Do you always know why your girlfriend is angry?

Girlfriends are always angry, which is believed to be the trouble of many straight men, because warm men's girlfriends will not have such problems. Of course, it's not that being straight is bad, but it's ok to pay attention to communication methods, as long as it's not straight cancer.

Then let's talk about why my girlfriend is angry and inexplicable.

For example, shopping with my girlfriend likes to see beautiful women. My girlfriend is narrow-minded, but she is still angry when I coax her.

At this time, the straight man thought: What's the matter? Look at this beautiful woman. I didn't do anything else.

The same is true of deceptive words: "I'm just looking, well, you are the most beautiful!" " I promise I won't watch it next time ... "

Is it true because she cares if you are unhappy when you see a beautiful woman? In fact, there are deeper reasons for the events that led to your conflict.

One thing happens, which leads to your B reaction, and your reaction leads to her C feeling.

Accordingly, if you look at the fact that a beautiful woman is jealous (a), you think she is narrow-minded (b) and you think she is not respected (c).

A leads to b, which is where straight men think their girlfriends are angry; B leads to C, which is what really makes my girlfriend unhappy.

The point is not whether you look at a beautiful woman or not, but that you think she is narrow-minded, which makes her feel that you don't respect her enough and can't understand her position and feelings. This is why your girlfriend is angry and can't be coaxed.

It can be seen from the general method of straight men coaxing people that even if you give in and coax her for a while, your girlfriend will still be sulking. She thinks you don't understand her at all. You just treat her like a child and don't put yourself in her shoes.

The next time I feel the same way, her unhappiness will be aroused more quickly. There are many such situations, and one day she will have a big fight with you because she can't stand it, and you will feel puzzled!

Feeling denied and ignored is the most unbearable. This is the reason why she is often angry. If you respect your girlfriend's feelings when you get along with her, she won't get angry so easily.

The correct way to deal with it is not only to admit your mistake, but also to put yourself in the other person's shoes and feel * * *.

Like this: "Honey, it's my fault that I didn't consider your feelings." Just like I'm unhappy when you look at handsome guys. I don't feel good either. But I just couldn't help watching it again. I still love you the most. But I promise I won't watch it next time. Even if there are handsome guys and beautiful women, I will tell you first, and we will watch them together. "

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