Fairy mother

"Fairy mother", this title comes from the mouth of daughters and classmates. How did you get it?

? Just because my daughter is allowed to arrange her mobile phone freely after finishing her homework, she can arrange her own affairs whether playing games or chatting with her classmates. "Mom, my classmates' mothers have to criticize when they see them playing mobile phones, and they have to criticize when they read extracurricular books; It's best not to play with mobile phones, read extracurricular books, sit at a desk and do homework and read school books every day. And said that these are all things that affect the performance. Ask them to get high marks every day, okay? The harder you adults push, the less we want to study. Several students hid their mobile phones under their exercise books. Hearing the footsteps of adults, they immediately covered their mobile phones and began to do their homework. Their parents will only be happy when they sit in their room and study for six or seven hours. I said that my mother ignored my homework and said that studying was my own business. Before going to work in the factory, she also asked me to stop studying for an hour and take a ten-minute break to eat some fruit. I don't want to compare my grades with yours. I just want to learn the wrong questions on the test paper. Compared with my previous self, I will make progress every semester, and I don't ask how many points I scored. " Let the classmates envy and ask, "Is your mother a fairy? Your mother is a fairy mother. "

With the development of the times, more and more technologies need to use mobile phones. It is indispensable in life, no matter whether it is blocked or not, the general trend is irresistible. Just think about how to make her play games and be self-disciplined.

? At first, my daughter was obsessed with playing games. I told her that as long as her homework was finished, her time would be arranged freely. I didn't see her doing her homework. I thought she forgot to play, wanted to remind her, and finally held back. I believe that if you don't write your homework, the school teacher will definitely fail; I also believe that my daughter knows which is the most important in her heart, and I want her to learn to adjust slowly.

? Besides, I think playing games is better than watching idol TV series. Television is passively accepted and requires no brains. The game must have mental input, and there can be more topics to communicate with classmates. Just tell your daughter that if you want to play, you have to devote yourself to it. Don't think about homework when playing games, and don't play secretly with guilt. Playing games is not a shameful thing. Open the door and have fun.

? "Mom, I want to apologize to you, because I love you so much, you must forgive me. In fact, there are also a few nights to play games and stay up late, but now it is rare. I love you, mom. I feel very uncomfortable if I don't say it. " One day my daughter told me so frankly. In fact, I know in my heart that when my daughter can't control it, she will bring her mobile phone back to her room to play. Children's self-control is worse than that of adults. But I want my daughter to learn to adjust herself. Because blocking and criticizing can't solve the problem, I choose to believe in my daughter's self-regulation ability.

? I believe that this reminds me of my daughter's six-year primary school. She has hardly copied the homework of Chinese new words. The teacher asked for copying five times, in fact, in order to let the children remember these new words earlier. At that time, I discussed with my daughter in the first grade of primary school that if I had dictated it, I wouldn't have to copy it. Write the typo twice, remember. In order to avoid plagiarism, the daughter should remember very carefully. There are dozens of new words in a unit, either all right or only one or two wrong. This also surprised me. Fortunately, the primary school Chinese teacher didn't check his homework very much, and he may have seen it, but the child dictated correctly and didn't call to complain about my mother, who is a shopkeeper of cutting.

This time, the parents' meeting of the school very much agrees with the teaching methods of the head teacher, Mr. Wu. Teacher Wu confessed to our parents, "I don't like to give my children many extracurricular classes on weekends, so I just choose one that my children like." The children get up at 6: 30 in the morning and go back to the dormitory at 9: 30 in the evening. It's hard enough to study at school. On weekends, you should let the children participate in cooking dinner, and the whole family should have a happy dinner. At the dinner table, ask the children what they are happy about at school this week or what they can't solve. Let the children feel the love of their parents and feel that their parents care about him all the time. "

? Miss Wu, who is loving and wise, is really lucky for her daughter to meet you who has methods and understands psychology. I believe that under the guidance of a wise teacher and my "fairy mother", children's learning potential will gradually emerge.

Personally, I think learning is not for grades, not for comparison with others, but for self-study. Only a peaceful learning attitude and persistent persistence can cultivate children's wisdom and energy. Children can go further.

? Insist on being the wise and enlightened "fairy mother" that my daughter likes.