The parents of the older generation are particularly concerned about the incompatibility of the eight characters. How can I convince them?

Grandparents' generation is "parents' orders, matchmakers' words" and there is no freedom of marriage. Whether two people are suitable or not lies not in how they get along, but in the fortune teller's "eight characters". This is like looking at the compatibility of the genus and belonging to a feudal superstition. Given our education, this statement is simply nonsense.

Since they are grandparents, they must be very old. You can't convince them if they are stubborn. After all, this concept of their generation is deeply rooted, and you young people can't say it in a sentence or two. But in order not to hurt their hearts and for their health, we can't face them. After all, I am old. Because of this little thing, it is not worth the loss to make a big deal out of it.

However, it is definitely not possible to give up your girlfriend just because of the "eight characters" in the mouth of grandparents. Don't say that you have deep feelings for each other, but you don't have deep feelings. Breaking up just because of such nonsense is enough to make others laugh. So we must find ways to make grandparents happy and stay with our girlfriends.

I think the best way is to fool my grandparents. After all, they are old, and I think we will have many ways to fool them. You can tell your grandparents that the eight characters you gave last time were wrong, but the date on your ID card is generally not allowed. This time, I specially asked my girlfriend's parents and found her correct personality. Then find the last fortune teller and send him some money to say something nice. Naturally, grandparents were fooled. Isn't it the best of both worlds?