Is it good or bad for women to be in power?

Under the influence of China's traditional thought, in China society, men have the characteristics of men and women have the characteristics of women, which determines the different social division of labor between men and women in the family. When men and women stick to their posts, families naturally prosper. This is advocating natural harmony, and yin and yang are in their proper places. Talk about how men and women should live in harmony in life and marriage, without the connotation of gender inequality.

When a woman in a family is in power, there will often be some family crises, such as: because she is in power, she has a strong personality and her married life is unhappy; There are problems in children's education (men don't know children as well as women) and so on.

When a man has noble character, women will naturally respect him, respect him and get close to him. There will be no disharmony in a family where men are upright and noble and women are modest and tolerant. In such a family and society, women naturally have corresponding status and will not be discriminated against.

In ancient China society, men were the masters outside and women were the masters inside. Men are outside, and home is a strong backing; Women stay at home, and men are spiritual pillars. Therefore, people who go out have no worries, those who stay at home are safe, dynamic and static complement each other, their careers are developed, their families are prosperous, their husbands sing with their wives, and their harps are harmonious.

However, it is modern people who advocate gender equality. This theory looks great and can confuse people, but it is difficult to understand because it is sensible. Because of a slogan and several laws and regulations, the concept of family life in which yin and yang are combined and husband and wife are integrated has become a husband-wife relationship in which yin and yang are combined, and as a result, the problem of labor shortage in the period of rapid development of capitalism has really been solved. But at the same time, it has also caused great harm to many ordinary families, resulting in extremely serious social problems such as pension problems and children's education problems.

Family relationship is an integral part of social relations and a microcosm of social relations. After the disharmonious family relations are magnified, they become disharmonious social relations. Especially in countries with imperfect social security system, the louder the slogan of equality between men and women is shouted, the more measures are taken to protect women's rights and interests, the more it can show that women's status is declining; Similarly, the more social harmony is advocated, the more serious the problem of family relations can be explained.

Of course, this is just my personal understanding. I sincerely support equality between men and women, but I hope everyone will integrate equality between men and women into all aspects of life as an idea instead of shouting verbal slogans.

Of course, the reason why I limit my time to 2 1 century is because maybe one day, when China enters the "world is one family" society mentioned in the Book of Changes, people's cultural quality is extremely high and the social security system is extremely perfect. It may be that "the woman is in charge" is extremely unusual and there is no good saying.