If you can meet one of the three "noble people" in life, you will be blessed.

Author: Han Yu pondered over the first of the eight masters in Tang and Song Dynasties, and said, "There are Bole in the world, and then there are swift horses. A thousand miles away, there are not many boles. The "Bole" mentioned here can be understood as a "noble person" in life. ? Thanks to the appreciation of the nobles, 72-year-old Jiang Ziya became the chief think tank from a fisherman, assisted Wang Wen to think independently, assisted Wu Wang to destroy the Shang and Zhou Dynasties, and established the Zhou Dynasty. Therefore, Jiang Ziya himself was named King of Qi and became the founder of Qi and Qi culture. Thanks to the appreciation of the nobles, Han Xin, a nobody who was humiliated by his legs, was promoted to be a general of the Han army, and eventually became one of three outstanding heroes of early han dynasty, and was recognized as "the national warrior of chinese odyssey" and "the god of war". Therefore, it is rare to meet "noble people" in life. If you have the help of noble people, you can fly into the sky and get twice the result with half the effort. In fact, everyone has three "noble people" in his life. If you can meet one, or catch one, you can stop being mediocre and be blessed! ? 1, yourself; Many people like opportunism, are keen on networking, and are eager to get the help of "noble people", so as to reach the sky in one step. But they don't know that it takes hard work to strike while the iron is hot. Only when you are valuable will the nobles lend a helping hand. As Li Ka-shing said, "An egg broken from the outside is food, but what is broken from the inside is life. Life is the same, breaking from the outside is pressure, and breaking from the inside is growth. "If you are a potted flower, you will attract bees; If you are a rotten meat, you are bound to attract flies. Therefore, you are the master of life, and what kind of you determines your social circle, which in turn affects what kind of people you will contact. In life, asking for help is often better than asking for help. At the critical moment, you can only rely on yourself, believe in yourself, work hard and create a lot of achievements. You are your own noble person. As Zeng Guofan said in his family letter: "There will be no seeds, and there will be no seeds for sages and heroes. As long as people are willing to make up their minds, they can do it. " ? The Book of Changes said: "Heaven is powerful, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement. "Einstein also said a similar famous saying:" Bitterness and sweetness come from the outside, strength comes from the heart, and comes from our own efforts. These two proverbs are warning people that people should be willing to endure hardships, strive for self-improvement and strive to become "noble people" in their own lives. Zeng Guofan summed up the four stages of wealth in his diary: "Dignity is your stage, humility is your stage, things are recovered, and things are rich in existence." "This also shows that only when one's own ability and moral character are strengthened can one attract corresponding wealth. It can be said that it is "helping others", that is, happiness and misfortune are not predestined, and both depend on what you do the day after tomorrow. When you work hard, the whole world will make way for you. Therefore, the greatest "nobleness" in life is not others, but ourselves! Strive hard, meet your best self, and you will bring your own "extravagance"! ? 2. Mentor; A person's vision and strength are often limited, and he should know how to accomplish things with the help of external forces. As the saying goes: "Reading thousands of books is not as good as reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is not as good as reading countless people; "There are countless readers, not as good as famous teachers." It can be seen that a good teacher can enlighten us in time, help us point out the maze, let us wake up ideologically, and then take a good life path. Be a man and do things, don't use tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness. Sharp tools can do a good job. Forward thinking, grand pattern and broad vision are just like "strategy" and "sharpening the knife", which we can learn from good teachers. Confucius is a saint. He is very clever. He used to learn from others, such as Tan Zixue, Changhong, Shi Xianghe and Laozi. Guiguzi is outstanding in wisdom and can be called "seeking holiness". He also wants to learn Taoist thoughts from Laozi. What's more, we are all sentient beings? More importantly, learn from a wise teacher. ? I once saw a class teacher warning my classmates on the internet: it is very important to get into a good university; Do more exercise if you have nothing to do, and health is very important; The important thing is to get married and meet the right person in the future. The head teacher is the tutor of the students. He used his own life experience to tell those ignorant young people how to grasp the key of life, so as to make fewer mistakes and regret less. In addition to people with big ideas, there are teachers in the student days, elders with rich life experience, and they can also be our good teachers. Because the old man's words are often rough, but they contain great wisdom and are very practical, which can avoid us from taking detours. So people often say that "an ancient family is like a treasure". ? 3. Good friends; Mentors will enlighten our thoughts, while good friends will support us more in practical actions. Therefore, as the saying goes, "You depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." Zeng Guofan also concluded that "the success or failure of life depends on whether your friends are virtuous." Without the help of "good friends" such as Sean, Xiao He, Han Xin, Fan Kuai, Cao Can and Zhou Bo, Liu Bang could not have defeated Xiang Yu and achieved some success. Without the help of Tanghe, Xu Da, Chang Yuchun, Liu Bowen and Li Shanchang, Zhu Yuanzhang could not have defeated Chen Youliang and Zhang Shicheng and finally established the Ming Dynasty. Therefore, one cannot live without friends, especially "good friends". Because "good friends" are "noble people" in our lives! ? Far from it, that is to say, today's large and prosperous enterprises mostly start from the partnership of friends, such as Ma Yun's "Eighteen Arhats" and so on. Having good friends in life can take our career a big step forward, so they are our "noble people"! In addition to helping the career development, friends can also give us spiritual comfort, which is priceless. For example, Mr. Lu Xun said to his good friend Qu Qiubai, "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, so we should treat each other with the same heart." Therefore, a good friend is a noble person in our life! ? Conclusion: if you can constantly strive for self-improvement, you are your own noble; If you can point out the maze, the tutor is your noble person; If you can help each other, good friends are your nobles. Therefore, ourselves, teachers and friends are all "noble people" in our lives; If we can catch one, we can stop being mediocre and have many blessings! Thinking of Jun-carrying forward the essence of traditional culture and spreading the classic wisdom of Chinese studies. Learn a little every day and make progress every day! Friends, have you ever met a "noble person" in your life? Welcome to leave a message at the bottom of the article for interaction! 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