What did you talk to the girl you just met?

1, simple and implicit cold reading, many boys can't talk, the main reason is not that you can't chat, you are not handsome enough, you don't have much money, but two reasons. First, you haven't opened your sister's heart yet, and she is still on guard when chatting with you. Second, my sister is not interested in you. In the first case, she can look at it directly. My sister will think you know her well. Cold reading can be downloaded and read in Baidu. In the second case, she needs to be attracted step by step. 2. Chat Phase Start the chat phase. It's important to chat gracefully. At this time, * * * should remember two words, smile, look in the eyes, smile slightly, not laugh, so as to be charming and elegant. She nodded and smiled when she spoke, without looking away. No matter what she says, you talk. Don't look away, give people a feeling of confidence. 3, body language just started chatting together, don't get too close to her, get too close, that is to invade her territory, so we have to attack the city and plunder the land, don't let her find out, about one and a half meters away from her, so you are also comfortable. She is also very comfortable, and most of the inspiration for chatting comes from the way. This is also very important. You must be comfortable and confident. Self-confidence, self-confidence, say the important things three times. Continue the topic with vague words. Everyone should have read articles such as constellation inventory and personality analysis. Are you often attracted by such headlines: "Pisces is really distressing" and "Don't scold them, it may hurt them for life". At first glance, I think it's quite amazing: I'm a Pisces. This author's analysis is really accurate, almost to my heart, I pay decisive attention! But if you read more, you will find that it just tells the commonness of most people. This is the Barnum effect in psychology. It probably means that everyone can easily believe that a general description of personality is especially suitable for him. Even if this description is empty, even if you are not such a person at all. If you meet a girl who feels good, if she is quiet, you can say, I think you are just slow-heating, and your lively side will be displayed with people you know or really trust. If she is careless, you can say, I think although you look careless, you should still be thoughtful and quiet when you are alone. If you talk like this, she will think that you speak to her heart, because most people do. What to talk to a girl you just met? 2 1. Tell me about reality. Don't talk about chicken soup for the soul with the girl you just met. Talk to girls about real things to get to know each other better. There are many topics to talk about. 2. Talk about each other's study or work. If you are lucky enough to be a school and a company in the future, then you can talk to girls about their study or work. 3. Talk about hobbies and girls you just met. Don't be in a hurry to fall in love, and don't chat with others like checking accounts. Let's talk about each other's hobbies, first talk about ourselves, and then ask the girls. The topic naturally opened. 4. Talking about horoscopes Although things like horoscopes are not so accurate, they can really give people guidance. Instead of regarding the constellation as superstition, it is better to regard it as entertainment and an interesting and safe topic for men and women to talk about. In addition, most girls are interested in constellations. 5. Talking about third-party topics A third-party topic is a topic that has nothing to do with you or her. For example, what movies have been shown recently, what's the weather like today, what's the star news recently and so on. I just met a girl. What are you talking about? 3 1. First of all, don't talk in a hurry. Think about strategy before you act. Girls like to know this person by looking at their circle of friends, so you need to build a good profile and a good circle of friends, so as to show your elegant temperament. At least you need to convey this message in your circle of friends: what kind of person you are and what kind of life you live. Instead of blindly reprinting some boring articles and pictures, girls will not have a good impression on you. It was really hard for me to pick up girls before. I have been a boy for 28 years. At that time, I had a shadow in my heart and was afraid of contacting girls. I came across a book about picking up girls-The Manipulation of Love, which taught many methods of chasing girls, all of which can directly determine the relationship and win without confession. Since then, peach blossoms have continued, and one sister after another has settled down. Now I understand that picking up girls is a technical job, and the result of knowing and not knowing is completely different. I think all the brothers who have taken off the order can have a look. If you check online, there are e-books. It's amazing that you can see the key effect without spending money. I wish all brothers an early cancellation. 2. Say hello. It doesn't take much skill to say hello. Just say hello. Don't be too gaudy, it seems that you are a playboy, and the chat time should not be too long. You can do some simple information exchange at first, or you can omit this part. Don't stay at this stage for a long time, it will make the chat drag on and boring, and don't let your sister feel that you are over-expressing yourself or auditing the accounts. To give your sister some room for expression, you must keep a conservation law: what you say is similar to what she says, so that she will not feel superior, and you will get along more harmoniously. In the early stage, you should ask less, answer more and talk more about each other's lives. Exchange views with each other, so that two people have the feeling of chatting together. You have to have the ability to open a topic. Take the initiative in chatting. If you let girls take the initiative, you won't have a chance. You need to find a topic that girls like, and try to add a little humor to the conversation to make girls laugh. You should be able to see whether she is interested in this topic. If the girl's reaction is short and there are no waves on her face, it means something. You should stop this topic at once and change the topic. Try not to talk about Taiyuan's principle, which is easy to produce differences. Talk about some interesting things with girls and exchange your feelings. 4. If you can always make girls laugh again and again in the early stage of chatting, then girls will definitely like chatting with you, because girls like humorous men. Remember that girls are emotional. Don't always explain your big talk. How can girls be interested? How am I supposed to talk to you? Study hard, brother. I wish you an early success and shine on you! 5. There is also the need to properly express your feelings in the chat, and don't blindly evaluate each other. You know girls hate to be commented on! Unless you praise her for her beauty, you must have superb storytelling skills, but you can't just make one up. Girls are not stupid. How can people not know that you are perfunctory? Also, you can't ask girls questions continuously. What if people are impatient? That's too bad! What did you just know about chatting with girls? 4. The opening remarks of WeChat chat are very important. A girl you just met has passed your friend's verification, which means that you have established a certain attraction through the display or interaction on other software, so you can generally use hot driving. You can start by default in the way you are familiar with. Imagine that in social circles, it is easy to get along with many people, and people who are very popular are often familiar with themselves, and WeChat is the same. There are usually two ways to open WeChat chat: 1. You can tease each other's heads. For example, your head is cute, but cute girls are generally not tall (snickering). 2, slightly confident way of opening remarks, such as: make friends with each other, but don't come and say hello (fake smile). This way of opening is a way to quickly pull up your relationship. Second, many people in the WeChat chat conversation are entangled in what topics WeChat and girls talk about. In fact, the topic itself is not important. The important thing is whether you can improve your mood and make the other person willing to continue chatting with you. Then, in the process of chatting with people, you can follow the following principles: 1. Leave some topics for the girls. If you are telling a story, talking to yourself, or even saying something boring that girls can't understand, then girls will definitely reply to you. Ok, suck, hehe, or don't reply at all. Therefore, be sure to leave training materials for girls to pick up your language and leave room for her to reply. 2, don't be too angry and nonsense. Talking too much nonsense will also expose your needs, and your feelings will make girls feel that you are a low-value person. "Well, then we'll contact you tomorrow. Oh, go to bed early. This long sentence can be summed up in three words: "See you tomorrow". Why do you type so many words? It's really a headache Try not to be led by the nose by girls. Girls are good at changing the subject. When the direction of the topic is completely guided by the other party and takes the initiative, the space for your reply will become narrower and narrower, and you will become more and more worthless. Use keywords to extend the topic as much as possible. For example, if you invite a girl, the girl may reply to you: "There are so many beautiful women around you, why are you looking for me?" "This time you accept the guidance of the girl, reply to me more or less have beauty, this is wrong. Then we can start with the word "beside": "When will you be by my side? I don't remember. 4. Many people think that humor is a quick way to relieve girls' emotions. However, humor will only make girls think you are a tease. After you have a certain sense of humor, you must intersperse some real things in the conversation, even if it doesn't sound so valuable. For example, I often say, "I like to sit in Sanlitun, drink and listen to music when I have nothing to do." It feels good. " The feeling of Wen Qing's petty bourgeoisie can't attract high-value women, but it mentions my real life writing group. Of course, as soon as you come up, most people don't want to answer you. Third, the purpose of WeChat chat-invitation You know, the purpose of chatting with girls on WeChat is to make an appointment, not to let you talk all the time. Those who are willing to upgrade their relationship with you on WeChat may not meet you. And some girls who are shy on WeChat can often go to the S stage through the on-site operation of blind date. So, when girls give us a good response, ask them out. "You can come out for a drink/take a walk/go to XXX when you are free." Wait, there are many options. If the girl replies hello, what are you waiting for? Let's make an appointment. Actually, it doesn't matter what we talk about. What matters is how you describe what you want to talk about. As long as your chat is different from that of B0% men, it is already a conversation with high alloy content. When the girl's feedback is not good, don't pester, find out the reason, and the value you show: it is definitely not what she wants.