What routines have touched your heartstrings?

Since ancient times, the true feelings can't be kept, and only routines have won people's hearts. So today I'm going to talk about how to make the right action to pick up girls and avoid being rejected. As a girl, let me analyze what skills can really attract the right girl.

1. Never use ostentatious routines.

There is no denying that showing your strengths in front of the person you like is a good starting point, but please all boys master the scale, ok?

For a simple example, many boys think that girls like to learn bullying, so when girls casually talk about astronomy and geography or other topics that are high-end, he starts talking and forgets about popular science. The most taboo is that some people always reveal a kind of "you don't know this, let me give you a good science!" " Tone, no girl will like to use themselves to reflect the "wisdom" of boys, which is taboo. Don't talk about it like a broken kite. Have you considered the feelings of girls? Maybe they just mentioned it easily or suddenly thought of it. Actually, they don't want to hear so much from you. No girl likes to fall in love with a boy who is full of truth and knowledge. They just want to find a boyfriend who can understand them with their thinking leap, and this boy happens to be a schoolmaster who knows a lot of knowledge.

One more thing, don't think that girls have never seen the world, make an appointment to take people to higher places, and then show off how they often come in the dark like old drivers. Which girl will do this and make people feel inferior in the eyes of boys? At this time, we should ask the girls what they like to eat and where they want to eat, then let them order first, and then order directly without looking at the menu or just say "just like my future girlfriend" It's not stuffy.

To put it simply, girls really prefer smart and well-informed boys (this definition is very different from that of Xueba), but such ostentation will give you extra points. Girls like to show off at the right time. When chatting, they can slowly guide their girls to tell them about the boys they are good at, which will make them feel particularly comfortable and relaxed to chat with you because you can answer anything she says, just like everyone who knows you will.

2. Refuse to use vulgar routines all the year round

Most normal boys know that when talking to girls, we should pay attention to the scale and discretion of speaking. They know that some jokes can be made and some jokes can't be made, but there are always boys who don't know whether the brain circuit is too strange or the brain is full of sperm. They think that opening a yellow cavity is a symbol of a good relationship with sister paper, and even use it as a means of picking up girls. What I'm trying to say is excuses? Me? Shall I delete you twice?

To tell the truth, it's nothing to have a yellow talk with your good brothers and friends. They are all energetic single young people, but they still feel that they have unique masculinity and humor when they talk with a girl who has not caught up with them. It is true that some people say that "girls are cute when they are dirty", but other "dirty girls" like to show pure and ignorant teenagers (of course, most of them are pretending). Those little girls who never talk yellow don't think you are "sexual harassment", but they just feel like looking for a sexual friend when they report you.

Let me give you a simple example. I have a beautiful child who went out to play with friends one day. After I came back, I happily posted a beautiful selfie and delicious food in my circle of friends, and wrote "Your good friend Gina (her name) is online ~". As a friend who didn't go because she was not in one place, I need to praise and comment. When I finished praising, I suddenly saw the following comment: I saw that this comment was sent by a male friend, as if I wanted to chase her, but I didn't seem to know her very well because I accidentally added a friend. In our small group, she directly said that she looked stupid and felt disgusting because the circle of friends overlapped. I also saw someone cutting pictures to tease her in another group. As a result, when the small partner seriously expressed the hope that the other party would delete the message, the other party replied, "Just kidding, I wonder if the girl is still cute when she is dirty?" Me and my friend:?

Be reasonable, it is normal for a girl to take a beautiful picture and send it to a circle of friends. She said that there would be no sexiness without a circle of friends, but she received such a strange message from the opposite sex. If you think about it with your toes, you won't think it's a joke, okay And I want to make it clear that boys really like dirty girls, but the dirty object of a girl in front of the opposite sex will only be the boy she likes. Only in front of the boy she likes can she show her little dirty. Don't think that you can solve it just by saying it's a joke. The follow-up to this incident was that the little friend deleted this circle of friends and then added his friends. All the friends who know about this have deleted this person. Of course, the beautiful girl was the first to be deleted.

From my personal point of view, it's really disappointing that an unfamiliar boy speaks yellow. Even if you have a little affection for him, you will be alienated immediately, and no one will think this is humor. Therefore, all the boys who like to speak yellow, I hope you will stop treating vulgarity as humor, and please give the girls you are chasing the minimum respect.

If you are not a warm man, you will be used by a fake warm man.

Since the concept of "warm man" was fired up, many boys have regarded the attribute of "warm man" as an essential attribute for picking up girls. Although I have to say that this attribute is really easy to win the hearts of girls, I still have to consider whether I can become a real warm man before using it.

The correct way to open a warm man is to be gentle and considerate, and to care for others in the right way at the right time. Please note that the key here is to send a warm man in the right way at the right time, not regardless of the occasion and time.

Tell me one thing that I experienced personally. I met a boy at an activity before. When chatting, I found it very interesting, so I left each other's phone numbers and added QQ, and we'll talk at night. Later, I often say good night, but I see good night every time I sleep. I really didn't feel touched at all. After that, I went to bed early at night, and there was no news. Then when I was about to fall asleep, there was a message that I kind of wanted to smash my mobile phone. Then I got up and checked my cell phone regardless of my anger. The content of the message is probably that I never returned and then I kept sending messages for fear that something would happen to me. The most angry thing is the last few words: you didn't sleep, did you? If you fall asleep, I will say good night to you. I hacked him at that time. Thank you. I really slept without you.

Is it really good to keep sending messages in the middle of the night to disturb others and not return to you? If this is the so-called warm man, I would rather not. The so-called send warm, is appropriate to care about. Sometimes, you not only care about yourself, but also feel that you care about others. You have to ask others if they need it first. When you know that others don't need it very much, stop first and know when it is appropriate. They are really warm men with high IQ. Ah, of course, if you happen to be the person your sister likes, no matter how much you disturb others, you may make your sister excited.

What do you think you know about these three taboos? In fact, what is really easy for girls to accept is not routine, but sincerity. Many people are superstitious and rely on routines, believing that all feelings have rules to follow, but the real emotional problems are far more complicated than routines. Only those who have explored them will know that some feelings can never be taught by routines.

Besides these, I will do some routines, which can add a little fun to everyone's life.

"Let me tell you a story."

"hmm"

"Once upon a time, there were two people, I love you and I don't love you. I don't love who is left after your death. "

"I love you."

"I love you too"

"May I kiss you?"

"no"

"What did I tell you just now?"

"May I kiss you?"

"Well, yes."

"May I ask you the way?"

"Where to"

To your heart

A girl sang the song "Like You" at the school gala, and we were all listening. Then a boy I have a crush on suddenly came up to me and asked me what song it was. I said I liked you without thinking. He suddenly laughed. I turned around, and he said he had just videotaped it and told me not to cheat.

I asked him what his routine was, and he said, my routine is to follow your routine every day, and I will do whatever you want.

Writing here, as a single Wang was treated as dog food in the cold ice rain, I want to say to the majority of single men: Brother, I can only help you here.