People who live in poverty and have poor fortune will make good use of their own advantages and their happiness will gradually rise.

As the saying goes, "the poor must have something hateful."

Everything has two sides, so does a person's fate. People who live a good life are not born to live a good life, but seize the "turning point" of life, let themselves out of the predicament, and life has been going uphill. The poor also have the opportunity to revolve around Gan Kun. The key is that they can't catch it and always miss the opportunity.

There was an Oracle in ancient Greece-"Man! Know yourself. " Everyone should know themselves, know their weaknesses and strengths, and be able to "foster strengths and avoid weaknesses". Some people are unsuccessful all their lives, in fact, they don't know enough about themselves, and they are in trouble and don't know yet; If you don't know enough about your own advantages, you can't play them out at all.

People who live in poverty will make good use of their own advantages and their happiness will gradually rise. A person's shortcomings, from another perspective, are a person's strengths.

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Kindness: Kindness is the background of life, but it should be sharp.

People who live in poverty are actually kind people, but because they are too kind, they are always bullied and dare not refuse. For example, a person who runs a breakfast shop has been doing business honestly, but some people have eaten the king's meal, but they dare not say anything for fear of retaliation. His weakness led the tyrant to eat without fear and often took a group of people to eat and drink for free.

Be kind, never do evil at any time, but a kind person should have a sharp edge. If you meet someone who does evil or pushes your luck, you should dare to refuse and safeguard your own interests.

As the saying goes, "Mashan is ridden and people are bullied." Being too kind will hurt yourself.

If you can correctly understand your "kindness" and stick to the principle and bottom line of being a man, those who are not kind will be afraid of you and dare not provoke you. Your sharpness is actually saving yourself.

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Capable: Capable people can work harder, but they can't work hard all the time.

There is a word called "people who can do more", that is to say, capable people always have something to do and do more and more things. For example, in a unit, a person with good materials has been writing materials. Because there is no one to replace him, he has never had a chance to be promoted and missed the best age of life development.

Unlucky people are often capable people, because they are too capable. In the unit, things are always unfinished and often work overtime. At home, there are more and more housework, which rotates like a top all year round; When friends get together, they become waiters and have no time to enjoy life.

A person's ability determines how far he can go in the future. However, it is necessary to clearly distinguish between "inside work" and "outside work" in the work, do things well in the work, and do redundant work when you have time, and you can't "accept everything according to the order". If you do what you are responsible for, the effectiveness of one's work will be reflected and the advantages will be more prominent.

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Trust: Be honest, but it depends on who the other person is.

As the saying goes: "Greedy for small and cheap, eat big losses." In fact, people who suffer losses may not be greedy for petty gain, but trust others too much. Believe what others say, you have suffered. If you don't trust others, then what others say will not be heard.

People with black faces pretend to smile at others, and at the same time try their best to calculate others. If you trust him, he will steal your interests quietly.

Therefore, men should learn to "seek advantages and avoid disadvantages". Before trusting others, he must see who the other person is, understand his family background and life experience, and refuse to associate with people with criminal records. Those who stay away from evil intentions should strengthen the prevention of those who break their promises. At the same time, take the initiative to be with people with high credibility and make friends with sincere people, and the future life will be happier and happier.

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Contentment: Enough is enough, but you can't stop making progress.

We often advise others to be content. Contentment is the only way to get rid of greed and live freely. When making money, you will not be confused by money, that is, if you earn less, your happiness index will be high.

"Everything is fate, and nothing can be helped by people." Many people think that the poor people who are destined to be doomed should stop tossing, and even have the idea of "breaking the jar and breaking it". In fact, such people are so satisfied that they become people who are not enterprising and do not repent in time.

Unlucky people should learn to toss themselves. Anyway, they have no money or potential. If they toss them several times, it doesn't matter if they fail. Starting over is a big deal. Facts have proved that you will succeed one day if you toss it a few times more.

For example, if you walk into a dead end and there is no road ahead, just look around. Is there a door? If there is no door, it is a big deal to go back and take another road. If you live comfortably and feel happy in an alley, you will be trapped in it all your life.

Breaking the comfortable life, trying to make money, and at the same time controlling your greed, you can advance and retreat freely, and life will be truly successful.

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Self-discipline: persistence is victory, but it must be in the right direction.

The more self-disciplined a person is, the more successful he will be. But you persisted for many years and suddenly found yourself going in the wrong direction. All your persistence has failed. For example, you have always wanted to start a business, but you have mistakenly entered a small business to work. The job is easy and the salary is good, so you gradually adapt to this job. Later, you always wanted to quit your job, but you kept going to work. When you are old, look back and find that you have persisted for so many years, but it runs counter to your own ideals.

Before you insist on doing something, you should think calmly, find a direction that suits you, and plan a "road map" for your efforts in combination with your own reality. In the right direction, every day you stick to it, you will be one step closer to your goal.

People living in poverty don't give up their ideals, but they are in the wrong direction. If you adjust the direction of your efforts, you will have the possibility of success in life.

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Reading: It's never too old to learn, but you must read positive energy books.

Colleague Wuzhou, after his son graduated from college, has been preparing for the civil service exam and studying every day.

Wuzhou often says, "My son is really working hard. I believe he will be admitted this time."

Three years later, Wuzhou's son still hasn't been admitted to the civil service. Yesterday, Wuzhou said to me in dismay, "Unexpectedly, my son reads novels and some messy e-books every day. I really misjudged him. "

When you have nothing, keep reading, but be sure to read positive books. If you choose to develop in a certain industry, you should read more books related to the industry and make yourself a "scholar" in the industry.

People who have a hard life and poor fortune all have the above advantages. Only by making good use of them can they turn over.

People who live a good life actually firmly grasp their destiny and are good at fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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