vanity is a characteristic, it takes offense rather than defense, so anyone with strong vanity will become an enemy around him. He doesn't get pleasure and help from interacting with people, but often conflicts with neighbors, colleagues, friends and even relatives. Although vanity can deceive oneself and others, it can never deceive nature, and nature cannot tolerate any insult. Vanity has become a deep-rooted psychological weakness in human nature. So, what methods can be used to avoid disadvantages and make good use of them? Modern psychologists tell us: "Absolutely!" "For vanity, we must not start with how to destroy it, but should focus on how to improve it and induce it to go to useful places. For example, for those who are beautiful and vain, you can let her use beauty as a tool to influence the hearts of young criminals; For a rich and vain person, you can ask him to take some as a charity fund, or run a business to give others all kinds of security; For talented and vain people, you can make them make more contributions to society. Then, vanity, an obstacle in normal interpersonal communication, will benefit us. Since ancient times, countless people have praised the realm of Tao-"there are thousands of walls, and it is difficult to fill them." "How many people can do it? The so-called lofty, mostly helpless choice. Once famous hermits in history, such as "Mei Wife Crane" and "Seven Sages of Bamboo Forest", could not get rid of the influence of officialdom honor and disgrace, and after vicissitudes, they became pale and powerless. This is also a sad sadness. People don't want to be too bad, they always want to get ahead. So we can see how many people are fighting for fame and gain, even by hook or by crook. So people are cold and warm, and the world is cold. In modern times, it is a good phenomenon that many young people flaunt their individuality and pursue the realization of self-worth. However, with the increasing money worship, power desire and comparison psychology, many distorted human nature are presented naked in front of people. Not to mention Mathilde in the necklace, the stingy blacksmith in Nikolai Gogol's ghosts, they are just a group of slaves drowned by vanity. To uncover the warmth of human nature, everyone has vanity in his subconscious. Yu once wrote in an article: "Don't let the evil wolf in your heart dominate you. "This means that sin will get bigger and bigger like a snowball, and eventually some people will go crazy and become slaves of vanity, prisoners in prison and even bodies on the execution ground. It is precisely because of this that some ignorant people reproduce the so-called "value" in the most ignorant and extreme way. It is reported that a rural youth killed someone with a knife in a small ballroom in the city. While killing, he shouted: "I am also talented. Why do you eat, drink and be merry, but I am poor ... "It is not difficult to understand that desire is like fire, which makes the devil in my heart embarrassed. Is vanity really that terrible when you brush away the dust and see your true colors? In fact, we don't have to see through the world of mortals and live in seclusion in the mountains >>

Question 3: What is the meaning and expression of vanity? Desire for vanity; Self-esteem for one's appearance, knowledge, function, property or achievements; A desire to show off or praise.

Vanity refers to the psychological state of protecting one's self-esteem in a false way. People with heavy vanity often regard fame and fortune as the internal driving force to dominate their behavior and always care about others' evaluation of themselves. Once others deny themselves a little, they think they have lost their so-called self-esteem and can't stand it.

Question 4: What is vanity? It's a feeling ... compared with others. . . .

I like to compare with others. If I find that I am not as good as her, I will feel annoyed, but if I am better than her, I will feel good and complacent.

Compare what you like with others, such as the popularity of clothes, the brand of mobile phones, and even the appearance.

Question 5: vanity, what is vanity funny, is the reason of vanity.

Question 6: What is vanity? Others want some.

Question 7: What is the vanity of women? ? It is recognized by many people that women are naturally vain. Some people say that this is not a woman's fault, which means vanity is not necessarily a bad thing. If women don't have vanity, men will be very uncomfortable many times. Is that really the case? ...... 1, CHANNEL's suit, GUCCI's shoes, she didn't really need these luxuries, but she had to buy expensive things to show off in front of people. 2. Squeeze into a big company desperately, doing a job you don't like, but the income is not very high, just to get the envy of others. 3. Brag about what an excellent son my husband is and how smart he is. I hope my husband can become a dragon. Let all family members be exhausted by this. 4. Endlessly obtain various academic qualifications and certifications as a capital to show off your cleverness. 5. Say that you are a descendant of a famous person or a noble, and make many ridiculous moves for this. 6. Some of her cleverness is not as beautiful as her, others are not as clever and pretentious as her, and everyone looks down on her. 7. Every man who has seen her likes her. It seems that men all over the world don't want to marry her. 8. She worships foreign clothes, skin care products and cosmetics, and even toilet paper. She also wants to use LV 9 to pretend to be a high-income class, hit her face and pretend to be fat, and go in and out of high-end clubs. She just shared a family of 10. She always said that she was fat and felt that she was a spokesperson for the public, so even if she was only 85kg, she would lose weight crazily.

Question 8: What does vanity mean? What does vanity mean? Everyone should have a sense of honor, but it should be based on seeking truth from facts. If it is based on a fictional and disguised appearance, it is vanity. Vanity often exists in everyone, but in different degrees and forms. Vanity is self-deception, and often it can't deceive others. You can only deceive yourself and bring yourself pain. You should be good at overcoming your vanity.

Question 9: What does vanity mean? From the professional point of view: vanity desire; Self-esteem for one's appearance, knowledge, function, property or achievements; Praise desire or vanity refers to the psychological state of protecting one's self-esteem in a false way.

Personal understanding: it's better than boasting and pretending. ..

Question 10: What is vanity? What kind of person has a strong vanity? I care about other people's eyes very much. In order to get their compliments, I want to be perfect in front of others. I feel I have face. I will be jealous of people who are better than myself, blindly compare with them and lose myself.