Kneeling, lying down, seeking Marx's philosophical masterpieces: dialectical thinking on how a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise.

An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. His view that "happiness depends on misfortune and misfortune depends on happiness" is the most primitive and simple dialectical thought. The long river of life, study, career, making friends and marriage, you have to go through too many things in your life. How can everything be smooth sailing? So our life, big or small, heavy or light, will encounter some twists and turns and gains and losses. Whenever we encounter these setbacks, we should have a spirit of every cloud has a silver lining, adjust our mentality, weigh the gains and losses, and treat these slopes of life dialectically and correctly.

Two days ago, my wife was accidentally hit by the iron cabinet in the office and had several stitches. While suffering from the pain of flesh and blood, she is extremely depressed psychologically. She sighed all day and was depressed.

My wife once told me that when I was a child, a fortune teller gave her divination, and her life would go downhill after the age of 35, so she often worried about it. It coincides with this year's wife's animal year. After hitting her head, I have been chanting that this animal year is going to be unlucky. I often laugh at my wife's worries and repeatedly persuade her not to be idealistic, but to be objective and dialectical. Don't let temporary frustration and frustration affect your mood and life.

Philosophers once said that there are three kinds of people in the world: one is good at turning other people's lessons into his own wealth, which is the smartest person; A man who can turn his lessons into his wealth is a wise man; A person is the most stupid person who can neither turn his own lessons into his own wealth nor turn the lessons of others into his own wealth. We should refrain from being the third person and strive to be the second person, preferably the first person. As for the lump on the head, I understand that although it is not a good thing, it is also a blessing. What's the good news? Fortunately, it didn't hit other more important parts or cause more serious damage. So I said to my wife, first, I want to adjust my mood, treat it correctly, have a good rest and recover as soon as possible. This is the wisest move, and I must not cry for spilled milk; Second, think rationally, try to be the second kind of person, turn lessons into wealth, and try not to be knocked down by the same stone twice.

Having said that, I can't help thinking deeply: how can a blessing in disguise be a blessing in disguise?

In real life, some people always make some achievements or progress, so they are complacent and blindly self-expanding; Some people don't know the southeast and northwest when they are in power, thinking that the world is the best; Some people think I have money, but I'm afraid of anyone. If I have money, I can have everything. Don't you know that there are two sides to everything, that water can carry a boat and overturn it, and that money can also be destroyed? How many people, after becoming famous, ended up with both money and people because they couldn't see success and achievement correctly and couldn't see fame and fortune clearly? This lesson should be remembered by our generation.

The dialectical point of view of Sai Weng's story is very clear. Losing a horse and gaining a horse are both temporary gains and losses, and no one can tell the success or failure after the gains and losses. Therefore, we must not flatter ourselves for temporary gains and losses, and we must pamper ourselves at all times and bear the burden of humiliation. When the harvest is successful, pour cold water on yourself, clear your swollen mind, and don't be extremely sad because you won the horse; When encountering setbacks, cheer yourself up, restore confidence and courage, and don't lose the opportunity to embrace the sun because you lost your horse.