Lin's fortune-telling experience

Women in the Republic of China are often compared, such as Lin and Lu Xiaoman, Bing Xin and Zhang Ailing.

However, among these outstanding talented women of the Republic of China, although Lin was praised by later generations, she died earlier. Lin was only 5 1 year old when he died.

Why such a successful career, a happy family, a person who knows how to advance and retreat, can't have the last laugh like Bing Xin, which deserves people's reflection.

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Lin's growth experience is very tortuous. Although not as miserable as Zhang Ailing, she also endured a lot. Compared with Zhang Ailing's "Becoming famous early", Lin lived step by step and failed to release himself.

At that time, Lin's family, like Bing Xin, was a noble family. Bing Xin's father was appointed as the undersecretary of the navy, while Lin's father was, and he was also the procurator-general of the Beiyang government at that time.

But unlike Bing Xin, Lin is an unmarried daughter and her mother is a stepwife. And his father has a concubine, and he loves her very much, because she gave birth to four boys and a girl for her father Lin.

When Lin was very young, she saw that her parents often quarreled, which directly affected her young mind and led Lin to be more cautious and diligent than others. After years of hard work, Lin finally made her father like herself and took her abroad, but this happy life didn't last long, because her father was defeated and shot because he participated in the struggle between Zhang and Guo Songling.

When I was a child, Lin lived with her mother in a dilapidated backyard and watched her mother change from a rich girl to a dissatisfied housewife in the Republic of China. Lin was only twenty-one years old when he died. Although she is the eldest daughter, she is unable to support this family. Fortunately, the future father-in-law Liang Qichao is willing to help her. However, during her stay in the United States, she still lived a work-study program and went to restaurants to wash dishes for a living. When she was too busy to remember the time, she once drank cold tap water to satisfy her hunger. The hard work and fatigue during this period also have a lot to do with Lin's later illness.

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When Lin/Kloc-was 0/6 years old, influenced by the female architect in the neighborhood, she made up her mind to devote herself to architecture and worked tirelessly for this dream all her life.

When she and Liang Sicheng first met, Liang Sicheng had not yet determined his ambition. She wanted to learn western politics in her father's footsteps, but she changed her mind because of Lin's eloquent influence on architecture. When talking about marriage, Lin also put forward a condition that Liang Sicheng must go to the United States to study architecture with himself, which also played a key role in Liang Sicheng's lifelong determination.

She has a clear understanding of her ideals and realization. Not far from Wan Li, she went to the United States to study, only to learn that the Department of Architecture did not recruit girls. She "saved the country by curving" and enrolled in the Department of Fine Arts, but she took all the courses in architecture. She devoted herself to her studies, and her excellent grades made her a course assistant.

Lin said confidently in an interview with an American newspaper, "I want to bring back the true meaning of the collision between China and the West." After returning to China, she and Liang Sicheng were employed by Northeastern University to establish the Department of Architecture, and applied their study abroad experience to the school. Lin also designed the emblem of Northeastern University "Baishan Blackwater".

Lin suffered from lung disease in his early years, and was displaced from place to place during the Anti-Japanese War, and his condition deteriorated into tuberculosis. However, even though she was seriously ill, she and Liang Sicheng camped all the way, climbed mountains and mountains, traveled to more than 200 counties in China 15 provinces, and surveyed more than 200 ancient buildings. Especially when riding a donkey to find Beikeji, Lin, who was weak, climbed a long ladder to measure himself. At that time, there were only three steamed buns to fill the hunger, and the accommodation conditions at night were very poor. They often can't sleep because of the interference of bedbugs and mosquitoes.

Although Lin has been in poor health, she has been busy with the construction of China.

Lin's daughter said in an interview in her later years: Although my mother has been lying in a hospital bed because of serious illness, her sense of social responsibility has not diminished at all. Even on her deathbed, she was still thinking about how to build China after the Anti-Japanese War. She thought of low-rent housing. ...

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In addition to the gentle appearance that everyone can see, Lin is also a person with distinct personality, strong competitiveness and hatred. She has the most prominent feature of modern women in China-perseverance.

Lin was born in 1904 and died in 1955. In her short life, she experienced three periods: Qing Dynasty, Republic of China and New China. In that turbulent era, her personal destiny was closely linked with the national and national events. In 1930s, Lin's living conditions were relatively rich. Under such circumstances, she rushed about for her favorite ancient architecture research career and didn't enjoy any life.

During the period of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, the forest belt took her husband and family and fled to the south without any complaints. When the country is in crisis, she takes it for granted that individuals suffer. On the way to escape, Liang's family was not only short of food and clothing, but also penniless, and was often threatened with death by air strikes. Lin doesn't agree with this. She is fully prepared. She said: "At present, there is nothing else about the archaeological cause in the Taiping era. It is the most appropriate way to maintain it in a very frugal way and recover after the war. Personal life has always been bitter, but it has not reached the point of' unbearable'. I am a woman, of course, I immediately became a typical pure' dross'. I rented two rooms to cook, attend classes, wash clothes, make the bed, and live like lanterns every day. There are several air raid alarms in the middle, and life is full. "

Lin has a bad temper, and her nephew also said that at that time, a large family lived in a yard. Lin and Liang Sicheng often quarreled, but Liang Sicheng was always noisy or silent. Lin's niece later said: "My second aunt is outspoken, that is, the kind of knife mouth and tofu heart." It can be seen that Lin's character is not what she looks like. Even Lin's grandson has publicly stated: "Lin has a big temper and is outspoken, and it is not easy for my grandfather."

It is this black-and-white personality that makes her so demanding of herself that she can't take care of her figure, and she has never considered the problem from the perspective of personal interests in her life.

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In his book A Letter to His Daughter, Wang Shuo expressed his resentment against his family background and his mother's neglect of the establishment of parent-child relationship.

He even thinks that his mother is sick and has an unsound personality. Wang Shuo concluded that my parents' generation didn't know what love was. They only know that it is always right to educate a child, not breaking the law, not causing trouble to society and not embarrassing her. This is her love.

But Wang Shuo's mother's behavior is not her personal problem, but the problem of that era. Lin, the mother of Rainbow Shuo, is such a person. We don't know how she educates her children, but as a woman, why does she fight so hard? They are the same.

Wang Shuo's mother is an independent woman who left home and was highly praised by the government after the founding of New China. In order to be able to control their own destiny, they must pay a greater price than ordinary people. They are educated, have independent jobs and enjoy equal rights with men. But in this process, the mother's own identity has been seriously biased. Since the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC), the status of women seems to have improved. This kind of official equality between men and women actually replaces women's clear understanding of their own identity with the male identity of women in love.

A revolutionary new woman, Rainbow Shuo's mother became a new woman at the expense of losing her feminine characteristics. Encouraged by ideology, such new women assume the same social responsibilities and obligations as men, but at the expense of giving up their families, and of course they can't become qualified mothers.

Similarly, Lin hates being mentioned about beauty, which seems to be her only weakness. Lin once said, "What a nuisance! How beautiful! It seems that women have nothing to do. I still have a lot of things to do! "

Although this sentence sounds like she doesn't like others to judge people by their appearances and despise her, in fact, Lin also strongly hopes that this society can be equal to men and women, and strongly hopes to defend her independent and self-reliant identity with her career achievements. However, behind this firmness, she paid the price of her life. After years of studying architecture and working with a group of men addicted to smoking, her health went from bad to worse, and she was terminally ill.

Women's independence, women's tenacity and strength are obviously understandable. However, people's life span is very long, and it is putting the cart before the horse to ignore women's godsend status as mothers, to make achievements for their careers, or to care for their own health.

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Lin's life is great. She is often talked about by people for her beauty, talent and dedication, but it is hard not to regret her untimely death.

Some people use "envy of talent" to comfort the grief caused by Lin's early death. Just like Zhang Ailing, a talented person has a rough life, but smart people always live a miserable life and die a miserable life. Looking back at history, it seems that fate is like a compensation mechanism. If one place is too good or too bad, it will always give you a balance in other aspects.

What kind of person would you be if you could choose?

When fate comes, people's will is not completely powerless to resist. We can't control our destiny, but our individual will can be controlled by ourselves.

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