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How to get married in Yongchun?

1. How to wrap the wedding red envelope?

Newcomers usually get off to a good start when they get married, so when we attend the wedding, we should also know the auspicious number list of 20 19 wedding red envelopes. In this way, the couple will not be embarrassed because the amount of red envelopes is unlucky.

1. How many red envelopes are appropriate for relatives and friends to get married?

1 288—— The meaning of "fa" is homophonic with the mantissa.

2, 366-the meaning of successfully taking the mantissa.

3, 600-means that everyone is going well. When expressing the blessing of the yes-man in accordance with the wedding red envelope, you should pay attention to the even number.

4, 666-can represent smooth and smooth, which means I wish the husband and wife smooth sailing and you smooth sailing.

5800-the number 8 has always been regarded as a lucky number, which is homophonic "fat" and means wealth and prosperity.

6, 888-can represent the meaning of hair, meaning to wish the husband and wife wealth and success.

7.999-Friendship lasts forever, and husband and wife love each other for a long time.

8.1314-all my life. It means that the relationship between husband and wife is sweet, long-lasting, long-lasting and lifelong.

9. 1666—— Bon voyage in life, which means that the newlyweds will have a smooth sailing in the future and be lucky.

10,1688-all the way.

2. How to wrap the man's red envelope when getting married?

Hello, landlord, first of all, congratulations on your New Year! I wish you a happy marriage! Then let me introduce you to the custom of sealing red envelopes for marriage:

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Red envelope:

(1) Opening Ceremony-Give it to the driver when the groom gets off the bus. When the bride arrives at the man's house, she should also prepare it for the man who drives the door. )

(2) Candle ceremony-giving candles to the woman's mother and uncle.

(3) Bride gift-given by the matchmaker when tea is served.

(4) Face-lifting ceremony-makeup fee.

(5) Tea Ceremony-Compared with drinking tea, parents and grooms give more gifts than others.

(6) Divide the dishes+give them to the waiter who takes the table.

(7) Hold a washbasin water ceremony-give it to people who take hand washing water (if you entertain guests in a restaurant, you can omit it).

(8) Table-pressing ceremony-red envelopes on the day of engagement.

(9) Sister table gift-a red envelope on the sister table on the wedding day.

(10) A gift from the matchmaker-a red envelope for the matchmaker. The man has more gifts than the woman. (The woman should also prepare)

(1 1) staff red envelope-thanks to the staff who helped.

(12) The man should prepare more red envelopes for the matchmaker. When the relatives and friends of the man or woman have objections, the matchmaker immediately takes out a red envelope and says, "The customs and habits in this respect are not clear. Please forgive me for any disrespect. 』

Hehe, almost. I hope I can help you! If you have any questions, you can ask them. If you are satisfied, please give five points. Thank you for your understanding and support! Once again, I wish the love career a double harvest!

3. How to receive and send wedding red envelopes How many wedding red envelopes are appropriate?

May you two love each other forever and grow old together! Attention should be paid to the collection of wedding gifts: don't inadvertently measure the thickness of wedding gifts when you hold them in your hand in front of guests. This behavior is as impolite as counting wedding gifts in person.

Pay attention to the gift: the cheque-type wedding red envelope cheque is small in size, and it is easy to be lost if it is mixed with a lot of cash, so prepare a special bag for storing the cheque and leave the cheque and cash for storage. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to deal with them afterwards.

When a check is received, the checker can roughly check the details such as the head or the signature of the new person. Whether the check can be cashed is still suitable for the new person to go to the bank afterwards. It is impolite to count the bride price in front of the guests, but not counting it will also cause the final accounts to be messy.

The best way is to collect the gift money by one person. When you get it, mark the guest's name on the wedding red envelope, and then give it to another person to take it into the lounge for counting and accounting. I hope it is useful to everyone. You made a couple, and you made a couple successfully. Now that we are married, we need to tolerate and take care of each other in the future. Congratulations! He is a word, you are a music score, and you two are a harmonious song.

A match made in heaven makes husband and wife harmonious. May you be United and happy forever! Happy wedding, sweet and beautiful! What should I write in the wedding red envelope? Send heartfelt wishes to the breeze and let the clouds offer sincere friendship; The air is full of intoxicating sweetness.

I wish my most beloved friend, from now on, love will last forever, ten years in the same boat, and a hundred years in the same bed. Finding him/her in the vast sea of people is obviously a fate thousands of years ago; Countless necessities, occasionally precipitated, can't be the result of meticulous carving on sansheng stone? Protect this fate with your heart, dear.

Congratulations on finding a good home! How to give a wedding red envelope When the gifts given by the guests are of different sizes and can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite to put them aside if the newlyweds just behave improperly. In this state, the couple can say in a humorous tone: "I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married."

4. Marriage customs in Yongchun County

Engagement etiquette is also called "Wen Ding", which used to be called "Naji" and "Zheng Na". Although engagement is not as complicated as marriage, traditional customs still attach great importance to it. Both men and women need to prepare some gifts. The process is like this: the groom finishes the family sacrifice at home first, and then goes to the woman's house with the matchmaker to get married.

Get off the bus and enter the door, and the red envelope will not run away! (1) Gong Guan: commonly known as "Mr. Boxer", responsible for the appointment of gift-giving companies. Tribute officials must control the number of people (even number), vehicles (six or twelve vehicles), engagement money (even number and properly wrapped in red paper) and six gifts.

(2) Family Sacrifice: Before leaving for the woman's home, the man will hold an ancestor worship ceremony at home. At this time, he will give his ancestors a "box cake" or a big cake for harvesting. He will go to a virgin's home to take a job and ask his ancestors to bless this marriage. (3) Departure: After the family sacrifice, the tribute officer is responsible for loading all the bride price on the car, and the groom and the matchmaker go to the woman's house together.

(4) Red envelopes: Before departure, Gong Li Palace should not only take care of the number of people, cars and bride price, but also remind the groom to prepare more red envelopes. For example, the uncle who came to open the groom's car door, the "pressing table" and the six accompanying relatives all need to prepare the bride's ceremony, the bride's new friend who washed the water and the gift of the matchmaker.

How to hire "eat rice and marry a good husband" for a lifetime, and there must be rice cakes in the six gifts. Why prepare four-color sugar? It symbolizes the sweetness of newlyweds and the meaning of growing old together.

The bride price represents not only the man's gratitude to the woman's parents, but also the man's face. Therefore, most of them are willing to get a glamorous and decent appearance, and each dowry also contains the symbolic meaning of seeking good luck and increasing perfection.

Bridal gifts are usually divided into six simple gifts or twelve exquisite gifts. The amount of bride price is arranged according to personal budget. At the same time, we might as well ask the matchmaker for the advice of the woman's parents to achieve the best of both worlds. Marriage between men and women officially debuted! Firecrackers sounded and the married man arrived! On that day, ancestors should be worshipped, tea should be served, and rings holding hands with each other should be worn until they are old.

How does the woman return the gift after giving it? China people always pay attention to "reciprocity". After the man gives a big gift, the woman should also prepare a gift in return, but she can't let the man go home empty-handed. In the past, the marriages of young Han people were mostly arranged by their parents. Most of them got engaged when they were very young, and some even called their bellies marriage, that is, their parents established a marriage relationship for their children before they were born.

No marriage with the same surname: that is, men and women with the same surname do not marry each other, which began in the early Western Zhou Dynasty and was a rule left over from the Zhou people's practice of intermarriage. In the Spring and Autumn Period, people further realized that intermarriage with the same surname would cause abnormal infertility of offspring, but intermarriage with the same surname still occurred from time to time among nobles.

After the Warring States Period, the surname Shi, regardless of the surname after the Han Dynasty, is often unavoidable. In the Tang Dynasty, intermarriage with the same surname followed the ancient system and was prohibited.

There was a Tang law in the Song and Yuan Dynasties, and the same surname was reserved for marriage. The Ming and Qing dynasties had a large territory and a large population, and it was already a society based on region, replacing the clan based on blood.

Therefore, the Ming law regulations and the Qing law regulations are divided into two parts: the same surname and the same clan. On the surface, it is forbidden for two people to get married. In fact, people with the same surname and different clans can get married. Calligraphy in the late Qing Dynasty merged unmarried relatives with unmarried surnames, and only intermarriage within the same clan was prohibited.

Please ask the matchmaker to propose marriage at the woman's house before engagement. When engaged, the man gives the woman some property as a "gift", and when married, the woman also brings a lot of property to the man's family, which is called "dowry".

On the wedding day, the groom will get on the limousine or sedan chair and go to the woman's house to "greet the bride". There is a band in front of a limousine or sedan chair. After the bride is welcomed into the man's house, she should worship heaven and earth and her parents.

After the ceremony, the newlyweds entered the bridal chamber. At this time, the man gave a banquet to entertain relatives and friends who came to congratulate him.

Some places also have the habit of making trouble in the bridal chamber and listening to the wall. Check date: marriage customs of Han nationality.

Also known as the reporting date. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi.

Talking about marriage in rural areas: a step towards marriage. When young men and women get to know each other, tell their parents and ask the media to communicate. The man gives the bride a bride price and then sets a wedding date.

In the past, fortune tellers always ranked the "eight characters" first, and the fate was consistent. In some places, parents meet to get engaged.

For example, in quanzhou county, after the two sides agreed, the matchmaker sent wine, meat and cloth to the woman on behalf of the man, and accompanied his parents and uncles to meet at the man's house on the agreed date, and the man gave a banquet. The young man poured wine in a pot, first to the woman's uncle and then to his uncle, and then toasted in turn.

The two sides agreed on the wedding date and the engagement was completed. Later, men and women gave the woman heavy gifts and bride price, the woman prepared dowry, the man prepared furniture, and the wedding was held as scheduled.

If the woman urges marriage, she will make a pair of glutinous rice cakes (commonly known as "reunion cakes") and send them to the man's house. The man got the message, treated him warmly and invited his neighbors to go with him. Generally speaking, it is respected for the woman to take the initiative to advance the wedding date.

He Lang Song: The marriage custom of Han nationality popular in Xing 'an area of northeast Guangxi. After visiting the church and dinner, relatives and friends gathered around the groom in the main hall and sang "Song of Welcoming Lang".

Impromptu congratulations, but also joking and humorous words. Friends and relatives sing a song and the groom drinks a glass of wine.

Sing till midnight and send the groom into the bridal chamber. The female singer waited behind closed doors, and the men and women sang "Open the Door Song" in pairs before opening the door.

Singing noisily after entering the door, from "a toast to the groom" to "ten cups", the groom drinks from 1 to 10 cups in turn (male singers can drink instead of winners). Then sing "Sex Wine" and the couple have a drink together.

Finally, the singer closed the door and sang the song of closing the door to end the wedding. Sitting in the Red Hall: The marriage custom of the Han nationality is popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. Young men and women worship their ancestors in their own homes and receive instructions from their elders on the eve of marriage.

The bride wears red ornaments and is accompanied by her classmates. She sat in the main room, singing "Weeping Wedding Song" softly, remembering her parents' kindness and expressing sisterhood. Sisters told the bride to be filial to the elderly and live in harmony with her brothers and sisters, and praised the groom for his handsome and hardworking.

When the bride expresses her unhappy thoughts, the sisters comfort her in many ways. Singing late into the night, Yiyi said goodbye and presented gifts.

The groom is also accompanied by his classmates sitting in his main hall, and is taught by his elders to be diligent and keep the house and obey the rules. After the teaching, the old man retired, and the boys joked and chased the groom, and the joy didn't end until late at night.

Seeking the Key: The marriage custom of Han nationality is popular in quanzhou county, northeast Guangxi. The bride's wedding key is in the hands of any of her siblings or nephews.

Before seeing the bride, the groom saw her off.