Inspirational stories: the difference between winners and losers

Inspirational stories: the difference between winners and losers

There is a story: in ancient times, a candidate had three dreams before the exam. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. In the second dream, he wore a hat and an umbrella on a rainy day. The third dream is to lie with my beloved cousin, but back to back.

The next morning, the examinee found a fortune teller and asked him to interpret his dreams. The fortune teller shook his head again and again and said, you'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? Isn't it impossible to lie in a bed with my cousin, but back to back? Hearing this, the candidates were disheartened and went back to the store to pack their bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper asked in surprise? Isn't there an exam tomorrow? Why did you go back today? Candidates say this and that. The shopkeeper is happy:? Let me explain it to you, too. I think it's a pity that you won't stay this time. Growing vegetables on the wall means you can grow taller (middle), wearing a hat and an umbrella means you are prepared, and lying back to back with your cousin means you are going to turn over! ? Hearing this, the examinee is very reasonable and refreshed. He took the exam with a positive attitude and won the third place.

Coincidentally. Once upon a time, there was a king who dreamed that the mountain fell, the water dried up and the flowers withered, so he asked the queen to interpret his dream. The queen said: The general trend is not good, and the fall of the mountain means that the country will fall; If the water is exhausted, the people will be centrifugal, the monarch will be the boat, and the people will be the water. If the water is exhausted, the boat will not work; Flowers bloom and fall, and good times are numbered. ? The king broke out in a cold sweat and became ill from then on, getting heavier and heavier. A minister met the king, who spoke his mind on his deathbed. Hearing this, the minister said with a smile, this is a good sign. When the mountain falls, the world will be at peace. When the water dried up, the real dragon appeared. King, you are the son of heaven. Flowers wither, flowers wither to see fruit! ? The king felt relaxed and soon recovered.

In the same dream, the words of the fortune teller are quite different from those of the shopkeeper. The former makes candidates disheartened and has a nervous breakdown before entering the examination room; The latter can turn negative into positive, and make candidates have a good attitude and succeed. The different opinions of the queen and the minister also put the king in a completely different situation. It can be seen that negative people see troubles and make people feel that life is full of shadows; Positive people see hope and let their hearts have a broader clear sky.

From the other side of the two stories, everyone's life will be disturbed by the outside world and influenced by others. External factors always play a positive or negative role. Therefore, as a normal person, when encountering difficulties in life, it is important to have your own correct orientation, and maintain a good attitude regardless of other people's mentality, otherwise you will accidentally deviate from the normal life track. In any case, a positive attitude helps people overcome difficulties, see hope and maintain strong fighting spirit; And a negative attitude will only make people depressed and disappointed, full of complaints about life, and even limit and stifle their potential.

Napoleon once said: There are only small differences between people, but this small difference can produce huge differences. There is little difference between positive attitude and negative attitude, and there is great difference between success and failure. ? That's the truth. The difference between success and failure lies in the different mentality: that is, the winner deliberately lights up the positive side, while the loser always indulges in the negative side.

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