How to congratulate the woman for adding grandson full moon wine?

Linhai folk custom: 1. When the full moon and the one-year-old baby are born, besides shaving their heads with silver, they should also prepare a lot of powder cakes at the same time. Moon cakes are placed in wooden molds, pasted on zongzi leaves and distributed to neighbors and grandmothers. To share the joy of adding food and mouth. When the baby is one year old, there are many zongzi at home. It's called the opposite-axis zongzi, which is distributed to neighbors. I also want to choose my grandmother's house and live with her and her neighbors. Grandma will send new clothes and New Pants new coats to celebrate each other. 2. After young men and women get married, the man, accompanied by his wife, visits the woman's house with gifts to get close to his elders and in-laws. Before the Chinese New Year, there is a prelude activity: within ten days after December 20 of the lunar calendar, choose an auspicious day to send gifts to the woman's house, which is called "annual plan". Usually the groom's brother will do it for him. Gifts are packed in a utensil called "Qing Basket Bear" ―― Qing Basket Bear is made of bamboo and is circular. Each basket is divided into three compartments, and each compartment can be taken at will, and each basket has six compartments. Put pig's trotters, water chestnuts, five-color fruits (melon seeds, peanuts and ginkgo are all dyed red), a pig's lung, square cakes, fish sticks and so on. The sender will return on the same day. This kind of gift is usually given only once. If you want to send it in the future, it will not be so grand. After the man's family passed the "annual plan", the day of New Year's greetings arrived in a blink of an eye. On this day, you can't leave as you please. There are strict restrictions. In the first year, I went to the fourth day of the first month and came back for Chinese food on the sixth day. The gift is 3-4 kilograms of pork. According to the number of the woman's elders, several pairs of red paper bags are prepared accordingly. Two red paper bags * * * are a pair. One contains about 0.5 kg of white sugar, and the other contains 0.5 kg of longan or 0.5 kg of lotus seeds, which are wrapped in a trapezoidal shape. And bring more than two bundles of sugar cane. When you get there, sugar cane will be distributed to neighbors and children in sections. The elders who received the gifts prepared banquets, entertained the new son-in-law, and presented money to welcome them. When the son-in-law comes home, the mother-in-law prepares dumplings for him to take back to wish the reunion. Take Yuanyuan back and try it for the neighbors. Go back on the sixth and ninth day of the first month of the second year. This gift is also relatively simple, only 2-3 Jin of pork and a few sugarcane. However, because they have been married for nearly a year, many newlyweds have more children, and they also brought them this time. The child put on new clothes, tied a bowl, a pair of chopsticks and an old calendar book on his back, implying that the begging child's life is cheap and his journey is smooth and safe, which has nothing to do with evil spirits and good luck. Grandmothers are very happy to see their daughters and son-in-law with grandchildren. However, the elders of the woman's family once again spent money: everyone wrapped some money in red paper, tied it up with red silk thread and hung it around the child's neck, which is called lucky money, which is a kind of late lucky money. The third year is simpler than the second. Just take a few kilograms of pork. The date of travel is also decided by the man, and most of them choose one of the three days of 369, go back on the same day, or stay for one night. After three years of worship in the first month in a row, I am no longer polite. Before returning home, many young men and women choose to hold their wedding in October to December of the lunar calendar after the autumn harvest. After living in her husband's family for a period of time, the woman went home in the first month of the following year, which was just 1-2 days. When asked in April, she brought some gifts, bid farewell to Aunt Weng's husband, and officially went to her mother's "holiday". This is called a comeback. This holiday is quite long. But during this long vacation, the woman can't go back to her husband's house at will. On an auspicious day in August, the man prepares pork, cakes, steamed bread and other items, picks them up at his husband's house and takes his wife back. When a wife returns to her husband's house, she is not empty-handed. Mother-in-law has prepared a wooden pedal spinning wheel, a pair of extra-large cotton threads wrapped in red paper, and an empty basket made of bamboo silk for weaving hemp, which shows that the working women who spin cotton and weave ridges (hemp) should not forget their true colors. At the same time, he also brought back people who took care of the affairs of his husband's family. According to his foot shape, each person issued a pair of cloth shoes, called round door shoes. After this visit, there is no limit on the time and frequency of the new wife's return to her family. When you move from one house to another, you usually choose a good day, especially when you move from an old house to a new house. Move before dawn in the morning. Before moving the house, make a mess of bamboo, bamboo poles (bamboo poles for drying clothes) and bamboo trusses, and cook a pot of rice, four pots of vegetables and a bowl of soup in the morning. There should be roasted fish in the dish, which means that there is a body to rely on. Put the cooked rice (with rice in the pot) and the vegetables together in the reed and light it on the stove at the other end, commonly known as "ignition", which means that the fire keeps burning. When going out, there were three shots, and the family went to the new house with lanterns, fire, bamboo poles and bamboo trusses. It takes three shots to enter the house, hang two lanterns at the door, lean the bamboo brace against the new house, and put the bamboo truss across the bamboo brace. It means that new families will support (get rich) and prosper. Then, we will tidy up the food we have picked up and have breakfast in the new house. If you have to pour the whole meal, you can't finish it, which means there are still some left at home. In the past, when you moved, you didn't inform your relatives and friends, which means you didn't please them. But now when we move out of the house, we have to make wine. After choosing a good day, you should inform your friends and relatives to come and congratulate you. "Going to the house and going out of the valley" means that you have to spend money to entertain friends and family when you move out of the house. When relatives and friends come to congratulate each other, they should send rice noodles and red envelopes. 5. Spring Festival Spring Festival is the most solemn festival in the Chinese New Year custom, commonly known as "Chinese New Year", which generally starts from the beginning of the New Year's Day and ends on the eighth day. Traditionally, the first to the third day of junior high school are regarded as positive years, and festivals begin on New Year's Eve or even the 24th of the twelfth lunar month. All kinds of customs and activities during the period are related to celebrating the New Year. 1The evening of February 30th (the ninth day of the first lunar month) is the day of reunion. Anyone who goes out to work, do business, etc. There are no special circumstances, try to go home before this day. The last one will arrive before New Year's Eve, and the family will be reunited and sit on the "Shounian". At the same time, we also pay attention to the pairing of basket, rice screen, chaff screen and reed for good luck. The family get together and sit together to "keep watch". It is customary for elders to give lucky money to their children and grandchildren for good luck. Over time, every household in Daimon Masaru opened, and countless firecrackers and fireworks exploded at the same time, commonly known as "firing". In the past, the "open-door cannon" was used to kill the evil spirits of mandrill. In modern times, the superstition it contains is already very weak, and it only represents the meaning of "saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new" and "auspicious omen". "Setting off firecrackers, catching up with the world and making morning tea" are the three things at the beginning of the new year. When connecting heaven and earth, put three plates of tea, fruit and rice on the Eight Immortals table, set the incense burner, light incense and light candles. Even heaven and earth, also known as even New Year, means to wish the old year and the new year and good luck. According to traditional habits, wearing new clothes and shoes on the first day of school generally won't travel far. Those who go out to visit relatives and friends only visit each other in their hometown and neighborhood and exchange auspicious words. Some play together, and some go to the temple to worship Buddha together, so as to wish peace in one year and prosperity in all seasons. At the beginning of the Spring Festival, the villagers stopped working in the fields. On the morning of the fourth day of the first month, the village leaders are in charge, beating gongs and drums everywhere, indicating that the rest period has passed, and they can go to the fields to engage in loud activities, such as hammering straw to weave straw sandals and beating rice. In the previous three days, any activity that would make a lot of noise was forbidden, but setting off fireworks was the only exception. Eat well on New Year's Day, which means that if you eat well on the first day of the year, you will eat well in the future. Generally, they eat pork, steamed bread and rice cakes, and some even make "glutinous rice balls" to express reunion. On the first day of junior high school, there were still many taboos in the past: don't sweep the floor, don't pour water on the ground, don't move a knife, don't sew, don't work, don't do business, don't swear, don't collect debts, don't fight, even if you care about the day when you have enemies, you should live in harmony. But in modern times, the taboo of not sweeping the floor, not falling into the water, not moving knives, not working and not doing business has been gradually broken. From the second day of the first month, the younger generation visited relatives and friends with Chinese New Year gifts, and worshipped their elders, commonly known as "worshipping the old". Children went out to worship their grandparents, uncles, aunts and other relatives, and son-in-law worshipped their parents. The elders should give the younger generation lucky money, which is called "lucky money". In order to receive New Year's guests, every elder should prepare longan, brown sugar and other tea bubbles at home. When tourists come, they will drink tea, including longan, litchi and red dates. However, tourists generally don't eat "tea bubble", that is, they don't eat longan and litchi in tea, but only drink a few mouthfuls of green tea, up to three mouthfuls, commonly known as "tea bubble, which makes the mother teach". However, modern times pay attention to hygiene and get rid of old habits. Usually all the tea is finished. After tea, please eat fried rice, sugar, oranges, peanuts and other sweets, and then eat dessert-"topping noodles". Eat food and drink wine for lunch or dinner. The eighth day of the first month is commonly known as "Shangba". After the eighth day, folk New Year greetings will come to an end. 6. Marriage is an important part of people's lives, and wedding etiquette is a major etiquette in life. In the long historical process, all ethnic groups and regions have formed their own unique marriage customs, which have been passed down from generation to generation. The following are several influential agendas in the old marriage customs in Yongquan area. When a man and a woman are under the age of 15- 17, the matchmaker will come to the door and match them up according to their family situation. If both parents agree, no matter whether two young people, that is, the parents of the woman, ask the fortune teller to write a horoscope that ordinary people can't understand according to the date of the girl's birth, that is, it is composed of two branches on the date of the month, which is called "horoscope". The parents of the man will sum up the eight characters of the girl's age and the son's age. If two people are together and there is no taboo, the marriage relationship between the two sides will be settled; Or there is a woman spying on the young man from the darkness and choosing to agree or disagree. If there are no serious problems, tell each other through the matchmaker that both sides agree, then young men and women will become lifelong partners. This is "matchmaker's words, parents' lives". Children have no right to express their opinions at all. Since both parties are allowed to get married, they have to make a "small decision". The so-called small decision is to choose an auspicious day, and the man will buy some clothes and give them to the woman through the matchmaker. In this way, the marriage was officially settled. Several years after the delivery date and premarital preparation have been decided. When men grow up, so do women. First, the man's parents proposed to the matchmaker that they wanted to get married one day. The matchmaker told the woman the information. The woman wants a bride price (how many coins) and a bride price (pork and cake). The salary depends on the family situation, and the man generally does not refuse to bargain. After receiving the dowry from the man, the woman began to prepare the dowry. Dowry is generally a necessity and general daily necessities for girls after they marry men. The man can repair the house, repair it, and paint it into a new wedding house. Today is an auspicious day to marry the bride, and both parties should invite guests. In advance, the man will send a cake or steamed bread made of 100 Jin of pork, 100 Jin of rice or wheat flour to the woman's house before Kyrgyzstan. The woman's banquet is breakfast and lunch, and the atmosphere is rather dull. The man is very lively: the day before the auspicious day, a banquet, especially breakfast, was prepared. Early that morning, the man offered pigs and sheep to heaven and earth, thanking heaven and earth for giving people everything. So it is called Xie Tian wine or bedroom wine. Also on this day, the dowry of the woman, such as 1' s daily necessities, is sent back by the man to the new house for display. Among them, a pair of new toilets were put in a linen bag made of red linen. Put five red eggs and some five-color fruits in the bucket, which are composed of five kinds of red dates, dyed peanuts, melon seeds, longan and dyed apricots (ginkgo fruit), symbolizing the auspicious meaning of reunion and early birth. Five sons graduated from school. This pair of new toilets should be delivered to the bridal chamber by the groom's brother or brother on their wedding night. When the auspicious day came, the band invited by the man and the man hired to carry the sedan chair blew the beat. At this time, the matchmaker and the two little girls invited by the man named "Aunt Accompanying" followed them to the woman's house to welcome the couple. Girls need to dress up and change clothes at home, which is also called a full face, that is, older women use double silk threads to remove the facial hair from their couples' faces one by one. And bid farewell to ancestors and elders, parents, brothers and sisters-in-law, matchmaker and two girls of the same age as the bride (also called dowry aunt) helped them get into the sedan chair, and they went straight to the groom's house. At this time, the groom's house is also very lively. Couplets, couplets and double happiness words are posted everywhere, like a red ocean. After the bride arrived at the door in a sedan chair, with the help of the matchmaker and four accompanying aunts, she passed through Wang Hong's brazier. At this time, the bride must walk on the red linen pocket or straw mat passed from one person to another until the new house. It symbolizes the richness of life and is passed down from generation to generation. After the bride sits on the edge of the new house, let you have a rest first and then have some snacks. Accompanied by my aunt, I came to nave, facing east and facing west with the newly dressed groom. Listen to the emcee sing "One worships heaven and earth, the other worships Gaotang, and the husband and wife respect each other". At that time, a couple had to obey orders, but they were in a state of ignorance. When the husband and wife say goodbye, the bride bows to the groom first, indicating that I have entrusted her for life. The groom returns the gift, so that you can worry about all the housework in the future. After the ceremony, a couple and the guests sat down to enjoy the feast. This banquet is also called bridal chamber wine. After the bridal banquet, the bride still returned to the bridal chamber and sat on the bed. After the guests got as drunk as a fiddler, most of them went back to rest. Only young people rush into the new house, enjoy the daughter-in-law's play, ask the bride for candy, red eggs, cigarettes, and even say something embarrassing to the bride. This is called "making trouble in the bridal chamber". At midnight, it's time to send the bridal chamber. At this time, another table of dining tables was moved, and a couple, aunt and groom's uncle moved chopsticks and ate some more. When the couple toasted, the family members who made trouble in the bridal chamber withdrew one after another, leaving only one person present to sing the bridal chamber sutra. When the bridal chamber is finished, leave the new house and bring a new door. The wedding climax is coming to an end. After the auspicious day of the ecliptic, there is still a banquet for Chinese food the next day, and then guests are invited to call it "three-day wine" or "farewell wine". Before the banquet, there is a custom of "worshipping for three days", that is, the elders should give the bride money to meet, and the bride and groom should bow down and give gifts to the couple. In some families, on the third day after marriage, the groom, accompanied by the bride, goes to the woman's house to visit her parents-in-law, and the woman calls it "returning home". Since then, after the lively and extraordinary wedding etiquette, it has returned to the original quiet life. 7. Lantern Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival are the traditional "Lantern Festival" in China. But the locals regard the fourteenth day of the first month as Yuanxiao. Lantern Festival is the Lantern Festival. The main activity is to decorate and watch lanterns. Hanging lights usually starts from 13 or 14, or hangs for five nights, or hangs for two or three nights, and the night of 14 is the climax. Every household, rich or poor, hangs colored lights in front of the door. Watching lanterns on the Lantern Festival is a great pleasure in holiday life. On this night, the children are happier and more active. They walk around the house with lanterns in their hands, or they chase rabbits noisily until late at night with rabbit lanterns in their hands. On this night, every household's room is lit with candles, which is the so-called "intermittent light". There is also the custom of eating soup at midnight; The so-called soup is to stir-fry shredded pork, shredded winter bamboo shoots, mushrooms, fungus, fresh clams, dried tofu, oil bubbles, Sichuan bean boards, spinach and the like in a pot, then mix the water into rice flour and boil it into a paste. Because of the variety of raw materials, it tastes delicious. I also eat sweet soup in the evening, which is made of mountain flour with lotus seeds, candied dates and longan meat. According to legend, when Weichi Gong built the wall of Taizhou in the Tang Dynasty, the weather was extremely cold, often dripping into ice. However, the soldiers who built the city are still wearing thin clothes and are difficult to support. At this time, in order to comfort the soldiers who built the city, the people took out the rice, distiller's grains and other foods that they could not bear to eat at home at ordinary times, then mixed them together, added vegetables and other things, and then took them out and sent them to the construction site when they were cooked into a paste. This kind of food not only tastes good, but also can supplement calories to keep out the cold. People call this kind of food bad soup. On this day, it is Yuanxiao. Later, with the change of time, the soup was also mixed with a little shredded pork and the like. Lantern Festival is in the Yuan Dynasty. Because Fang Guozhen's mother was a vegetarian on the 15th day of the first lunar month, she moved up one day, and the Mid-Autumn Festival on August 15 was also postponed one day to August 16. At present, only Ningbo, Wenzhou and Taizhou in China have this habit, and these three places have been ruled by Fang Guozhen.