The fortune teller waited at her grave for 49 days.

Pay attention to the tomb of the anniversary of death

Pay attention to the tomb of the anniversary of death

The thirty-fifth day after death is called "May 7th" and the hundred days are called "Hundred Days". At that time, all filial families would go to the grave to offer sacrifices. Usually, when the grave is built on May 7 and 100, the former is advanced and the latter is postponed, which is called "100 days long and May 7 is short". Zhoucun usually goes to the grave for sacrifice in the middle of the night. When sweeping the "May 7th Tomb", the relatives of the deceased should carry paper bundles and offerings such as Jinyinshan, cash cow and cornucopia for sacrifice. According to local legend, "May 7th" is the end of all sacrificial activities of the deceased. On this day, the King Wu of the Temple of Hades will finally investigate whether the deceased will go to hell to suffer, or be reborn and reincarnated. These five Yan kings are very strict and selfless. The only weakness is that he has no daughter as an adult, so he is generally more tolerant of people who have daughters. If he hears the cry of the deceased's daughter in the final audit, he will let the deceased go. Therefore, on May 7th, when a girl dies, the girl has the custom of crying at the grave in the morning. May 7th is a very important day, so don't advance or postpone it. We are more particular here, but you can ask the old people at home for advice if you don't let go of the mourning hall. If we don't pay attention to it, please take out the urn (remember to open an umbrella and never see the sun), find the coffin that burned paper on the day of cremation (the funeral home has a special memorial place with 12 zodiac sign), and put the urn under the photo frame of the deceased (. At the bottom, there are foods that the deceased liked to eat before his death (at least three or five kinds). Those who like drinking and smoking can bring their own brands. After the memorial ceremony (burning paper) begins, light cigarettes and pour three glasses of wine. The first two cups were poured into the circle drawn before burning paper, and the last cup was left in front of the coffin. You should talk to the old man and cry. In addition to children, it is best for close relatives and friends to come to pay homage to the deceased. If you are very particular, add up the three or four items you said, set up a mourning hall, set a table in the mourning hall, pour wine and tea, set up washing water and foot washing water in the room where you lived before your death, and put away the clothes you wore before your death in the bed where you slept before your death-in short, prepare for his last night's rest. In the afternoon 10, the summoning ceremony began (for fear that he forgot to go home). The eldest son climbed onto the roof of the mourning hall with a lantern (for fear that he could not see the road clearly at night), raised three tiles and shouted "Dad, come back ~ ~" to the night sky. The others knelt in a row on the stairs, crying and screaming. It is suggested that regardless of the old customs, May 7th should be regarded as July 7th, that is, it should be unified, and April 7th happens to be the most important anniversary: the first seven days, May 7th (July 7th), and three days after 100 days: Qingming (early Qingming), 11th (late November of the lunar calendar) and anniversary (anniversary). You can burn paper at home to pay homage, New Year's Eve or New Year's Eve.

What are the precautions for going to the grave 100 days after people leave?

Don't jump on the grave. ω? )

As usual, just kidding.

Did folklore say that ancestors did not enter the grave until 100 after their death?

There are all kinds of folk customs all over the country. Maybe there is such a custom somewhere, but it also has its theoretical basis. I haven't found any theoretical basis for your custom of "100-day sacrifice" and I haven't heard of it (sorry). Generally speaking, after the death of parents, children have "seven days"-at most 7749 days, and at least seven days (the first seven days). During this period, the remains cannot be buried or cremated. This is a folk custom based on Buddhist theory that "China has a body" can only stay in the world for 49 days at most; There is also "filial piety". There are three-year editions and one-year editions, both of which focus on Confucian mourning. During mourning, people who strictly observe filial piety cannot get married, remarry or participate in various recreational activities. People who are not strict do not hold or participate in activities with strong celebration colors such as weddings and birthday celebrations; The birthday and death of the deceased also need to be worshipped (birthday, anniversary); There are also four festivals related to the deceased, namely Tomb-Sweeping Day, Hanyi Festival, Zhongyuan Festival and Broom Festival. All of the above need to be swept and worshipped. The so-called "one hundred-day sacrifice" seems to be a "small custom", which is at most a very small scope and has never been heard of.

What will the underworld prepare for a hundred days?

If grandparents are here, it's best not to move. If you really want to move, first of all, you should ask someone to look after you for a day, and second, you should do a ceremony (please ask a Taoist or a temple mage to do it). In our hometown, we regard moving graves as important as the death of the old man.

What should I prepare for burning in the grave for a hundred days?

This is just a folk custom, which is not good for our ancestors, and it takes time and energy for future generations. Instead of this, it is better to recite the Tripitaka for the deceased one to seven times, which can ensure that the deceased can cross the pure land of Buddhism.

I went to visit the grave 100 days after my mother died, right? It's less than a hundred days now, thanks to feng shui master.

What are you doing with this burning paper? Finish the task? If you finish the task, you can consider this time. If you miss your mother, you can visit her at any time. You don't have to be superstitious about those feng shui masters. If those feng shui masters really know how to pinch and calculate, they will play by themselves. Will they be short of money?

On the 0/00th anniversary of the death of a loved one/KLOC, can I add soil to the grave?

Look at the local customs, in some places it is three years!

What is the saying that people die for a hundred days?

Counting from the second day after death, the seventh day is called: the first seven days, and the forty-ninth day is July 7, also called: Biqi! The hundredth day, it is: 170, relatives want to add soil to the grave! The anniversary of the second year is called the anniversary of the third year. The fourth anniversary is called the third anniversary. After the third anniversary, there is basically no special memorial day to go to the grave. We are going to pay homage on holidays!

Do you take the portrait to the grave for one hundred days? My husband has been dead for a hundred days. Do I need to take the portrait to the grave?

not necessary

What's so particular about going to the grave on May 7th?

The thirty-fifth day after death is called "May 7th" and the hundred days are called "Hundred Days". At that time, all filial families would go to the grave to offer sacrifices. Usually, when the grave is built on May 7 and 100, the former is advanced and the latter is postponed, which is called "100 days long and May 7 is short". Zhoucun usually goes to the grave for sacrifice in the middle of the night. When sweeping the "May 7th Tomb", the relatives of the deceased should carry paper bundles and offerings such as Jinyinshan, cash cow and cornucopia for sacrifice.

According to local legend, "May 7th" is the end of all sacrificial activities of the deceased. On this day, the King Wu of the Temple of Hades will finally investigate whether the deceased will go to hell to suffer, or be reborn and reincarnated. These five Yan kings are very strict and selfless. The only weakness is that he has no daughter as an adult, so he is generally more tolerant of people who have daughters. If he hears the cry of the deceased's daughter in the final audit, he will let the deceased go. Therefore, on May 7th, when a girl dies, the girl has the custom of crying at the grave in the morning.

May 7th is a very important day, so don't advance or postpone it.

We are more concerned here, but we can ask the opinions of the elderly at home, and the mourning hall will not let go. If we don't pay much attention, please take out the urn (remember to take an umbrella and never see the sun), find the coffin that burned paper on the day of cremation (the funeral home has a special memorial place with 12 genus), and put the urn under the photo frame of the deceased before his death (it can be covered with red cloth or yellow cloth) and put it under it before his death. Those who like drinking and smoking can bring their own brands. After the memorial ceremony (burning paper) begins, they will light cigarettes and pour three glasses of wine. The first two cups will be poured into the circle drawn before burning paper, and the last cup will be left in front of the coffin. You should talk to the old man and cry. In addition to children, it is best for close relatives and friends to come to pay homage to the deceased.

If you are very particular, add up the three or four items you mentioned, set up a mourning hall, set a table in the mourning hall, pour wine and tea, set up washing water and foot washing water in the room where you lived before your death, and put away the clothes you wore before your death in the bed where you slept before your death-in short, prepare for his last night's rest. In the afternoon 10, the summoning ceremony began (for fear that he forgot to go home). The eldest son climbed onto the roof of the mourning hall with a lantern (for fear that he could not see the road clearly at night), raised three tiles and shouted "Dad, come back ~ ~" to the night sky. The others knelt in a row on the stairs, crying and screaming. It is suggested that regardless of the old habits, May 7th should be regarded as July 7th, that is, it should be unified, but April 7th should not be.

The most important death dates: the first seven days, the fifth seven days (July 7) and the hundredth day.

The next three days: Qingming (early Qingming), 11th (late November of the lunar calendar), and Memorial Day.

You can burn paper at home on the 30th, and go to the cemetery on the New Year's Eve or the fifth day.