Hao Gengsheng's resume

Hao Gengsheng's wife, surnamed Gao, comes from a well-known family. Originally from Guichi, Anhui Province, she was born in Nantong, Jiangsu Province and studied in the Sports Department of Shanghai Young Women's Christian Association. After graduation, I went to Beijing Women's Teachers College to teach. A year later, I went to the United States for further study and studied at the University of Wisconsin. After returning to China, she served as the director of the physical education department of the National Women's Normal University. Hao Gengsheng and Gao Zi are studying in America at the same time. I admired each other during my study abroad, but I never met each other. Hao Gengsheng is the earliest international student specializing in sports in China, while Gao Zi is the center of the women's basketball team at the University of Wisconsin and the only one from China. Both of them are celebrities among international students. 1924, the third national sports conference was held in Wuhan. Hao Gengsheng presided over the preparations, and Gao Zi led a team to Wuhan as the captain of the East China women's handball team. The two met for the first time. Because they love sports and have similar interests, they hit it off and chatted very speculatively. Since then, two hearts have been closely linked.

65438-0925, Hao Gengsheng teaches at Suzhou University. After the semester, he braved the heat and went to Beijing to apply for the position of associate professor in the Department of Physical Education of Tsinghua University. At that time, three schools issued employment letters at the same time, besides Tsinghua, Southeast University in Nanjing and Xiamen University in Xiamen. Although Hao Gengsheng was not used to life in the north, he chose Beijing without hesitation because Gao Zi was in Beijing. Beijing in the 1930s is a far cry from Beijing today. Tsinghua Campus is more than a mile away from Beijing 10, and it is a wilderness along the way. To take a taxi into town, it's five yuan for one way. Hao Gengsheng often goes to town by bus and pays the fare without stint. On the surface, Hao Gengsheng went to town because he was also the president of Beijing Sports Association above middle school, and he needed to care about the conference work frequently. The real reason is to date Gao Zi. Gao Zi is his vice president.

Two P.E. professors, the headmaster and the vice-headmaster frequently meet, which has caused various discussions in schools and sports federations. There are envious people and jealous people; Some people are happy about it, while others are angry about it. The most talked about is the Beijing Normal University where Gao Zi is located. Gao Zi is lively, straightforward and knowledgeable, and has long been a popular figure. There are many men who pursue her, including university presidents, professors and even older students. A teacher politely described: "Professor Gao is on the playground, just like a butterfly flying among flowers." This "butterfly" fluttered and jumped, but it flew to Hao Gengsheng's side, leaving many "butterfly catchers" empty. A friend joked to Hao Gengsheng, "You were killed from a horde." Hao is very proud of this. Many things happen. Hao Gengsheng chased after Beijing from Suzhou, courted frequently, and finally won the heart of Ms. Gao. 1926 They are officially engaged. 1929 The wedding was held in Beijing on February 6th. On the wedding day, many friends came to congratulate. Their good friend Xu Zhimo specially wrote a lengthy wedding message with three pieces of rice paper. Xu Zhimo and the newlyweds are very familiar and used to joking, so the congratulatory message is humorous and hilarious. Another Tianjin musician friend named Du Tingxiu made a special trip from Tianjin to Beijing to attend the wedding. He sent a pair of handwritten congratulatory couplets. The first part is: two famous athletes, they are integrated. The bottom line is: a wedding event, marriage is not allowed to divorce. The antithesis of the upper and lower couplets is neat, all true, but really elegant, as if it were a prank. He Lian hung high, and everyone read it and laughed. Hao Gengsheng was very embarrassed, so he quickly had He Lian fired. The musician insisted on refusing, but Hao Gengsheng turned against this musician friend who had known him for many years in front of everyone regardless of the wedding date. Later, people learned that Hao Gengsheng lost his temper for fear that the bride would be unhappy.

Hao Gengsheng has a history of being afraid of his wife. In his article "Memories of Forty Years of Married Life", he frankly admitted: "In the long forty years, I don't deny that there are indeed many relatives and friends, both in person and behind, who clearly imply that I am afraid to worship Joe (the name of Gao Zi). Regarding this word' fear', I have a philosophy with 40 years of experience. " Let's see how his "experience" and "philosophy" were formed.

Hao Gengsheng is afraid of his wife, which is said to be "destiny takes a hand". When I was a child, the Hao family was superstitious and asked the fortune teller to calculate Hao Gengsheng's horoscope. The fortune teller stretched out his finger and pushed the fleeting time. When he was counting his wife's wealth, he smiled at the Hao family and said meaningfully, "Your young master, his wife is tall!" " The fortune teller made a lifelong promise. From then on, Hao's family often made fun of him and laughed that he was afraid of his wife. At a young age, Hao Gengsheng didn't know what happened to his wife, so he was labeled as "afraid of his wife". As an adult, relatives and friends still make fun of him, so that he refuses to get married for fear that his wife's mountain will overwhelm him. Hao Gengsheng, who is not married, is afraid of his wife. Hao Gengsheng is afraid of his wife's "pleasure in suffering". After I married Gao Zi, I really realized the taste of "my wife has a high mountain". After marriage, the first problem is unclear family status. On the surface, Hao Gengsheng is the head of the family. In fact, his family started a "double center". In their family, there is only the title of "Mr", but never the title of "Mrs". Servants and drivers call Hao Gengsheng "Sir" and Gao Zi "Mr. Gao". Since they are "gentlemen", everything can be decided. In fact, Gao Zi is in charge of all the big and small things in the family. Every time he gets paid, Hao Gengsheng doesn't dare to spend a penny. He always gives it to Gao Zi intact, and when he wants to spend money, he "applies for approval". Family accounts are Mr. Gao's specialty, and Mr. Hao must not ask. The head of Hao Gengsheng's family has long existed in name only.

The strength of the wife also has great benefits. Hao Gengsheng is a good wine. He tries to be brave at parties and often gets drunk. It's hard to wake up when you're drunk, but when you get home, Gao Zi scolds you as soon as she opens her mouth, and most of Hao Gengsheng's wine wakes up. After a long time, Hao Gengsheng changed his drinking habit. Hao Gengsheng has a bad temper and a combative nature. He likes to argue with his friends. When arguing, his language is sharp and often embarrassing. Especially in public, I like to play some excessive jokes, so I have offended many friends and caused many disputes. Every time this happens, Gao Zi always pulls Hao Gengsheng aside, analyzes what Hao Gengsheng said one by one like a teacher enlightening students, and asks him to admit his mistake before giving up. Sometimes Hao Gengsheng feels that he is right, and all kinds of excuses are of no help. In the end, the impulsive "student" was speechless in front of the "teacher". Hao Gengsheng has a bad habit of eating western food. He likes to stand on the table with a knife and fork in one hand and talk about it. Whenever this question appears, Gao Zi will give him a wink. Hao Gengsheng saw Deng Yuan's eyes with high posture, and immediately lost interest. He honestly put down his knife and fork and bowed his head to eat. After a long time, I actually changed this problem.

Hao Gengsheng was really helpless when he was afraid of his wife. First, Gao Zi's eloquence and literary talent are better than Hao Gengsheng's, and he quarreled with him. Hao is no match for his wife, so he can only candidly admit defeat; Second, Hao Gengsheng works anticlimactic, and Gao Zi can concentrate on everything and keep improving, so Hao Gengsheng has to obey; Third, in daily life, Gao Zi treats people well and is very popular, but Hao Gengsheng often offends people, and Hao Gengsheng is not as good as his wife. There are also great differences in their personalities. Hao Gengsheng's personality tends to be bold and unconstrained, while Gao's style is more rigorous. There are inevitably no contradictions in life, and "jingle" things happen from time to time. Whenever there is a dispute, it is often Hao Gengsheng's concession and concession to calm down the contradiction. After more than 40 years of marriage, it is often "women sing with their husbands."

Hao Gengsheng has such a rich experience of being afraid of his wife, and his philosophy of being afraid of his wife is very distinctive and reasonable: "First of all, I don't think being afraid of his wife is a ridiculous thing. In the old feudal family in China, the wife had only passive obedience and silent protest to the master, and everything was subject to the master's opinion. When it comes to modern marriage, I can categorically say that this method of "staying at home as a husband" will definitely not work. In modern families, the wife's rights should be supreme, and the wife should be the first. In any modern family, at least three-quarters or even four-fifths are headed by wives, and husbands are only in a position to provide advice when things are difficult. Moreover, most of the advice provided by gentlemen is not clever, which will only make it difficult for wives to handle housework in vain.

"As far as my 40-year marriage with Gao Zi is concerned, I once thought that in these 40 years, I really don't know what to do if Gao Zi is not in charge of housework. With my ability to cope with life, I can only keep the corner of the study clean at best, and then expand the scope, I will be at a loss. In addition, in the past 40 years, due to the hard work of Gao Zi, we were forced to leave our homes, moved at least 20 times and established 20 new families. So to say that any family is maintained by husband and wife, and the word' * * * is maintained by me' is inevitably exaggerated. "Secondly, the wife has one of the most sacred and important tasks in the family, and that is to have children. The troubles and pains my wife suffered when she gave birth to a child are beyond the personal experience of gentlemen, and they can never imagine. Children are the source of family happiness and happiness. In this matter, the husband enjoys success and the wife has bitterness. Therefore, a wife deserves her husband's respect.

Moreover, the word "wife-phobia" has been ridiculed in our country for a long time. Today in the 1970s, it should have been eliminated a long time ago. The word' wife-phobia' has been deeply imprinted in my life for a long time. But I always think that "being afraid of his wife" can't be regarded as an insult to men, except for the example of sadism and masochism in the "awakened marriage" mentioned by Mr. Hu Shizhi; The word "afraid" of "wife" needs to be corrected urgently. In my opinion, it is better to respect or love your wife than to be afraid of her; Respecting or loving his wife is enough to show that a man is rational, graceful, admiring or loving his wife, and even dumping and respecting him.

"I publicly put forward my' wife-fearing philosophy'. Some friends may say that I am a real Q, and it is because you are afraid of your wife's Hao Gengsheng that you sing such a high-profile song. My answer to this question is: To be fair, does my wife deserve my respect? Is it worth my love? If someone says that I have been controlled by my wife all my life, then I also want to ask, in these forty years, my wife has never controlled me to do a bad thing, so what is the harm of being controlled by my wife? "

Hao Gengsheng went to Taiwan Province Province with the Kuomintang on the eve of mainland liberation. 1one evening in June, 975, Hao Gengsheng went out for a walk with his friends and was suddenly knocked down by a motorcycle, with brain injuries and dying.