Do you believe in fate? Why are my boyfriends divorced ... What happened?

First of all, fate is not an objective thing, but something that can transform good and bad into each other subjectively. You said that all the boyfriends you are looking for are divorced from their parents, which is entirely caused by your own mate selection conditions. Imagine that when you choose a boyfriend, you must set a hard condition that the boyfriend's parents must not divorce. In this way, the unpleasant mood you described will not appear. Of course, it is important to understand and blend feelings. As long as you two really love each other, you will be happy, which has nothing to do with whether your boyfriend's parents are divorced or not.