What does a dream of red mansions tell us?

1, granny Liu: It is difficult to be confused, but it is a blessing to suffer.

Granny Liu is an outstanding figure in A Dream of Red Mansions. Sometimes she seems to be playing the fool and making grandma and others happy, but in fact she has her own plans. Her intelligence, sophistication and understanding of human feelings are much better than those of many intellectuals who think they are boring.

Obviously, little things are confused and ignorant, silly and funny, round and warm. To borrow Mr. Mu Xin's words: lend me simple sophistication and obvious stupidity, and lend me mild reckless and serious jokes. Granny Liu is such a silly, clumsy and clever old man, far from the sons and daughters of the Grand View Garden and the rise and fall of the Jia family.

Shi Xiangyun: No matter how hard life is, we should be optimistic.

Many people's memories of A Dream of Red Mansions are sister Lin's small temper, brother Bao's affectionate, Baochai's smooth and gentle, or Tan Chun's strong and keen, and what attracts my attention most is the generous and optimistic tomboy-Shi Xiangyun.

Her poetic talent gives people warmth and hope. Whether it is Bai Hai Tang Fu or Du Ju, the poems we see by Shi Xiangyun are optimistic and unique! The early death of her parents and dependence on others did not change her really lovely personality, nor did it stifle her enthusiasm and vitality in life. Xiangyun still looks after everyone every day.

3. Jia Yuanchun: If you marry well, you may not have a good life.

"Tian She's home, though full of salt and silk, can finally celebrate family happiness. Although I am extremely rich today, all flesh and blood parties have no interest in it! " Jia Yuanchun turned the tragedy of her life into this sentence. This matter has accumulated in her mind for a long time. At this time, she went home to visit relatives and couldn't help crying to Jia Zheng.

Marrying into a rich family is the dream of many women, but marrying into a rich family does not mean a happy life. Only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not; Only you know whether marriage is appropriate or not. Whether you marry money or power, it is better to marry happiness.

4. Jia Mu: Speaking is also a kind of wisdom.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Mu is the best talker. Her language style is simple, concise, bright and vigorous, and every sentence is in the flesh and every word is in the blood. She can switch freely between the spring breeze and the thunder, reaching the state of "no front in the epee, wonderful workmanship".

Talking is to let people know what you mean. As for the effect and purpose, it is not as simple as chatting. Speaking depends on the object, time, occasion and mood, but also on the way. To say or not to say, to tell the truth, to say good things, to say bad things, to use irony, to say irony, to say secret words and to say secret words is by no means a generalization. However, the living environment of the ancients is far from relaxed now, and their wisdom of speaking appropriately is worth learning today.

5. Greed destroyed the family.

Jia's 600-year glory used to be so vigorous. Once it was destroyed, the endless white earth was really clean. The Jia family lost, and the first defeat was greed. Jia people are greedy, vain, corrupt and extravagant. Excessive greed makes them lawless, commit crimes, sweep lawsuits and ignore human lives. A greedy word makes them go further and further on the road of destruction, and finally they can't turn back.