Cheng Lisha pursued her husband and was dumped 20 times, but her love with Guo Xiaodong was really sweet.

In the recent hit variety show "Grandma Mom", an old lady who is deeply loved by the audience is a rural mother-in-law in Cheng Lisha. She has little education, but she is simple and kind. Even though she has trained two successful actor sons, she still lives in an old house in the countryside, and even turned off her mobile phone in order not to affect the filming of the program group.

What moved me most was her eccentricity and understanding of her daughter-in-law.

In one episode, Guo Xiaodong took Cheng Lisha back to his hometown.

As soon as she entered the house, her mother-in-law got up and greeted her with a smile, holding her daughter-in-law's hand affectionately, and specially invited Jiaozi to treat her.

When cooking, her mother-in-law will fully agree with her daughter-in-law's taste: Cheng Lisha doesn't like onions, so she won't put them aside; Cheng Lisha likes to eat less stuffing, so her mother-in-law immediately dug up some wrapped meat and prepared beautiful chopsticks for her daughter-in-law.

For her son Guo Xiaodong and the onion in his hand, the old lady directly said that she didn't like it: she didn't like it. Why did you bring it here?

The idea of rural mother-in-law is very simple: stand in the position of daughter-in-law, coquetry, she is happy, her son is happy, and the family can be harmonious and happy.

Cheng Lisha himself was deeply moved. In another program, she sincerely thanked her mother-in-law for being "unreasonable": her mother was unreasonable. No matter what disputes we have, she just says that my son is wrong and Cheng Lisha is right, so I think it is too important to have a good mother-in-law, otherwise my marriage would not have come to this day.

Jiao Jiao, a city girl who is affected by melodrama, is still spoiled and willful in her forties, but it happened that someone bought it. A straight man's husband spoiled her as an inexperienced princess, which was the bad preference of her natural enemy mother-in-law. Even though she has entered the age of no doubt, she can still live naively.

Some people will envy Cheng Lisha, an unlovable but attractive woman, while others will hate her. There is an answer in the story of her separation and entanglement with Guo Xiaodong for 20 years, which can tell us that this maverick love brain really deserves such love.

First, women in Jiao Jiao city VS poor boys in rural areas

1977, Cheng Lisha was born in a family of civil servants in Wuhan, Hubei. Although he is not a rich and expensive family with mines, his family conditions are excellent, which gives Cheng Lisha a comfortable growing environment.

Parents love their daughter very much and protect her well. To some extent, they are used to Cheng Lisha's connivance and direct personality.

However, they never imagined that the apple of their eye, which they had pampered and cared for since childhood, would fall in love with a poor boy in the countryside many years later, willing to dim their light and return to dust.

When Cheng Lisha, a girl from Jiao Jiao in the city, was born in a honey pot, a little boy named Guo Xiaodong was only 3 years old in the countryside thousands of miles away. He is the son of a farmer, living in a shabby old house, accompanied by poverty.

In the second grade of junior high school, a tuition fee from 34 yuan overwhelmed Guo Xiaodong's road to study, and the family could not come up with this "huge sum". Being sensible, he took the initiative to drop out of school and became a worker in the county printing factory. The teenager shouldered the burden of life prematurely.

The time axis moved to 1992, and the factory repeated the hot and dry summer in previous years. An open magazine changed Guo Xiaodong's fate.

/kloc-Guo Xiaodong, 0/8 years old, saw the news of the summer camp held by the Beijing Film Academy in a magazine, and an impulse suddenly came to mind.

Unlike other friends who play in the fields all day, Guo Xiaodong has been interested in singing performances and other arts since childhood. He learned to sing from the village radio station, imitating the performances of actors in movies, and learned quickly and well.

But the reality of poverty, like a sharp sickle, quickly cut off the budding bud, leaving only a gray and heavy life.

People don't waste their youth frivolous, so Guo Xiaodong, who has been bending for too long, decided to be frivolous. He took the money saved by working and resolutely signed up for the north.

Half a month's summer camp is relaxing and enjoyable. He visited the Beijing Film Factory and studied acting at the Film Academy. He stood upright, enjoying all the fresh and bright things with great interest.

It was also in this year that 15-year-old Cheng Lisha included the examination of drama academy in his life plan. Compared with the lack of resources in Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha embarked on his dream journey with confidence with the encouragement and support of his parents and the preaching of his teacher.

After traveling around the world he had never set foot in, this growing impulse lingered in Guo Xiaodong's mind. 1 year later, he made up his mind to take the road of actor and resigned to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.

The poor boy who has no money is struggling in Beijing. He is preparing for the exam while working. He only eats one bag of instant noodles for three days, and he can't even afford the bus fare. He was in pain, and his eyes looked down.

He stepped on thorns, but fell into the abyss covered with dust. Time goes by, life goes on, and reality does not sympathize with the tears of losers. Cheer up, Guo Xiaodong stay in Beijing.

Having no performance foundation, he settled down and ran as a walk-on for three years, accumulating experience in practice.

Many things happen. 1996, Guo Xiaodong applied for the Beijing Film Academy again. At the age of 22, he won the World War II and became a classmate of Huang Xiaoming and Zhao Wei.

A year later, 20-year-old Cheng Lisha was admitted to the Performance Department of Shanghai Theatre Academy. Two colleagues from the south to the north gradually shortened their journey under the traction of fate. At this time, there are still five years before they meet.

Second, I fell in love with a potential stock with no money.

After graduation, Cheng Lisha became a dramatic actor in Beijing People's Art Theatre, and then Guo Xiaodong played a small role in Bayi Film Studio.

In 2002, Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha met in the cooperative film "Northland Wind".

In just three days of filming, Cheng Lisha fell in love with Guo Xiaodong in uniform at first sight.

However, Guo Xiaodong has no feelings for Cheng Lisha. In his own words, this girl is so picky. She is very careful about details and always makes various demands on clothes and scripts.

After the short filming, they left no contact information. They met again at a friend's party. Guo Xiaodong found that the girl didn't seem to have such a thing, so he had a good talk with her.

Cheng Lisha, who has always been bold, directly expressed his ideas to Guo Xiaodong. In the face of the girl he likes a little, Guo Xiaodong didn't hide his life. He confessed to Cheng Lisha: I come from the countryside. Do you want to make friends with me?

Guo Xiaodong looked at the girl in front of her with trepidation, afraid and expecting a little resignation. Little did she know that Cheng Lisha, though a sissy, did not despise the superiority of the country people. She appreciates this man's frankness and believes that he is a potential stock, and his love is even more casual.

Being pursued by an excellent and enthusiastic girl, Guo Xiaodong is both excited and self-abased, and his reason and feelings struggle in his mind. Finally, the hero is sad about the beauty, and his sensibility is slightly better. He followed his heart and took Cheng Lisha's hand.

Cross-class love is doomed to be bumpy and tortuous.

Cheng Lisha is a little dissatisfied with Guo Xiaodong, because he is too straight and not romantic at all.

On her first birthday, Guo Xiaodong sent a necklace and didn't forget to put an invoice in the box. Cheng Lisha mistook this for a love letter and felt confused and embarrassed. Guo Xiaodong honestly and frankly explained that the invoice is to let her know that the necklace is real, and she didn't just buy it at the booth.

The first quarrel, in Dongzhimen subway station, Guo Xiaodong squeezed into the subway, leaving Cheng Lisha crying in situ.

When sending flowers for the first time, Guo Xiaodong put 99 roses carefully prepared on the co-pilot and guessed Cheng Lisha's reaction nervously, but he thought it was a little simple, so after seeing the flowers in Cheng Lisha, he sat in the back row angrily and was at a loss.

Every time Cheng Lisha loses his temper, straight men in Guo Xiaodong feel confused and full of grievances. Girls in the city are really difficult to serve, and they get angry without rhyme or reason.

But Cheng Lisha has her own ideas. She is spoiled, but not ignorant. She is not dissatisfied because the rose has occupied her seat, but angry that Guo Xiaodong's economy is not good, she spends money indiscriminately and clumsily learns others to play romance.

What really broke their feelings was not the inevitable small friction between the lovers, but Guo Xiaodong's sensitivity and inferiority.

After every quarrel, Guo Xiaodong will escape from reality, break the jar and break up, so that Cheng Lisha can find a more suitable man.

But Cheng Lisha must cure such people. She doesn't think a woman will lose face by apologizing. The sooner the contradiction is resolved, the better, so she is the first to bow her head every time.

On and off for 20 times, Cheng Lisha was dumped by Guo Xiaodong for 20 times, and her enthusiasm was doused by cold water again and again. Cheng Lisha, who is getting more and more tired, thinks that this may really be destiny takes a hand, and decides to give up this love.

But Guo Xiaodong suddenly figured it out, holding the flower that was about to bow down in the dust and wither in time. The magical and tortuous five-year love finally came to fruition under the sincere rescue of Guo Xiaodong.

Third, hide the amorous feelings for him at 12.

On the eve of Cheng Lisha's decision to break up completely, Guo Xiaodong wore a suit borrowed from the crew and invited her to the International Trade Buffet for dinner. He bravely confided his feelings to Cheng Lisha for the first time. He is not good at words and talks a lot.

Cheng Lisha was moved and awake. She looked at the man in front of her and thought, how many times have I cried over the years? Do I really want to be with him?

The answer is yes.

Once Guo Xiaodong went to sea to shoot, there was no signal on the high seas, and his cell phone was turned off. Cheng Lisha, who can't reach Guo Xiaodong, is crazy. She told herself that as long as Guo Xiaodong came back, she would marry her without asking anything.

In 2007, the reunited two ended their five-year love run and entered the marriage hall.

The wedding was arranged by Cheng Lisha in her hometown of Guo Xiaodong. She gave up the fantasy of romantic marriage and held a simple wedding with Guo Xiaodong.

They sat in a convertible, dressed in clothes that were not very foreign, and were baptized by old rural customs. The villagers surrounded the whole road, lively and grounded.

Everyone is very rare for a new wife from this city. The seven aunts touched her face and shook hands with her. Others think she is too thin and eager to introduce children, which makes Cheng Lisha blush.

Cheng Lisha, who grew up in this city, thought it was the craziest thing she and Guo Xiaodong had ever done. She got up from the car and sprinkled sugar on everyone. The warm blessing surprised and moved her.

Although she didn't adapt to some rural customs, she was also very sensible, did as the Romans do, took the initiative to lower herself, greeted and kowtowed without manners, and even learned from the women in the village not to eat at the table, sparing no effort to maintain Guo Xiaodong's face.

After officially becoming Mrs. Guo, she gradually faded out of the screen and returned to family care.

Cheng Lisha has a good husband, and she is a little cautious in maintaining her marriage. She said that if you want to catch a man's heart, you must spoil him first, so that he can't take care of himself, and you can't live without him.

Cheng Lisha wouldn't let Guo Xiaodong do any housework, insisting that the only thing he had to do when he got home was to have a good rest.

Facts have proved that Guo Xiaodong was really used to being a "basket case" by Cheng Lisha. After more than ten years of marriage, he doesn't even know what the key looks like, because whenever he goes back, Cheng Lisha will wait for him at home.

Guo Xiaodong is a somewhat traditional person. He is very strict about Cheng Lisha's dress code. He can't wear clothes that are too revealing above the knee.

Cheng Lisha, who lost her freedom to dress, was a little happy, because she felt that Guo Xiaodong's possessiveness to her was a sign of her love.

Cheng Lisha obediently obeyed, covering her sweet shoulders and legs conservatively, and hiding the amorous feelings of 12 years.

Until 20 18, a couple variety show, Cheng Lisha "rebelled" once, and her sexy swimsuit outlined her beautiful figure. She is beautiful and elegant, and her smiles are full of amorous feelings.

Guo Xiaodong didn't live up to Cheng Lisha's repeated concessions. He shouldered the heavy responsibility of bringing home the bacon as a man.

Two hours after getting the marriage certificate, Guo Xiaodong took out his bank card, handed it to Cheng Lisha and said, This is for you. All my money is in it.

For a time, Guo Xiaodong was in poor health. Cheng Lisha asked him to rest at home, but Guo Xiaodong insisted on going out to film. He said to Cheng Lisha, because I don't have money, I hope you don't worry that we don't have money as I did before.

In the face of Cheng Lisha's persistent anger, the steel straight man also has the gentleness of an iron man. Guo Xiaodong calmly expressed his understanding. I am her husband, and she is right to be angry with me. All her things can be poured to me.

20 10, after giving birth to a son, Cheng Lisha wants to add another daughter. After injecting 100 for many times, her endocrine disorder and even depression.

In recent years, Cheng Lisha, whose variety shows are in full swing, is generous, cheerful and has strong expressive ability. Seeing that his self-centered wife suddenly has a career ambition, Guo Xiaodong feels lost and insecure, but this does not prevent her from returning to work. On the contrary, he encouraged Cheng Lisha to go out, get in touch with new things and regain his confidence and expectation of life.

Cheng Lisha, who went out to work, solved Guo Xiaodong's worries. She never forgot to talk about her husband, and "Mrs. Guo Xiaodong" became the label she introduced to everyone.

Huang Xiaoming lost weight and brain cells in the second class of Sister Lang. She didn't recognize her classmate's wife and mistakenly thought she was a teacher in the Performance Academy.

Cheng Lisha paused for a few seconds, then pulled out her husband as a tool man. He replied calmly, I'm just an actor. The student I brought out was Guo Xiaodong, and I discussed the performance at home with him.

Quick response, high emotional intelligence, successfully resolved the embarrassment, and skillfully lifted the overturned car in Huang Xiaoming.

Fourth, it is like cold light meets hot sun.

Many people are not optimistic about this relationship, calling the combination of Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha a "feudal marriage", mocking Guo Xiaodong as a "giant baby" and Cheng Lisha as the "first female slave in the entertainment circle".

They think that Cheng Lisha is too humble to love, while Guo Xiaodong is too feudal and male chauvinistic, so an unequal marriage is doomed to be short-lived.

But I want to say that straight men deserve to be women, and their love is really sweet, warm and bright, always fresh and always hot.

Cheng Lisha really loves more people. She bowed her head first and apologized first. Seemingly humble, she has never been in a passive position.

She is like the warm sun, dare to love and hate, can be willful and spoiled, and can also be a good wife and mother.

She made no demands on Guo Xiaodong. If he needs her, she will appear, and as long as she is by his side, she will be satisfied.

She said that she loved Guo Xiaodong more than her son, and he came first in her heart. Only by taking care of him will she be diligent.

It's too risky for a mother to love someone without reservation.

But Cheng Lisha is not stupid. On the contrary, she is smart and sober. She clearly knows that she can do this because she has enough self-confidence.

And the bottom spirit, is given by Guo Xiaodong.

In "Mother-in-law and Mother", Cheng Lisha asked her mother-in-law, do you know that your son has put all his hard-earned money with me? Do you want him to stay with you?

My mother-in-law replied: I don't like that. I won't take it. I should give everything I earn to my wife. The more I put it beside you, the more relieved I am.

Guo Xiaodong said that raising is not just giving pocket money, but emptying all your pockets and giving her all your money. If you love, you should love and raise well.

Many people only see Cheng Lisha bow down for love, but can't see Guo Xiaodong bow down for her. He emptied his pockets, cut off his retreat and turned his back on her.

Cheng Lisha grabbed the man's business card and her mother-in-law's heart. She can accept the confidence provided by others or lose it. She has the right to choose and take the initiative.

In this marriage, Guo Xiaodong is the weaker party. He is like the cold light of dust, complicated and far away.

The poor family accustomed him to restraint. He admits that he feels very inferior, so inferior that he feels very small, and he dare not show the humblest side of his heart. Whenever he feels that the relationship may go further, he flinches.

Poor people who have experienced hardships in life have deep-rooted inferiority complex. Sometimes it's not that they don't love, but that they can't give.

Guo Xiaodong is such a person, introverted and rational, and always feels unworthy. He once cried bitterly in the program, feeling that he had the honor to meet such a good Cheng Lisha for many years and got such a satisfactory result.

And Cheng Lisha just found Guo Xiaodong's obscure and clumsy affection. They should be together. They can make the management of the day lively and interesting.

She is joking and he is laughing.

She gave everything, and he had no way out.

Just as the cold light meets the hot sun, it neutralizes each other's temperature. The hot sun is no longer hot, and the cold light is no longer indifferent, interwoven into warm sweetness. Looking around, this is a good time for water to grow.