Married women in Maanshan, Anhui Province

Generally, the man entrusts the media to propose to the woman. The families of both sides are similar, so it is better to be suitable. In the old days, with the consent of both parents, they exchanged birthdays with Geng Tie, and fortune tellers in the Qing Dynasty predicted good or bad luck by "combining eight characters". If the horoscope matches, you can get engaged. Formal engagement is "too red book", also called "too book". [The man talks to the media about the bride price. After the woman puts forward the amount of the bride price, the amount and quality of the bride price prepared by the man according to the agreed standard are determined by the family situation of both parties, and there is no exact regulation.

The man's family chooses an auspicious day to "pass the red book". Give the woman's parents ten books first, then invite the matchmaker to Cambodia. It is a Japanese man's house where lanterns are hung, incense is burned and candles are lit, deacons write "keepsakes", and matchmakers send them to the woman's house with red stickers and dowry of "Please Promise". The woman can get married as long as she returns to the Green Hill in Yu Yun Yin, and the man will invite her to have a "Haqin wine" through the media. The two sides will decide the date of marriage and make preparations for marriage respectively.