Guiguzi teaches you how to be careful.

First, let's learn a strategist's term: feeling. It must be admitted that women have a natural advantage in this respect, because they are meticulous, careful and serious. For example, a subtle expression of others and a seemingly random action can always be seen by women at the first time, which is called mind's eye.

As Guiguzi said: If you don't speculate, you can hide everything. In layman's terms, strategists read other people's inner thoughts and thoughts through speculation. You can't find hidden information without feeling.

What do you practice with emotion? Is insight. Insight is to get information that others don't know, just like Guiguzi said, "I'm not interested in watching flies wriggle." There is a "butterfly effect" abroad. Guiguzi put forward a similar theory as early as the early Warring States period, which we can call "flying effect".

You mean: observing the wings of moths actually involves stakes. What is a first-class master? Guiguzi is it. Just like a first-class swordsman can see a little change in his opponent and take advantage of it. The accomplishment and knowledge of a strategist must be the basis of reading.

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Let's talk specifically about the way Guiguzi taught us to read minds. Because we deal with people all the time, for example, in the workplace and shopping malls, we are good at reading minds and always take the lead. So what are the mind-reading methods? We summarized three mind-reading methods: 1. Emotional observation mind reading, 2. Mind-reading in social applications; 3. Emotional observation and mind reading.

1. Emotional observation method. What's the use of emotion in persuasion? One of the answers is that it can be used as an observation method. Because people's emotions are actually more emotional, your so-called rationality is also an emotional rationality. For example, you can't control your anger. People are sure to get angry when they encounter angry things, but you can't control it. Even Wang Yangming said that the joys and sorrows are gone. The implication is that emotional changes are normal, and it is normal for you to be happy and angry, but you should grasp the degree and not overdo it.

Before it happened, it was the practice of saints. It's a pity that there are more laity in this world, otherwise it really can't be used. For example, when you and I are angry, we have no scruples about what to say and what not to say. It's called emotionalization. Guiguzi uses people's emotional changes to deliberately provoke or please each other, and then collects information, guesses people's hearts, and then understands people's hearts.

So Guiguzi tells us that if you understand other people's emotional changes and make use of them, you can let others speak their true thoughts obediently. Guiguzi's original words are: people who indulge in feelings will be extremely eager when they are very happy. They have desires and can't hide their feelings.

2. Social application method. People are social animals, for example, each of us has relatives. Social application means that when we meet a person and can't get the information of the other person, we must adjust our strategies. For example, from people close to each other. That is, beating around the bush, or circuitous tactics.

In our life, we will always meet some people who know nothing about their emotions, and we can't figure out their psychology. At this time, you can use this method to learn about the opportunity from the other party's family and friends. Yi cheung is playing this method, getting Zheng Xiu first and then Chu Huaiwang.

Through Zheng Xiu, Chu Huaiwang's hobbies and habits are all clear. This game is actually unbalanced and unfair. But it is precisely because of the asymmetry of information that strategists can convince success. Information must be the most important. The more information you can get, the more you can know each other's thoughts, and you will definitely have an advantage in the game.

3. Expression observation method. It is not surprising that Guiguzi can put forward many scientific theories in advance. For example, Guiguzi innovatively said: Love changes inside and looks outside.

Psychologically speaking, this sentence is actually a "law of psychological conservation". When a person's heart changes, his appearance will show. For example, a person's inner anger, although he wants to suppress it, will in fact be manifested in his words and actions, which is the basis for the establishment of "micro-expression" and "body language".

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The so-called guiguzi's so-called mind reading is actually to collect information and then try to figure out other people's psychology and become a conscientious person. The psychology you can't find is because you haven't observed it. A person who has learned Guigu's mind-reading can often get to the heart through external constraints, just as Guigu said: You should know a hermit by what you see.

According to insight information, from the outside to the inside, from the outside to the inside, directly to people's hearts. Therefore, a person's every move, a smile, actually represents his inner state and contains a lot of information. So what is love, in fact, is mind reading, that is, mind reading. Only by getting a lot of information can we read our thoughts.

Summary: Feeling is to collect information and get information. Your game comes from your information. We often say that if we don't know a person, we often don't know what to do when we meet something. Is it because you know little about other people's information?

So Guiguzi taught us three mind-reading, hoping to help us solve more real problems in life and make us smart and honest people. Read people's minds, and be conscientious.