How to change your destiny (the only way to change your destiny)

I saw some well-known self-media people writing articles in the Book of Changes, saying that truly powerful people never tell fortune. Tell me about the personal experience of fortune telling, which proved to be inaccurate.

I don't advocate fortune telling, not because fortune telling is inaccurate, but because fate can be changed. The current situation of the Book of Changes is that a few people are proficient, some people are addicted, and most people don't understand. Even some people's mentality is to worship a master, learn some skills, and then tell others fortune, half understand and half guess, and make money by this.

This reality leads some people to praise the Book of Changes, while others criticize it, each with its own basis.

In fact, human ancestors are not as primitive as western scientists say, especially the Chinese nation. Some advanced cultural heritages have been handed down from ancient times, and the Book of Changes and Huangdi Neijing are some small miniature.

If you carefully read Historical Records and Shangshu, you will find that the astronomical calendars recorded in the book during the period of Three Emperors and Five Emperors are not behind modern astronomy and astrophysics in exploring and forming the knowledge system of the universe.

In ancient times, there was a university called He Lv. The Book of Changes is only a part of it, and there are many other systems, such as Daoism, Six Benevolence Shinto, and Taiyi Shenshu. These knowledge systems have been silently circulated among the people in the form of mentoring for thousands of years.

Of course, if there is inheritance, there must be loss.

In my opinion, fortune-telling is accurate for those who are truly passed down. Unfortunately, such people are rare. In addition, even if what has happened is accurate, the accuracy of future prediction will be reduced. Because the future is changeable.

In addition to time and space variables, individuals also have variables.

Some people, through self-control, self-discipline, or practice, change their fixed belief patterns, and their fate will change accordingly, and fortune-telling will not be allowed. This is why the ancients said that the life of a man of practice is uncertain.

Confucius and Mencius said, "Those who are good at easy things don't anticipate, and those who know easy things don't take it."

Those who truly understand the essence of the Book of Changes and have insight into the laws will not stay at the level of divination. Because, he knows that he has variables and opportunities for change. Only the unchangeable can be inferred.

When I was young, I was dubious about fortune telling. When people reach middle age, they have deep social experience and deep spiritual cultivation, especially after reading the Book of Changes. Now I don't tell fortune at all, and I don't participate. Because I like to challenge the limit, seize the variable less than 10% and dominate my life.

It is the majority of 90% who say that destiny cannot be violated. Your belief pattern determines your life pattern. If you think that destiny cannot be violated, then you are doomed. There is nothing to say.

The only way to change your destiny is to reorganize your belief pattern. Einstein said that it is more difficult to change a person's fixed thinking than to separate an atom.

It can be seen that a person's thinking mode is very stable, just as the saying goes, "a leopard cannot change its spots."

This is why the fate of many people can be accurately calculated.

Because the thinking mode you have formed is too strong, the unchangeable things are predictable. Only things that change are unpredictable.

There are many cases around.

The pattern of some people is grumpy and aggressive. Everyone knows that such a fate will lead to trouble sooner or later. With the switching of time and space, the running of fleeting years, the alternation of forward and backward, it is easy to infer in which years there was a disaster.

Therefore, it is useless for us to tell fortune, because fortune-telling cannot avoid disaster. The only way is to change your life and your belief pattern.

A grumpy, stubborn and aggressive person has completely changed and become open-minded, calm and happy. This radical change will change people's destiny. Unfortunately, most people can't change their existing belief patterns, so their lives are doomed to failure.

With a firm determination and a heart that is not afraid of suffering, time will change little by little until it is completely changed. Nevertheless, a leopard cannot change his spots. However, it is just "difficult to change", not impossible to change. There are successful cases.

I changed it myself. It took seven years to break down the fixed thinking mode and let nature take its course.

The transformation process lasted seven years from 20 13 to 2020. This process is extremely difficult and painful. However, once you change it, like a caterpillar into a butterfly, your life will enter a brand-new world, and it will never be the same again. The suffering of the past seven years is worth it! Your tears are worth it! Suffering day and night is worth it!

These are my shared views. Wise men have different opinions, and different people have different opinions.

I don't care what others say. It doesn't matter whether you agree with me or criticize me. Behind the approval and thinking, everyone's thinking mode is running, and then a conclusion is drawn.

Lao Tzu said that babies are closest to the realm of enlightenment when their minds are not yet mature. The mature mind of adults can make them get along well in society and stay away from the road at the same time. Is there any way to balance it?

That is "three times a day", re-examine, correct and change your own inherent thinking mode, let go of persistence and let everything go with the flow.

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