The textbook "How to survive" in sixth grade oral communication

To learn to survive, we must first understand why people live!

When you understand, you will know that in order to live, you must learn a lifestyle that suits you!

Spring, summer, autumn and winter, the four seasons of people, time flies, and people's footprints. From the moment of birth, human beings began to wander in the season of life and began to survive on the new Long March. If you learn to survive, you must pursue something. Therefore, we can't be kites in the sky, blindly led by the thread, and have no goal. To live in pursuit, learn to live, and learn to be strong. People's survival is restricted by the environment, but we should be the masters of the environment. Life is full of ups and downs, but we can't lose our way. Don't exhaust yourself in survival, you must overcome fragility. To learn to survive, we must bravely transcend: how can fish in the water evolve into more progressive amphibians without surpassing? Terrestrial vertebrates cannot surpass or become birds. God will never care for those who put their hands together and pray sincerely, leaving opportunities for those who dare to surpass them.

To be a man, you must have a plan. A man without a plan is like a puppet with a elm head. They lack autonomy in life and are at the mercy of others. Of course, there is no harm in scheming here, not calculating other people's hearts, not playing tricks and cheating. To be an upright person, there is no room for a little haze in your heart. Such people are pure people. On the contrary, people who specialize in politics and deception will eventually suffer the consequences.

Have a little ingenuity and draw wisdom from life. Never experienced the baptism of society, never experienced the tempering of life, such people are always simple and natural, without the slightest intention. Being wet in the world for a long time and having more experience will naturally produce scheming, so scheming is also the concentration and refinement of life.

It is also the need to protect yourself from harm to keep a little scheming in dealing with people. The scheming is not used to harm people, but to protect yourself. As the saying goes, harming others is not good for yourself. Human feelings are warm and cold, the world is cold, and things in society are complicated. In the face of such a world without any hidden secrets, how can we properly safeguard our own interests?

In addition, the mentality should be maintained not only in interpersonal communication, but also in the long journey of life. On the one hand, people are communicating with the world, on the other hand, they are communicating with themselves. One is "social self", which should bear social responsibility and communicate with the outside world; The other "I" is the "individual me". This "I" is connected with my heart and is responsible for absorbing life experience and condensing life wisdom. The scheming left by this "individual self" will affect a person's life and destiny.

Once upon a time, two hungry people were blessed by an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of huge fresh fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. Those who get the fish build a bonfire with dry wood and cook the fish on the spot. He wolfed down the fish, but didn't taste the meat of fresh fish. In a flash, he ate all the fish with soup. A few days later, he ate all the fish. Soon, he was starved to death by the fish basket.

Another man who got the fishing rod walked towards the sea with it. He walked hungry for several days. When he finally saw the blue sea in the distance, he exhausted his last strength and couldn't walk any further. In the end, I can only fall next to my fishing rod, leaving the world with endless regrets.

Two hungry people were also blessed by their elders: a fishing rod and a basket of fish. But they didn't go their separate ways like the previous two times, but agreed to look for the sea together. The two of them embarked on a journey with fish and fishing rods. On the way, they only cook one fish at a time. After a hard journey, they finally came to the seaside. Since then, the two began to make a living by fishing. A few years later, they built their own house, had their own family and children, had their own fishing boat and lived a stable and happy life.

Similarly, in the face of fishing rods and baskets full of fish, the four people have different performances: the first two people only pay attention to immediate interests and get only temporary satisfaction and long-term regret; The latter two are very scheming, knowing that the wisdom of life lies in aiming high but being based on reality, so they cooperated and played the dual roles of fishing rod and a basket of fish, and finally lived a happy life they expected.

Sometimes, a muddled situation can really make people lose a lot of things that originally belonged to them. Turn a blind eye to the things in the world, do not pay attention to observation and in-depth analysis, can only be confused for a lifetime. Drawing strength and wisdom from life and reality is a gift of fate.

People often discuss the most important topics in life. In fact, the most important thing for people is the right to live. Without the right to life, nothing can be said. The existence of conspiracy is the inevitable guarantee of the right to subsistence. It may be exaggerated to say it, and it is not too much to think about it. Only those crafty people can save themselves from harm in all kinds of dangers and threats.

In ancient times, there was an emperor who especially liked fortune telling. He keeps a fortune teller in the palace and worships him very much. One day, the fortune teller calculated that a concubine in the palace would die within eight days. When the prophecy came true, the emperor was frightened. He thought that if the fortune teller didn't murder concubines, he would be too accurate. The magic of fortune tellers threatened the emperor. In either case, the fortune teller will die.

One day, the emperor will summon a fortune teller. In advance, he ambushed the soldiers and told them to wait for his signal. As soon as he broke the cup, the ambush soldiers rushed out to catch the fortune teller and pushed him out to behead him.

When the fortune teller arrived at the palace, the emperor asked the fortune teller one last question before giving the signal. He wants to see how capable the dying fortune teller is and whether he can really predict his future. He asked, "You claim to be a fortune teller, and you know the fate of others, so tell me what your fate will be and how long you will live?"

The fortune teller was taken aback. Why did the emperor suddenly ask this question? He noticed the smile on the emperor's lips. He calmly replied, "Your Majesty, I will die three days before you."

The emperor held the glass tightly and never gave a signal. The fortune teller's life was saved Not only that, the emperor generously rewarded him and sent a clever doctor to take care of his health. Finally, the fortune teller even lived a few years longer than the emperor.

Fortune-tellers live longer than emperors because they work hard to survive. The emperor was jealous of the fortune teller's skill and wanted to harm him, but the fortune teller's scheming helped him tie his life with the emperor's. In this way, the emperor wanted to kill the fortune teller, but he was afraid to get the boat. The fortune teller saved and expanded his life situation for himself.

In order to survive, you have to keep your own scheming. Only those who are open-minded and open-minded can be called wise men. Trick is a means to help us win a happy life. It protects us from harm. This kind of scheming is also indispensable.

Planning is part of strategy. People who are good at planning are schemers, but don't think that scheming is calculating others. More often, I try my best to survive. The scheming is the expression of wisdom and the symbol of self-protection. People who have no scheming will be hurt differently by the outside world and themselves. Life lies in planning, and scheming can also ensure the success of planning. Only in this way can life not be wasted and can make a difference.

Make good use of it-a few words of life advice

Planning is to be prepared; Winning a thousand miles is to implement the strategy.

Smart women can cook without rice. Without rice, she can look for it, but she can't wait for the fire to go out.

A wise man needs a little, not a lot, but a little.