Why did Jiang Ziya make his ex-wife a jinx?

I remember that Jiang Ziya's marriage experience is described in three chapters in The List of Gods. At the age of 32, he went to Kunlun Mountain and became a Buddhist disciple in the early Yuan Dynasty. He practiced for more than forty years. At the age of seventy-two, he got the imperial edict from Master and went down the mountain. At this time, Jiang Ziya, who had no uncles, brothers and sisters or sons and nephews, had to go to the sworn friend of the Song Dynasty outside the south gate of Chao Ge, was proposed as the bride by the Song Dynasty, and married the 68-year-old daughter of Majiazhuang. For such a typical rare marriage of leftover men and women, we should cherish it and manage it well. However, due to the problem of his wife Ma Shi, conflicts often occur between husband and wife. It wasn't long before they parted ways. So the festival was changed, and Jiang Ziya left for Xiqiao and was hired back to Zhou.

According to the book, Jiang Ziya tried her best to maintain this marriage, and expressed helplessness and sigh at their breakup. But Ma refused to listen to Ziya's hard advice and insisted on breaking up. This is because horses don't like their husbands' misfortunes, that they can't help each other, and that they don't want to live a poor life. Jiang Ziya Since the Song Dynasty and the marriage, Ma Shi felt that it was not a long-term solution for the couple to live on the Song Dynasty, so he advised Ziya to do some business in the future and keep her vitality. Although Ziya "studied Taoism in Kunlun at the age of 32 and knew nothing about world events", she agreed to Ma's request and made hedges with her original skills and sold them. Grinding and selling noodles in other people's homes; My friend and I opened a restaurant in Chao Ge as shopkeepers. Go to the market to sell pigs, sheep, cattle and horses; He also opened a life museum to help people calculate their lives. But Jiang Ziya, after all, is a man of law, and he doesn't know how to do business. Although he has tried many times, he still got nothing. When selling hedges, one is taken out and the other is brought back. After selling for a day, none of them can be sold. Selling noodles, running all over Chao Ge, not only can't sell a catty, but all the noodles are sprinkled on the ground and returned home empty; Open a restaurant, from morning till night, ghosts don't come to the door, stinky pigs, sheep and vegetables, fold a lot of money, and never sell a penny; Selling pigs, sheep, cattle and horses, violating the law prohibiting slaughter and trafficking by the Emperor of Heaven, fled hastily and did not give up going home; Fortune-telling, no business for several months, no fortune-telling post for four or five months. Ma Shi is very dissatisfied with Jiang Ziya's dilemma that "every business can't go on, resulting in losses and capital exhaustion". He often complains, his head is screaming, and the husband and wife are constantly quarreling. He regarded her husband as a useless hanger to make a living, ate and drank, didn't like him at all, and gradually began to think of breaking up.

Ma was dissatisfied with Jiang Ziya's abandonment of official position, looked down on him and doubted her husband's ambition. When Jiang Ziya told da ji's sister Jade Pipa fortune-telling, she was burned to death with Sanwei Zhenhuo. Da ji instigated Zhou Wang to make him the next doctor and asked him to build a deer platform for Zhou Wang. See Zhou Wang fatuous, don't want to be bossed around, he secretly fled home. Ma Shi was very angry when he saw Ziya give up his official position and refused to grant it. He is puzzled about the gain and loss of wealth. I think Ziya is just a charlatan. Fortunately, she became a doctor. Zhou Wang ordered you to build a platform. Obviously, she respects you. Besides, there is a lot of money and food. No matter what you do, you can earn some money from Zhou Wang. It's really hard to figure out why such a good thing is not done. When Ziya asked her to go to Xiqiao to be an official with the Ming Lord, Ma doubled her sneer and said, "What you said is out of date. You have nothing to do with an established official. Go somewhere else with your bare hands! " Isn't this what you think? You are desperate, desperate, and you want to go further and further, and you want to be a good official? "So, no matter how Jiang Ziya advised, Ma always didn't believe it. After listening to a few words, he made up his mind and would break up sooner or later. In fact, Jiang Ziya is an ambitious and ambitious person. He is obsessed with the study of the art of war, and has great ambitions in his heart, just to help Zhou cut down.

Ma Shi is unwilling to leave his hometown to look after and help his husband. As the saying goes, "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately." This sentence is more suitable for Ma Shi. Ziya said sincerely again and again, "The number of days has been fixed, and each has his own master in the morning and evening", but he still advised Ma to take a long view and go to Xiqiao together, and all shall be well, so don't abandon him. However, Ma has no intention of changing his mind. He will never go to another country. You do what you want, I do what I want. There is no room for discussion. The fate of husband and wife ends here. Ziya said to her, "Why don't you go after the chicken when you marry it?" How can husband and wife be separated? " Ma Shi replied, "My concubine is a singing woman. She left her hometown. You write a piece of paper to divorce me, and I will be reborn separately. I will never go! " . "I am poor here, so you can marry a happy wife again." She had no feelings for love at all, so she changed her holiday with a divorce certificate. Jiang Ziya sighed helplessly: "The mouth of a bamboo snake and the tail of a wasp with a needle can both be self-sufficient, which is the most poisonous woman's heart."

Everything can't be done according to people's wishes. I don't know why. After the reform and opening up, Ma married a farmer named Zhang Sanlao. Life is not as beautiful as she imagined, and she stays in the poor family all day. I heard that Jiang Ziya, who was disdainful at that time, was hired back to China by Zhou Wenwang at the age of 80, and now he has made great achievements. He thought that if he was still with Ziya, he could enjoy infinite wealth. Think about today, why regret it at the beginning. The more he thinks about it, the more ashamed he is, and he has no face to stand on the world. When his late husband was asleep, he hanged himself and his soul went to the altar.

Judging from the breakup between Ma Shi and Jiang Ziya, it is only a question of marriage view, and it is a question that Ma Shi is short-sighted and cannot share joys and sorrows. She didn't engage in conspiracy or deviance. She is straight in everything she says and does, and after breaking up, she didn't bring any disaster or bad luck to Jiang Ziya. Even the "jinx" that people taboo and curse is not true, just some shortcomings. So, why did Jiang Ziya specifically call her a "jinx"?

This paper holds that, firstly, what Ma did was unpopular, and evil was rewarded with evil. Jiang Ziya sealed a "jinx" as retribution for horses; Second, although Ma Shi and Ziya can't be together, after all, they had a husband and wife and sealed a "jinx" as a memorial to Ma Shi; Third, Ma Shi was disloyal to Jiang Ziya, cruel, unwilling to listen to advice, and insisted on leaving, taking sealing a "jinx" as a curse and destruction to Ma Shi; Fourth, Jiang Ziya has the right to order a deity, and perhaps he can take the opportunity to seal a jinx to vent his personal anger.

Nowadays, among many women who choose a spouse, there are many snobbish Malik. They pay attention to reality, pursue wealth, pay attention to enjoyment, and have a weak marriage foundation. Once a marriage relationship is established and a family is formed, if you can't achieve your goals and get satisfaction, you will have conflicts and betray your husband. They can't be faithful, treat each other sincerely and tide over the difficulties together. This tendency is undesirable and must be prevented and overcome.

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