How to refuse others' help?

I think we just need to say no, thank you properly, I can do it myself, and a smile of thanks should be enough, so that we can emphasize thanks! However, if it is an easy thing and others still want to help and you still want to refuse, please allow me to guess that this person is probably unfamiliar. In view of some books I have read before and the research on human behavior, this person is either very enthusiastic or wants to deal with you!

In modern social life, many people will encounter a problem, that is, rejecting others. Some people say, "It's hard to refuse others, but everything can't be satisfactory." So, how to refuse others? Have you learned the skill of deftly rejecting others? It is often difficult to refuse others. Sometimes you are embarrassed but don't want to offend others, and you reluctantly agree. In fact, you can refuse others like this!

First of all, you can say yes first and then politely refuse later. After all, some things will really hurt the requester's self-esteem and eventually end in discord, so you can choose to pretend to be generous first, and then turn around and refuse most subtly. Secondly, when you are embarrassed to refuse something, you can also choose a good time to pretend to be embarrassed in front of the requester. If you know the subconscious, you can understand that talking to yourself is actually a manifestation of the subconscious. This method can also be understood as: playing dumb, life is hard to be confused!

I think it is a profound knowledge to refuse others and not offend others in life. How to learn to reject others better requires more accumulation. Everyone is unique and has his own set of behaviors. The method I give you here is a general method, and you can master it flexibly according to your own situation!