Is there really a saying that it is not smooth for a family member to die for three years? How to break it?

After the death of a loved one, it will be unlucky for three years. What should we pay attention to in these three years?

In fact, the death of a loved one is a very sad thing, because the death of a loved one may be unacceptable to many family members, especially the relationship is relatively good. So in this case, many people think that after the death of their loved ones, they will rhyme for three years. In fact, I think this is normal, because it takes some time to get used to it after the death of a loved one.

Only when I get used to the death of my loved ones can my life gradually improve, because during these three years, I may not be too happy and my whole mental state is relatively depressed, so I should pay attention to some things in this case. Seeing this, you may have questions. What should I pay attention to? What can be avoided as much as possible?

In fact, I think there are still many things to pay attention to. The first thing to pay attention to is to try not to make a fuss. Especially some unimportant things, because after unimportant things happen, it coincides with the death of relatives. So in this case, we should try not to make a fuss, and keep a simple and cautious attitude in order to be worthy of the people we love. I think if we make a scene during this period, it may be disrespectful to our loved ones.

Because there was an ancient saying that filial piety should last for three years after the death of a close relative, this view has changed now, but necessary measures are still needed. Because some customs formed in ancient times have been deeply engraved in our bones, we can be flexible, but the basic content of the whole must be maintained. Only in this way can we be worthy of the people we love.

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