Changlong Fortune Telling _ How do Changlong ghosts sign up?

Seeing this question reminds me of the incident when I played a vertical roller coaster in Chimelong four years ago.

I went with my sister. After buying tickets and queuing up for all kinds of tossing, it was finally our turn to play. The first project is the vertical roller coaster. When we found our seats and sat down, the staff came to check whether our seat belts were fastened. Everyone pulled to see if the seat belt was fastened. When it was my turn, the staff didn't pull it for me. I was just a little confused and didn't say anything.

So we were sent to the top of 60 meters high, and then there was a moment of vertical descent. Suddenly, I felt the seat belt on my chest loose. Oh, mygod~~ At that moment, my mind went blank, thinking that I must die, and my heart was full of panic, pure panic, and panic about death. I thought it was an illusion when I landed.

After this "death" incident, I not only had acrophobia, but also thought more about death.

Bacon said in On Death: Adults are afraid of death, just as children are afraid of going into darkness. Children's natural fear of darkness grows because of rumors, and so does adults' fear of death.

Death is the end of life and a link in the natural circulation chain. No matter the higher animals standing at the top of the food chain as human beings or the flowers, birds, insects and fish at the bottom of the food chain, none can escape this process. Most people's fear of death is more fear of physical death, ignorance of the unknown world after death, and greed for the world.

However, there is also a saying that "there is still life despite death", which means that the human spirit has the power to transcend life. Although the body is dead, the spirit lives on forever. This will be traced back to Sima Qian's "Bao Ren An": people are inherently mortal, either heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather. In this world, what we have to do is to have a clear conscience, so that we can face death calmly.

How terrible is death?

Many people never think that they will die one day, so naturally they are not afraid.

Before answering this question, let me say something nonsense:

First of all, what is death?

Some people say: Does the definition of death need to be explained? It's just that the heartbeat stops breathing, metabolism stops, and cells begin to decompose.

Yes, we have been thinking like this for thousands of years. As doctors, this is our duty.

But is this really the true meaning of death?

Disappear from this world as if you were not born.

However, we really changed the world, no matter how much contribution we made to this society before our death.

Is it too simple to judge death by the disappearance of the body?

Of course, as an atheist and a doctor, I should not have such idealism.

However, sometimes, I really don't want to believe that my patient is dead. I'd rather believe that they went to another world that didn't need flesh.

Even if there is only human beings in this world forever, there is no heaven.

Ok, now let's put down all this nonsense and get down to business:

I have seen patients who only smile when facing death, and I have also seen patients who are very afraid of death.

For most people, death will make them feel scared.

Because they still have unfinished business, unfinished wishes and no despair of life. For them, death is the end.

As for those patients who are not afraid of death, or even want to die, they have no hope for life and are eager to seek what they can't get on earth in another world. For them, death is rebirth.

One day, I was seeing a middle-aged woman in the emergency room.

She was sent by her family because she took a lot of sleeping pills and committed suicide. Although she was still conscious, she refused to cooperate with all treatments and longed for death.

What shocked me was that many people would cry and refused to cooperate with the treatment, but she told me calmly: Don't save me!

Later I learned that it was the second time that she found out that her husband was having an affair!

I think for her, at least at the moment of taking medicine, it may be really worse than death.

One day, I went to visit a male college student. After arguing with others, he developed symptoms of hyperventilation and respiratory alkalosis: chest tightness, asthma and numbness of limbs!

Although I know it's okay, the patient doesn't know.

He cried and said to me and the nurse, help me, I haven't graduated yet, and I haven't married yet!

This is the most direct and daring child I have ever seen.

So, is death terrible?

When you want to die, it's not terrible at all.

When you don't want to die, it's terrible.

1 the meaning of death

Death is the brain, and the heart stops moving, breathing and beating. No longer has the characteristics of life, lost an action.

Why did two people come?

Some people say, "People come crying and die laughing." I don't quite agree that people don't know anything when they are born, but their parents have taught us love. Talking, walking, studying, maybe there will be some unpleasant episodes in the middle. It's just a landscape on the road.

When we grow up and mix with society, we will find that "it" is not what we imagined. "People" began to have greed, scheming and even hatred for the rich. But there is also light, kindness and simplicity among them. Don't die for those who don't deserve it. Go. It's not stupid.

Is it terrible to die?

You can ask friends around you, or go to the hospital, crematorium, look around and ask them, is it terrible to die? Some people will say terrible, some people will say not afraid. There are many answers. I remember when I was young, I often said that I was tired and might as well die. I have someone to support me.

Then go to hell, then go to hell, that's why I woke up. I have friends, parents, brothers and sisters I still have to struggle, and my dreams have not come true. I still want to live the life I want. What qualifications do I have to die and escape? So living is more important than anything else.

Cherish it! Every day you live is lucky, and you deserve it.

Happy little doctor answers for you. Happy attention

As a doctor in intensive care unit, he experiences life and death almost every day. Fear of death includes patients themselves and their relatives. Everyone and every family have different attitudes.

Tell me about one of my patients. She was angry with her parents and took medicine, but she drank paraquat without antidote. At first, she was fine. She thought she was fine. She will be all right in a few days. As her illness worsened day by day, she knew that she might not get better. She said to her parents regretfully, "mom, I just want to scare you." I don't really want to die. Doctor, help me! " Because there was no antidote for paraquat, the child finally died three days later. I look at her eyes of despair, fear and pleading every day. Death comes day by day, and my parents go to Lacrimosa every day.

Let's start with a patient with massive brain stem bleeding. Judging from the condition, the patient has no hope, but several children just don't give up and persist until their brains die. All the children knelt down to the doctor and asked him to save his father and keep him alive. But the patient still left, and every day I saw several children outside the ward nervous.

However, some people can accept it calmly. There was a patient who lived in ICU for more than a month and suffered from multiple organ failure. The patient told me that the children are fine and filial, so I can go with peace of mind.

Finally, the patient miraculously survived, and several children of the patient were also very rational. The treatment is to trust the doctor and say to me: doctor, I believe you, you did your best, and we know that my father survived.

I think their rationality and calmness about death stems from their understanding of family ties and their awareness of their responsibilities in daily life.

Everyone will die, and we can't face death. Very important things are not serious by nature, and there are too many regrets when you are alive.

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My little uncle shows people things. My impression is that his south house is surrounded by many people asking about their careers, seeing wealth and getting married all day and night. My aunt often quarrels with him, saying that fortune telling is not good for her. They have been married for five or six years and have no children. His mother-in-law, my grandmother, also let them divorce. Although we quarreled, our feelings were deep. ) Later, 1923, they gave birth to a son. At that time, my grandmother was happy to buy meat from the town and pack jiaozi at his house. Later, I heard from menstruation that my uncle had just seen his newborn son. My aunt said that because my uncle can tell fortune, he decided that his son would not survive the twelfth lunar month when he was five years old (these things were later known to my aunt). Then from the day my brother was born, my uncle was like a different person. Whenever he asks him to tell a fortune again, he will add, "You should do more good deeds, accumulate more virtues and do good deeds, and don't know more." In 1995, in the 1990s, there was a non-governmental organization to help the poor in this village. The main purpose is to raise funds spontaneously to provide some material help for poor families, lonely elderly people and children who are out of school. My aunt said that in those years, he often donated his 320 spare money or volunteered to help. It was the Year of the Loong in 2000, and my uncle invited us all to celebrate his birthday. During this period, he drank a lot of wine and told us about it. He said he forgot my brother's birthday, but he couldn't live to be five years old and find someone else. But now that he is eight years old, he tells everyone about his good deeds and urges us to do more good deeds. Now my brother is 27 years old. The father of two children is the owner of a hot pot restaurant. Doing more good can change life, good and evil will eventually be rewarded, and life has a destiny. Only by doing more good deeds can it be solved. People are alive, help those in need when they have the ability, accumulate more virtues, do more good deeds, have more good thoughts, and persist in doing good deeds every day, accumulating virtues and blessings for themselves, their children and their families!