Inherit his father's footsteps and be filial.

Inherit his father's footsteps and be filial.

Confucius said, "My father is here, so I will watch his ambition.": Father didn't, observe his actions; It is filial piety not to change the way of the father for three years. "

Look at a person, look at his ambition when his parents are still alive, and look at his behavior when his parents die. For three years, he hasn't changed his parents' route. This person is called a dutiful son.

Teacher Nan Huai Jin thinks this understanding is problematic:

"If parents misbehave and steal for a living, the son doesn't want to be a thief and has resentment, but for filial piety, he can't afford to be a thief for three years. In this way, the problem is not coming? When you meet a bad person, you can say, "Confucius said! "The saint was right! To be a dutiful son, I have to do something wrong for three years! " Is this a saint? In this way, I call it the filial piety philosophy of mice giving birth to children. Why? As the saying goes, "the dragon begets the dragon, the phoenix begets the phoenix, and the mouse begets the child to make a hole in the ground." Is it okay? It's useless These problems all stem from misunderstandings in the past. Of course, Song Ru is not necessarily completely wrong, but we should pay attention to such mistakes. Therefore, the ancients said that reading should be regarded with special respect. Some gods in China have an extra eye, which is called the wisdom eye. If you look at it with the so-called wisdom of religious scholars, it will be easy to understand.

The "ambition" of "the father is guarding his ambition" is "ambition" in the old saying, including thoughts and attitudes. We have all been sons, and we all have this experience: Father and teacher heard the lesson in front of them and kept saying "yes", but turned their backs and made faces at classmates and friends to show that they would not listen. Therefore, the sentence "Father is reading the will" means that parents should be consistent in words and deeds. That is, when parents are not in front of them, behind their backs, and even when their parents die, they should be consistent in words and deeds, sincere and sincere, and very frank. If they say no, they won't accept it. If being a good man is to be the last, and his parents are dead, he will not change his way as a father within three years. After three years, his feelings will not fade, and his words and deeds will be consistent. This is a dutiful son. "

I think Mr. Nan's explanation is a little strong, because he didn't consider the social conditions at that time.

Family education is an important part of education in ancient times, when children inherited their father's business. For example, Sima Qian, who will train historians? Sima Qian's family has been historians for generations, and his knowledge of historians was obtained from his parents. Knowing this background, it is not difficult to understand whether my father is willing to inherit his father's career. In the eyes of people at that time, he was a black sheep. The rest of the sentences can be solved, so I won't repeat them here.

The original meaning of filial piety, knowledge and word creation: children and grandchildren help the elderly and obey and support their parents and elders.

With the emergence of the consequences of the family planning policy, society will enter a deformed and aging society. At that time, I am afraid it is not a question of whether children should be filial, but whether they can be filial. Middle-aged people are really old and young. Once the old man is ill in bed or unable to handle life for other reasons, does he still want to work? How to earn money without working, how to miss home? Providing for the aged will be a major social problem. How to provide for the aged is something that China society needs to think about, and avoidance and prevarication are not the ways.

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