On the advantages and disadvantages of big names

Some children are named by impatient parents when they are still in their mothers' bellies. Of course, most children wait until they are born before they are named by sex. Girls generally have more flexible names, mostly flowers and plants. Boys are generally tough names, and steel is stronger. Some people look at the child's horoscope and squeeze in words to make up for it. For example, if there is a shortage of fire, it will start with fire, and if there is a shortage of gold, it will start with gold. Some parents! I also give children nicknames, such as dog eggs, hairy bones, Niu Niu and so on. Some parents! I hope that all boys will become Jackie Chan and all girls will become Phoenix, so I have racked my brains to come up with many high-end, atmospheric and high-end names. Some names, just like their names, are really lucky. Some of them! But it backfired and drove away the name. Today I want to talk about people around me and stories about names and their fate.

There is a man named Chao Fu in our town who just started working in a processing factory. Later, the processing plant and grain depot merged. He had nothing to do, so he simply went home and looked for another job. His family has a department store and a machine for making popsicles and ice cream. Later, more and more people made ice cream. He sells machines, sells cement and gets a commission. After 90 years, many rural people built houses and villas. He made a fortune by selling cement in the whole town, and then bought many houses everywhere in the town, county and city, becoming the richest one in the town. As the name implies, he is super rich.

Secondly, my cousin Franz Chen, who is tall and ugly, has a head like three hairs and is made of aluminum alloy. At that time, when my cousin fell in love with him, I told my cousin that I wouldn't look down on my brother-in-law if I wanted 100 thousand. At that time, my brother-in-law had two brothers with three bedrooms and one living room, and my parents were old and overwhelmed. But my uncle's family is very rich. When my cousin got married, Qi Mu had a full set of dowry and married him with tens of thousands of yuan in cash. They worked hard and saved money to make aluminum alloy in town. Within two years, they bought the old tile house in the town and turned it into a new three-story building. It happens that the house is on the main street, and now they sell aluminum alloy and make aluminum alloy. The facade is not rented out, and the business is booming. Then they bought 400 square meters in Xinjie, decorated four floors, and opened the largest wholesale and retail supermarket in town on the first floor, the brother-in-law next door. The second floor is rented to a dance training institution, and the third and fourth floors are occupied. My cousin has two children, the eldest daughter is a graduate student and the youngest son is an undergraduate. The two children are also hardworking and sweet. My cousin's old facade is also rented to others to open a shop, and the monthly rent is also considerable. All the income is really quite a lot, really squeezed into one name.

Third, Uncle Wan Chaoting is the director of the town hospital. He has three daughters, two sons, the eldest daughter (who has not finished primary school and is looking for a relationship) and the youngest son have attended the health school, but none of the other primary schools have finished. The eldest daughter graduated from the health school and became a doctor in the county. The youngest son also works in the county hospital. The second daughter works in the town health center. The eldest son is driving in the town health center. She is a civil servant, and her daughter-in-law is also charged to the health center. The youngest daughter and I are classmates. She didn't want to be a nurse and finally married in the county. Uncle Wan became the dean himself, left school with his wife who didn't know medicine, and opened a clinic in the countryside, earning a lot of money in a year. After retirement, Uncle Wan was over eighty years old and was invited by a private drugstore in the county to sell medicine. Even his pension is more than ten thousand yuan a month. The imperial court is also worthy of the name, and the family benefited from it.

Tell me again how bad it is to have the name reversed.

The first one, Aunt Hu next door, gave birth to three sons by herself. The eldest daughter-in-law's first child is a son, so she is happy to name her grandson Tianxing. Mother Tianxing didn't have enough milk. Aunt Zhang made crucian carp, pork belly and day lily soup for her daughter-in-law, which didn't have much effect. Aunt Zhang had to buy milk powder and grind rice paste for her grandson. She was not tired at all. As soon as she left work, she came to my house happily with her grandson. The feeling of holding her grandson made her face happy all day. When the child was more than nine months old, he had a little diarrhea, but he couldn't be cured anywhere, and he cried his eyes out. When the child was born, there was only one fortune teller to send the child (that is, to write the child's birthday), and how many red envelopes Aunt Zhang gave, people left without humming. For example, when we gave birth to a child, the official who sent the child to the hospital kept asking questions. If there was too little bargaining, we hung up.

The second is my own cousin. My aunt gave birth to a daughter and a son. My cousin's name is Liang Dong, but he has been working outside for so many years. In the past two years, apart from getting money back, he used to work outside, either borrowing money from us or sending him money from my aunt. Until now, I'm 30 years old and I'm not married. I heard that I have myeloma, and I am worried about a large family. I'm lucky that Liang Dong will keep bending. So, the name is reversed. Shit.

The third is the moon I wrote in my last article. The moon family has one brother, two brothers, three brothers and one daughter. Her parents dote on her. Not only does she have a good reputation, but she is seldom asked to do anything. So the moon is not good at doing farm work or doing other things. She is timid, stubborn and honest. She quarreled with her mother-in-law when she married her husband's family. When she married again, she was sent back. The name of the moon is not bright at all, and her old age is even more worrying.

So I say that this person's name has something to do with his fate. Eight characters are hard enough to deserve a good life, and eight characters are weak enough to deserve a bad life. Might as well think about naming. This is the fact that I have seen, which has certain limitations and only represents my point of view. My friend may have a different opinion.