People are very important to others on the journey.

Diary of Fanghua, the writer is on the journey.

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When everyone comes to this world, they can't choose their original ecological family, nor can they design their own life direction and experience.

There are many unknowns in life, and there are also many accidents, even accidents. Life is unpredictable-there are too many uncertainties, so it becomes a wonderful journey.

Everyone will be influenced by some people in the process of their own life growth. This influence is both positive and negative. This kind of influence is so profound that it may even completely rewrite a person's life.

This kind of person who has an important influence on others' lives has a psychological term called "important others".

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Important others, a concept concerned by both psychology and sociology, refers to a specific person who has an important influence in the process of individual socialization and personality formation. Important people may be parents, elders, brothers and sisters, teachers, classmates, colleagues, even passers-by or strangers who meet by chance.

Important people can be divided into interactive important people and idol important people.

For example, Wang Han and Degang Guo mentioned in my previous articles, and Venus and Lou Jie mentioned in some previous articles are all idols and celebrities in my mind. I sincerely respect them when I see news and stories about their deeds and daily life. They are all important people in my life.

Then, my Chinese teacher in senior high school, he and his wife, Aunt G, mentioned in the old article "Young Memories ‖ My techer Height", are important interactive figures in my life, and also a lay friend of mine. The 93-year-old "I can't forget to make friends" is my "master", an important interactive figure in my life, and life.

These important people have had a positive impact on my life.

Human beings are gregarious animals, and the social attributes of human beings determine that individuals cannot live alone without the group and are always under the influence of others in the group.

Common herd mentality and phenomena are the result of the interaction of important people, but this "interaction" is negative.

Birds of a feather flock together. If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black. If you are near Mexico, you will learn from others.

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For another example:

Jordan chan's childhood was unfortunate. He was chained to the iron fence by his father (to let him look after his two younger brothers). He dropped out of school early and worked with his father everywhere.

Later, Jordan chan went to Hong Kong alone and entered the entertainment industry, becoming a singer and actor with a "weird personality" (in fact, Jordan chan's personality has traces of his childhood original ecological family's injury).

Later, Jordan chan met his wife Cherrie Ying.

Cherrie Ying's innocent smile and tolerance in her heart healed Jordan chan's childhood injury from the original ecological family. Cherrie Ying is an important figure in Jordan chan's life, and he is also an important person.

There is also a famous host, Tao, who gave a speech on stage as a student for the first time, gave up halfway, was incontinent and ran away in a hurry. His teacher didn't criticize him, let alone satirize him, which was very violent. On the contrary, he praised his proficiency in reciting the first two paragraphs of his speech and his eloquence. The teacher had a good eye and encouraged Wendu Tao to take part in the speech contest. Later, he became a famous program host. This teacher is an important figure in Tao's life and changed his life.

And Wang Han's latest talk show "Coming! I mentioned it the day before yesterday. Dunhuang! One of the invited guests, Meng, a popular crosstalk performer in Deyun Society, was very introverted when she was a child and was not good at speaking in front of people.

A charlatan told his fortune that he was going to pursue a career completely opposite to his character at that time. This charlatan gave Meng positive psychological hints, which made him build confidence in his speech, and he was also an important figure in Meng's life. Including Meng's master, a famous and important figure in the life of Deyun Society's disciples.

The men I mentioned in "The Man Behind Degang Guo in the Workplace", they and Degang Guo are both important people in each other's lives, and they are each other's nobles, achieving each other.

Life needs noble people, cherish and respect noble people in life, they are important people in our life.

May everyone be lucky enough to meet important people who have a positive influence and guidance on themselves in life, and also become important people with positive energy in others' eyes.