Are horses similar to dragons?

Marriage is the continuation of marriage discussion, and premarital marriage is an indispensable key link in the old-fashioned marriage process for men and women. Whether to get married or not depends first on whether the zodiac signs of both men and women match. In Yuxian, the most taboo thing is: "A white horse makes a green cow, sheep and rats rest, snakes and tigers stand like knives, dragons and rabbits exchange tears, golden roosters are afraid of jade dogs, and pigs and monkeys have no end." Why is it forbidden to get married in old-fashioned marriages? There are some jingles circulating among people.

One said, "Since ancient times, a white horse has made a mistake, and ten people are worried about nine people. Marriage is a crime, and it is difficult for couples to end up. "

Secondly, he said, "once the sheep and the mouse meet, it will be very sad for men and women to match." Please don't be a sheep and a mouse. It's hard for couples to be together. "

The third said: "The snake and the tiger intersect with knives and files, and men and women are in conflict. Having children, adopted daughters, parents, broken families, tears streaming down her face?

Fourth, he said, "Jade Rabbit and Dragon communicate with tears, but unfortunately they frown when they get married." A man and a woman fight each other, suffering like Huang Lian's sorrow day and night.

Fifth, it is said that "a golden rooster and a jade dog are inevitable, and the party that marries cannot meet." It is impossible for the two to compete, and the world is taboo. "

Sixth, he said: "Pigs are not worthy, and men and women can't cry day and night, which is not conducive to the family."

Secondly, whether the age of men and women is the same. In the old society, the woman was one year older than the man, and the man didn't marry, saying, "It's hard for a wife to be a freshman." Then there are men and women of the same age, and the difference in birth time is 100 days. As the saying goes, "one family can't tolerate two tigers." However, the spouse born in the same month of the same year is married, and the spouse born in the same month of the same year is married. At the same time, there are some folk sayings, such as "the youngest wife holds the golden brick", "the eldest wife competes for the old mother" and "if you want to be rich, be a snake in the dish". These marriages have been recognized by society.

In addition, you have to ask a fortune teller to calculate the fate of both men and women. If a man and a woman are meant to be, then they can't get married. If men are destined and women are the fire of life, they can't get married. The so-called "Jin Kemu, water can be used for alchemy, wood can be turned into soil, and soil can be used for alchemy." These marriages are all marriages. However, if the woman commits eight defeats, hoodwinking and other crimes. And this is also a taboo among the people, such a marriage will never be realized. The above taboos and statements are purely feudal superstitions, and now they can't be believed. But in the past, only when both men and women did not commit the above taboo, then parents agreed to post it.

Sticking is still a feudal superstitious activity. That is, the woman will write the birthday of the person who is about to get married on a piece of red paper and let the matchmaker send it to the man's house. After receiving the post, the man should put it under the tablet of Kitchen God for three or seven days, which is called "pressing the post" by the people. During the "post-pressure" period, if someone in both men's and women's families is sick, or someone goes out on business smoothly, or even someone accidentally breaks a bowl, it proves that there is no marriage between men and women, and the marriage is over. The man asks the matchmaker to send the post back to the woman's home. This is called "no previous life, destiny takes a hand". If both men and women are safe at home during the "paste-pressing" period, the first battle of marriage will be successful, and the engagement ceremony will be held according to the traditional folk custom (reading Xu in dialect).