How does Hainan bride price custom fit in with the process?

The engagement fee is called a wedding in Guangdong and a red envelope in Hainan. It is mainly used by the man's family to buy dowry and wedding supplies for the woman. There is no limit to the specific amount, generally depending on the requirements of the woman's family and the economic strength of the man's family. More than 90,000, less100,000, more than 20,000, and more than 30,000, after all, just show your sincerity. Marrying a daughter is not selling her daughter, and the amount of money is not the most important thing!

2. Piglets

Many places have the custom of preparing wedding dowry pork, and so does Hainan. But there is one difference. The pork to be prepared for Hainan's wedding dowry is not a mature pig, but a suckling pig, and it should be a whole head. On the day of engagement, it will be put in a big plate after slaughter, labeled with the word "Fu" and sent to the woman's home together with other bride price.

3. Gift cake

Daughter's marriage is a great event. In Hainan, we should send wedding cakes door to door and accept everyone's blessings. Moreover, this wedding cake is usually sent by the man's family and the woman's family. Are pasta with auspicious meanings, generally including:

(1) rice cake

The rice cake means "auspicious" and is a festive cake, which is usually eaten at weddings, New Year's Day and other festive occasions.

2. Smile

Homemade crispy biscuits in Hainan. Made of flour and eggs, fried, crispy and delicious, it is a favorite snack of local people and a necessary gift cake for Hainan's wedding dowry.

(3) Bread

In Hainan, bread has the meanings of "hair growth", "abundance" and "health" and is an auspicious biscuit. It is precisely because of its beautiful meaning that it has become a necessary item for wedding gifts and wedding cakes in Hainan.

(4) frying

A kind of hemp ball, popular in Guangdong, Hainan and other places, is also a fried food, but crisp outside and tender inside, very delicious. It means "sweet life" and "happiness".

2. Marriage customs in Hainan

1. propose

Both men and women are mature in love, and their families agree, but please ask the matchmaker to bring gifts to propose marriage at home. Most of the matchmakers are middle-aged women, eloquent and eloquent, and they are blessed with each other. However, it is often the man's parents who personally propose marriage, even the red envelope of the media mother is saved. The first time I came to the door, the woman's reception was the most taboo to eat raw hair, for fear that the marriage would fly away.

Fix your life.

Both parents have reached a * * * understanding and are willing to marry their children. On an auspicious day, the matchmaker goes to the woman for a birthday and gives her a red envelope, which is a life-and-death process. After receiving the woman's birthday, the man also wrote down his child's birthday on red paper, and put it in a box with the woman's birthday, and asked the fortune teller to count it by hand. During this period, the matchmaker ran around delivering letters, all of which were handled by the matchmaker, and the negotiation was called fate.

Ask relatives

When the man's parents marry his son's daughter-in-law, they ask the matchmaker to bring gifts to the woman's house, mainly to ask her parents if they can get married this year. Generally speaking, I agree. For example, some places consider whether the marriage of brothers or sisters should be carried out in compliance. Of course, there are white things or red things at home, and it is not appropriate to marry two women a year. However, most places are also based on the principle of "there is hydroponics in one acre and three places", not to mention women who are particularly taboo.