Should I worship a bodhisattva or hold a spell when I want to get married?

Seeking marriage, there is a method in Buddhism, that is, writing for a wife or husband. I'll turn an article to show you the specific operation method.

The fate of marriage can be sought in Buddhism.

Let me talk about the principle. From the Buddhist point of view, all the sufferings we are suffering at this moment are caused by the bad karma in the previous life, and all the happiness we are enjoying at this moment is the maturity of the good karma in the previous life. This is called good and evil are rewarded. A person's love is not smooth, marriage is not smooth, and he can't find a boyfriend or girlfriend. This has a lot to do with what we did in our last life. As trees are, so are fruits. This is called cause and effect. If you have done anything in the past (including previous lives) to destroy other people's marriage, or if you are engaged in serious prostitution, then your marriage will not be smooth in this life.

So what should we do? The way is, in this life, from now on, do good deeds. Don't do all kinds of evil, do all kinds of good, if you can't find the right person for a while, there is no hurry. This is called abandoning the old industry with fate, and then, stop creating new industries and work hard to do it well. Then ask the Bodhisattva to do good deeds, and the Bodhisattva will help you for doing good deeds.

From the Buddhist point of view, chanting Buddha, chanting scriptures, becoming a vegetarian and releasing people are all good deeds.

I will forward an article to the landlord, hoping to inspire.

The hero of the article first makes a wish to the bodhisattva. For example, what are the conditions for a good marriage? Wait a minute. Then promise to read more scriptures, do more good deeds and do more merits in a period of time (say, three years). Finally, I asked the Bodhisattva to bless him to realize his wish. You can also study

I succeeded in getting a good job and details of a good marriage from the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva.

In Buddhism, I want everything: I got a good job and a good marriage from the treasure king bodhisattva.

Author: Suo Jushi (female, 27 years old)

Sister Sunshine's Note: The author has asked the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva for a good job and marriage, but fellow practitioners must not copy it mechanically. All buddhas and bodhisattvas can help us at any time. The key is to see if our hearts are sincere. We can ask for help from any Buddha and Bodhisattva who are predestined friends with us, because asking for help from Buddha and Bodhisattva who are predestined friends with us makes our hearts sincere and easy to communicate with them. In addition, the following shows that deep repentance is very important. Without deep repentance, karma can't be eliminated, and it's useless to shout your throat out. It's no use asking Buddha and Bodhisattva again. Therefore, please ask fellow practitioners with heavy karma to focus on confessing their karma first, with less karma and greater merit, in order to achieve their goals.

I am a 27-year-old girl. The reason why I studied Buddhism is because my feelings and work are not smooth. At the end of June, 2007, 1 1, participated in the No.1 10 banner of Shanxi Small Courtyard. Through knowing the cause and effect, learning from Buddhism and practicing, I got a good job and a good marriage for the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva. In September 2007, I lost my job. Beijing has more talents and less jobs. It was sad when the interview hit a wall. Since graduating from college in 2004, my work has been very unsatisfactory, and I have experienced many unemployment and job hopping. Not only is there no job, but there is also no good love. I'm alone in Beijing, and it's really hard to live without work and love. There was even a time when I felt inferior, had no self-confidence and was desperate for the future.

First, understand the cause and effect.

After playing in Shanxi Yard for seven days, I understand the cause and effect, and understand that work and love are not smooth. Why is it not going well at work? There is a problem at work, and there is a problem in wealth, which is the consequence. Since I started working in 2004, I didn't work hard, was late for work, and regarded work as a game. Tired work is unwilling to do, and hard work is even more unwilling to do. Chatting QQ at work every day, careless at work, just so-so, chatting on the phone at the company, lazy, I have everything. People like me, how can God let me work smoothly? This is the reason, so what goes around comes around is of course natural. Think again before, when I was a child, I stole something from others and refused to pay it back. I'm still stingy and jealous. I am afraid that others are better than me and hinder the development of others' careers. Afraid that others will take advantage of me, I can't stand a little loss. How can a person like me have good luck? Why is it not going well emotionally? Everything is cause and effect. "Tell me about the bird, pigeon and mandarin duck when I meet an adulterer"-these are the original words in the Tibetan scriptures.

All emotional setbacks are the result of repeated immoral behavior. All the good and bad things we do in this world will be rewarded. We all hurt others emotionally in past lives, so our karma is being hurt by others. Therefore, if you want to have a good marriage, you must get rid of lewdness and treat others sincerely. But since I fell in love, I have been greedy for money, money and power, and I often look down on others and commit adultery. How can a person like me have a happy love and marriage? What is lewd? Prostitution includes all improper relationships between men and women except husband and wife, including cohabitation before marriage, extramarital affairs, prostitution, speaking dirty words, reading dirty books and audio-visual products. Knowing the cause and effect, I often repent in front of the Tibetan king bodhisattva, and I have worked hard all my life, which has hindered the success of others' careers and I have been engaged in prostitution all my life. When I knelt in front of the bodhisattva and read the Tibetan scriptures, tears came down. I think it's not my tears, but the tears of my unjust relatives and creditors. Sometimes I cry so hard that I can't speak. I sincerely repent and moved the earth treasure bodhisattva.

Second, ask the earth treasure bodhisattva for a job.

Ran Jushi of Shanxi Field said that the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva had miraculous powers, and he asked the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva for a job and marriage. So I felt that I was in a hurry to get a job, so I asked the earth treasure bodhisattva for a job first. So I wrote a letter to the earth treasure king bodhisattva, asking for a job. Nan has no great wishes, and his disciples sincerely pray for repentance. Disciples' work was not smooth and bumpy because past lives hindered the success of others' work and he didn't work hard. Disciples sincerely pray for repentance. Disciple was wrong. Disciples are ignorant. The apprentice didn't work well and couldn't find a job. Parents are most worried. Moreover, disciples have no job, and they cannot practice with peace of mind. Pray for mercy, give me a satisfactory job, let me honor my parents and practice with peace of mind. I hope my job can:

1. The salary is satisfactory to me.

2. The company had better be in the city center.

Don't be too far away from home, because I have to hurry to read the scriptures and learn Buddhism.

4. a stable job can make me develop for a long time, and it is best to do it for a long time.

Make a wish for this disciple:

1. I read 500 Tibetan scriptures and went back to my unjust relatives and creditors, asking the Bodhisattva for mercy and making them happy and living in the pure land.

From now on, don't do bad things that hinder others' career development, and do your best to give.

3. 1000 vows to do good.

4. Try to help others learn Buddhism.

Swear to work hard from now on.

After that, I read the Tibetan scriptures carefully every day, and read this "job search" letter on my knees in front of the statue of Bodhisattva, the king of Tibet, every night, sincerely repenting. Walking on the road during the day, I gave my seat to the elderly. When I met beggars, I gave alms, set them free, and donated money to help print scriptures. I remember a month later, on a cold night, I was walking in the street and saw an old man begging for an erhu. My heart is broken. I gave it to him 10 yuan without hesitation, and he was very happy. The next day, I found a very satisfactory job. To my surprise, this job fully meets my requirements and my colleagues in the company have a good relationship with me. We get along well, are very happy, work smoothly and the boss is very tolerant. I see. I really help others. I didn't have sincerity in helping others before, and I was embarrassed to ask for something in return. Help others with sincerity and unrequited heart, give to others, and you can communicate with Bodhisattva. (February, 2009/10am 0 1:20:05)

Third, propose to the earth treasure bodhisattva.

I got a job and went to work happily every day, but I'm not married yet. My parents are very anxious, urging me every day, and I am also anxious. So I began to propose to the earth treasure bodhisattva again. Beg the bodhisattva to give me a good marriage. I got the bodhisattva's marriage by changing my mind. I also wrote a "Begging for Comfort" to propose to the Tibetan King and Bodhisattva, and I knelt before the Bodhisattva every day to sincerely repent. But after several months, I still can't find it. I once chatted with a brother on the Internet. I said I proposed to the Bodhisattva. Why can't I get it? Brother asked, "Can you tell me what kind of marriage you asked the Bodhisattva for?" ? When I said yes, I told my brother my conditions. I said that I asked Bodhisattva to find a boyfriend who is "good-looking, well-off, has a good job, is kind to me and studies Buddhism seriously". Hearing this, the senior brother said, "If he is a bodhisattva, he will not fulfill my wish, because my heart still shows outstanding desires and material things. Buddhists and bodhisattvas will only help us get rid of greed, and will never increase our greed. You should ask the Bodhisattva for a marriage that is conducive to your practice. " I feel very reasonable after listening to it, but I still can't get rid of my greed. Only later did I understand what true love is and what marriage is.

What is true love and marriage?

Men's lust and women's lust for money determine that they will not be happy, not only will they not be happy, but they will also bring great misfortune.

Getting rid of prostitution is the foundation of happiness. The harm of prostitution is very serious, which will greatly reduce the chances of a happy love and a happy marriage, and make the couple who might have been old together become just a fate.

True and reliable love and marriage are based on two people's common beliefs and down-to-earth life. Common filial piety, adoptive parents, service teachers, care for each other.

A happy marriage is a person's blessing, and it is necessary to accumulate blessings. If you want to live a rich life, Ford has accumulated enough, and wealth is unattainable. On the other hand, people without wealth cannot ask for happiness. At this time, I changed my standard of marriage proposal and wrote an article "Seeking Husband's Comfort" to propose to the Earth Treasure King Bodhisattva. There is no big wish, begging my husband to go to the south. Because the disciple was lewd all his life, his parents were unfilial, and his love life was not smooth, he sincerely asked for repentance. Disciples should bear the consequences of their sins when they understand the cause and effect after encountering Buddhism. Disciples sincerely pray for repentance from the Tibetan King, Bodhisattva and unjust relatives and creditors. Pray for mercy from the Bodhisattva, give me a happy marriage, be filial to my adoptive parents, and promote Buddhism. I hope he can satisfy:

1. Really practice, really learn Buddhism, observe the five precepts, and jointly establish Buddhism.

2. People are honest, sincere and filial to their parents.

3. stable work.

Family conditions are similar to mine.

As long as my appearance and height satisfy me.

Therefore, disciple made a wish:

1. From now on, don't commit adultery and leave the industry with dirty body and mouth.

2. Try to persuade others of the dangers of fornication.

3. Insist on reading Tibetan Classics and swear to return 500 copies to those I have hurt emotionally.

4. Do your best to publish scriptures and help print them.

5. 1000 vows to do good.

Every day, I kneel in front of the statue of Tibetan King and Bodhisattva to read this book sincerely, repent, set free, read the scriptures and help print them. More than three months later, I once went to a temple to convert and met a senior brother. We hit it off very well. After a period of contact, I found that his conditions were almost the same as those I proposed to the Earth Treasure King Bodhisattva. He is a good brother who really practices Buddhism. He helped me study Buddhism. We are vegetarian, chanting together, chanting together and practicing together. The Tibetan King and Bodhisattva were merciful, and I got a good marriage as I wished.

Four, internship experience of more than one year:

1. "The environment changes at will". Turning the heart is the key. When the heart changes, the environment changes. As an only child, I have a very heavy habit, that is, I will be good to others if others are good to me first, and I will pay others if others pay first, and I don't like to suffer. So I have always met villains since I was a child, and none of my friends really helped me. After studying Buddhism, I understood that "the environment turns from the heart." I decided to pay first, help others sincerely first, and see if my environment can be reversed. After 1 years of doing good, listening, reading, repenting and sincerely helping others, I found that my situation has really changed. I feel that people around me are very enthusiastic, very good and sincerely help me, which is completely different from my previous situation. So I came to a conclusion that "to learn Buddhism and practice, we must first change ourselves."

2. Encountering bad karma in the process of spiritual practice is the elimination of karma. In the process of marriage, I also encountered several bad karma. Every time I meet a boy, I first ask the Bodhisattva to help me judge whether this person is good or bad with me. If it is a good fate, let us communicate smoothly. If it's bad karma, please help me break it. It's very clever. I remember once meeting a brother who studied Buddhism. He lied in the name of learning Buddha. I asked the Bodhisattva to help me judge whether he and I were good or bad, and soon I found out that he was married. If it weren't for Buddha's blessing, I would have been cheated by him.

3. perseverance. Six series of Shanxi small courtyard are persistent, vegetarian, chanting Tibetan scriptures, repenting, releasing, doing good deeds and chanting the name of Amitabha. When we encounter difficulties in job hunting and marriage, we can't give up. I can't get it because of the heavy karma. Everyone has a different foundation. Some people get it in a few months because of light karma, while others need 1 year or even longer. But it also depends on the level of personal practice. Some senior brothers insist on seven Tibetan scriptures every day, which makes the karma disappear faster.

For married people, if the marriage is not smooth, don't complain, find your own reasons first. A bad marriage must be something you did to hurt others in your last life. Through the six-part series of Shanxi Academy, you can definitely change it through vegetarianism, repentance, chanting, doing good deeds, releasing people and chanting Buddha's name. I know a married brother. Her marriage is very bad, but she gets up at 3: 00 every morning to chant Buddhist scripture and do good deeds. After half a year, her marriage is completely good and now she is very happy.

It is very important to be a vegetarian. Young people think vegetarianism is old-fashioned, but vegetarianism is very important. The animals and seafood we eat are spiritual. They will attach themselves to our bodies and around us, collect debts from us and disturb our lives. Vegetarianism is the beginning of learning Buddhism, and vegetarianism means no longer being enemies with other animals. It is difficult for us young people to break the meat, so don't worry. As long as you sincerely pray for the blessing of Buddha and Bodhisattva, it will be broken. Recently, I had a brother who shared a dormitory with me when I was playing at 7 o'clock in Shanxi yard. Not long ago, she gave birth to a daughter. When she was pregnant, she insisted on practicing, read Tibetan scriptures to the fetus in her stomach, and gave birth to a very obedient baby. I believe that after I get married, as long as I practice in accordance with the six-part series, I can also ask the earth treasure bodhisattva for a good baby.

Last but not least, you should abandon your old career and never start a new one. If not, you don't worry for the time being, and Bodhisattva can't directly change your destiny. Like a prisoner sentenced to 10 years in prison. Can Bodhisattva free him at will? We can only teach him to turn over a new leaf, do good deeds and make meritorious deeds, and then we can help him reduce his punishment.

To turn over a new leaf and do good deeds, we need to accumulate good deeds and wait for the day when the merits of good deeds outweigh the merits of evil deeds.

One more thing, worldly law is also very important. Don't wait for bodhisattva to help you, don't wait for fate, try to find it yourself. Bodhisattva plays an instrumental role with its own efforts, with 99% sweat and 1% bodhisattva's guidance.