Is it okay for children to take their mother's surname? What are the disadvantages?

Disadvantages 1. Parents often have prejudice because of their children's surnames. Surname is really a very important symbol, it is a symbol of the clan, but also a symbol of the continuation of blood. It is significant for children and elders to have their own surnames. Although they may not say it, many old people will still have such paranoia subconsciously. In many families where two children take their mother's surname, grandparents prefer the children who take their father's surname. Grandparents, on the other hand, prefer children with their mothers' surnames, and it is even difficult to level a bowl of water. In the long run, children will definitely complain.

Disadvantage two, children will be confused. Children may have no concept of surnames when they are young. But when you grow up, you may be confused. Why do your brothers and sisters, or brothers and sisters, have different surnames? Aren't you your own? It can be seen that if there is such misunderstanding between the second child and the mother's surname, it will lead to disharmony in family relations.

Disadvantage three, it is easy to cause family conflicts. It's a bit like separating the surnames of two children? Separation? This feeling. Parents themselves may be unconscious, but subconsciously they feel that children with their mother's surname will be closer to their mothers, and children with their father's surname will be closer to their fathers. This embarrassing situation itself violates the original intention of taking the mother's surname.

Disadvantage four, the outside world is easy to misunderstand. At present, taking the mother's surname is not particularly popular, and the traditional concept of the family with the father's surname in China is not so easy to change. The surnames of the two children are different, and the first reaction of others is that the feelings of both parents are definitely not good, and the children should be separated. It is also possible that the parents have divorced, so the surnames of the two children are different. How to make a child feel better when he is misunderstood like this?

Children take their mother's surname, and the disadvantages in the future are more reflected in the harm to children. It is not impossible for children to take their mother's surname, but only if parents can ensure that a bowl of water is flat. At the same time, I hope more people in the society can change this clan concept and let children choose their surnames freely.