Cixi Fortune Telling _ Cixi Fortune Telling Sanbeixian

Who can tell some stories between Prince Chun and Cixi's sister? thank you

This is written by Yi Xuan's fifth son, Essien Choro Zai Feng: Pu Jie Essien Choro. If you are interested, you can check it online: "When I was young, I often saw a family instruction hanging in the wooden frame of my grandmother's room. My grandmother always likes to tell us, "This official was made by your father Ma (called Grandpa Ma in Manchu). Remember that you will be good descendants of your father when you grow up. ..... "At that time, I just listened in a daze, but I can still remember its full text, because I witnessed it every day:

Wealth is also great, production is also great, and later generations are also in great trouble. What is the reason? Children and grandchildren are bold and not afraid of all kinds of major events, so they will not refuse until they die. Less wealth, less production, and less disasters left to future generations. If this is the reason, what is it? Children and grandchildren have no money and courage, and some industries know how to protect themselves and are too frugal.

In the center of the house in Baohantang, my father's big study, there is a bronze display, which was also made by my grandfather imitating the "ritual vessels" of the Zhou Dynasty. It also has my grandfather's inscription on it. I only remember the inscription, which means "full moon full of losses, modest benefits". My grandmother often tells us, "Your father had this customized. Put the water in half, it will keep balance and will not overflow. If the water is full, it will be reversed and drained ... "At that time, I just thought it was as fun as an illusionist, so I pestered my grandmother to put water into the experiment, which was very interesting.

My "Di" grandmother, surnamed Ye La, is the sister of Cixi. My grandfather and she have a good relationship. Although there were three "side Fujin" later, they were happy in family relations in the end. Needless to say, my grandparents' marriage was reached under the political coaxing of Cixi.

Although Cixi married her sister and my grandfather, she was not satisfied with such a friendly relationship. Later, she chose a woman named Yan Zhenji from the "female tutor" of the Ministry of Internal Affairs and gave it to my grandfather. Although he died after two years, my grandfather handled it perfectly between Cixi and his first wife, and between Emperor and Shu. For example, in my grandfather's collection of poems, there is a poem mourning Yan Zajia, entitled "Respecting an imperial decree, Yan Zajia pursuing Fujin and respecting discipline." In that seven-character poem, there is a conclusion that "the wife is sad and honored when she has not been blessed with special grace", and there is also a conclusion that "she chose to give it, gave it hairpin, clothes and silver, twice entered the palace and gave it a beaded robe." I gave him a Sanskrit card when I died, hung it on my chest when I died, and gave him Yu Pei and a wallet. In the past few days, the envoys have offered sacrifices five times. Today, it was sent to Miao Feng. After that, it was sent to the eunuch. From here, we can fully see that Cixi's wooing and my grandfather's gratitude are everywhere.

In addition, such as the plaque of "Bourne Pavilion" hanging on the promenade pavilion in the garden, and the couplet of "Fulu makes great efforts to increase Fulu, and grace and honor" hanging in the glass mansion where I once lived, all show that I am complacent and never forget to publicize my loyalty everywhere.

Coping with politics

In my grandfather's poetry collection, there are two seven-character poems warning Guangxu, from which we can see my grandfather's painstaking efforts between Cixi and Guangxu. The title is:

"The 17th day of the first month, summoned the queen mother to meet and play. Because the emperor entered school on April 2 1 day, he accepted the kindness of taking care of everything. Now it's two chapters of admonition poems. The banner of the proposed book should be handed over to the court, and the manuscript is allowed to be left according to the imperial decree. " This poem is as follows:

First, inherit the hard work of the saints, and always remember the grace of the Eastern Dynasty. The heart is like integrity, and things like quietness are called turbidity. The end of the line is worn for a long time, and the ambition is often reduced by enjoying respect. If you see good, you will never be adorned, and righteousness will be the door to people.

Second, respect the people carefully according to the family law, and the emotional relationship between the upper and lower levels is a bit true. Let the king be present at the beginning of happiness, and no one can miss it. Short articles should draw lessons from the ups and downs. Zhou Zhen is wholly owned by the Home Secretary and the Foreign Secretary. Destiny often cultivates virtue, and the walls of Sui, Zhu and Zhao are always dusty.

I was fourteen or fifteen years old, and when I was studying in Yuqing Palace with my brother Puyi, I saw this banner on the west wall of my desk. It shows that these two poems are in line with Cixi's wishes at that time. Otherwise, in the feudal family rules and regulations of the Qing Dynasty, a prince's poem would not be hung in the palace as the emperor's "motto".

Since Guangxu became emperor, my grandfather has been more afraid of his own title, more afraid of shrinking, and more likely to seize every opportunity to show that he has no political ambitions. From a poem written down, it can be fully seen.

"Xiyuan new room from the forehead yue back to the province lent, poem:

"Inspirational only worship about, cultivate one's morality. As we all know in physics, a person's feelings are beyond his ability. Lord's rank is glorious, luxurious and easy to read. The casting period is too short, don't be ashamed to send it privately. "

At my grandmother's house, I also saw an ivory paperweight engraved with an inscription written by my grandfather, which read "Leisure can nourish my heart and make up my mind" and the inscription was "Retire from fasting".

Although my grandfather took every opportunity to express his political resignation, Cixi was not calm when she had to give preferential treatment. Among the princes and ministers, there are people who are jealous of him, and Cixi also has doubts about him and protects him. For example, in the eighth year of Guangxu, the Qing government was weak because of French imperialism's invasion of Vietnam. Cixi excused Prince Gong from the Ministry of War and turned to Prince Li Shiduo, which made the Ministry of War encounter an emergency and had to consult with my grandfather. At this time, the illegitimate child and Zhao Erxun, the counselor of Zhen and Yu, wrote successively, saying that "the prince of alcohol should not participate in maintenance". Of course, every time my grandfather meets the will, he always insists on his words again and again, even crying and insisting on his words. So Cixi gave a meaningful instruction: "Since the curtain is over, I also want to join the cast of the times. The decree ordering Yi Xuan to discuss the incident with the military minister specifically refers to military affairs, not general orders. " At the same time, for my grandfather's resolute dismissal from office, he also issued an "imperial edict", which clearly stipulates: "The imperial edict will be promulgated after the emperor is in charge."

In the 13th year of Guangxu, Cixi ordered my grandfather to inspect Haikou with Li Hongzhang, governor of Zhili, and sent his confidant to supervise his peers in Li. At this time, there was a man named Yu Shi who played a book because Li was sent to patrol. The general idea is to borrow the flood in Zhili, ask the queen mother to repair the province on the grounds of anti-bow, and even use the topic to mention Li. Cixi saw that she was unhappy, so she let Zhu Yixin play again with a straight face. Zhu cited a concrete example, saying that Li Hongzhang sent a boat to pick up my grandfather, and my grandfather declined, but Li took the boat, so the officials who were driven out mistakenly thought it was the boat of Prince Chun. At this time, of course, Cixi could not shelter Li, so she had to make a face of "business is business" and just asked her grandfather if he knew. My grandfather totally denied this. As a result, Zhu Yixin lost his official position under the accusation of "fake playing".

This year, Cixi expressed her intention to hand over power to Guangxu in the first month of the following year. My grandfather signed a joint performance with the princes, asking Cixi to talk for a few more years. At the same time, Guangxu also repeatedly asked, and Cixi readily agreed.

Guangxu acceded to the throne, my grandfather immediately handed in a folding play, saying:

"I have three years in ten years, and I don't want to hang in the sky. I want to be a guest. The day before yesterday, I looked up at my body and was prostrated. ..... Suddenly an imperial edict fell, the emperor was elected, and he was in a coma in a hurry. It's a waste to violate the old liver disease. Only pity ... pity the whole, beg for bones, and leave a stupid and incompetent son to be emperor of Xuanzong. "

Secondly, the hereditary replacement of the title of prince, but ultimately did not get permission.

In March of the 12th year of Guangxu, my grandparents were ordered to sit in the apricot blossom sedan chair, but they didn't dare to sit once, which was highly praised by Ci Chun.

My grandfather not only showed people his caution in the above-mentioned daily life, especially in the overall perspective of politics, but also had a keen sense of smell. For example, in the year of Guangxu's accession to the throne, he pre-emptively arranged a self-defense battle, secretly handed in a passbook play, and stood up for himself in advance. The content is roughly:

"I saw the king who inherited the unification of the past dynasties and praised his parents for writing history books. Among them, there are suitable ones; Song Xiaozong didn't change his son's letter to Wang Xiu. How can there be chaos? Song Yingzong's Opinion: The Rites of Emperor Shizong of Ming Dynasty. Zhang Cong and laurel calyx are not satisfied. Loyal as Han Qi, but with Sima Guang, what is the reason? If something unusual happens, the arguer will clamour for it. Although the heart of the royal family is not without its own people, it is a ladder of glory, forcing its owners to think that there are many critics who have to be regarded as Zhuang. Huang Qing, praised by destiny, is listed as a sage with a pulse of ten dynasties, which is extremely prosperous and rare. In the Spring and Autumn Period, Emperor Mu was in his heyday and abandoned his subjects. Empress Dowager Cixi paid more attention to the ancestral temple and the country, and appointed the emperor to inherit the Great Unity. Recommend the minister of kindness and peace, and replace the difference with the hereditary loss of the prince If I am afraid of being famous, I don't have to worry too much about myself. Only at this time, thinking is to listen to politics, be wise and simple, and discuss the court first, and heresy will be hidden. If in the future, after leading the government, some new followers tend to worship each other for six years and stir up Chen Cong with alarmist stories, unfortunately, the court will be full of trouble. In the palace left by Empress Dowager Cixi, when the emperor was in power, the reasons why courtiers enjoyed the world and the fears of ministers were properly shown. A thousand years, not more. If there are those who promote the theory of peace and Jiajing, the purpose of service is good and evil, and the screen is set to blame. If you are kind and strict, will the emperor dare to obey? Therefore, it is not only to preserve my honor, but also an opportunity for the rise and fall of gentlemen and villains. ……

Of course, Cixi sincerely welcomes my grandfather's opinion and thinks it is reassuring. Therefore, this performance, like the above two poems written by my grandfather Li Xu Guangxu, remains in the palace as a souvenir. In the fifteenth year of Guangxu (1889), as my grandfather expected, there was a river chief, Wu Dacheng, who wanted to flatter and speculate, so he wrote a script and asked for a toast to Prince Chun. Cixi conveniently used the "weapon" prepared by my grandfather. She doesn't have to worry about Guangxu or my grandfather. She also takes Wu Dacheng as a typical example and punishes a policeman. The next order should be as follows:

"The emperor emperor literate admired, Yin ascended the throne, the prince of alcohol, modest and prudent, was sent into the palace for more than ten years, and tried his best to do his duty. Every time I meet an expert and a different number, I cry again. I used to like apricot blossom sedan chair very much, but now I dare not sit so far. His heart is loyal and red, and he is very scared. It is the deepest knowledge in the deep palace and is shared by all subjects in the world. From the eighth day of the first month of Guangxu's first year, Prince Chun made a statement in advance ... Please declare the world in charge so as not to make a difference in the future. Unfortunately, since ancient times, I have been sincere. Why did I get through this? ..... At the beginning of Danggui's administration, Wu Dayou showed this performance and made a special statement, giving the original notes to Prince Chun to let Chinese and foreign subjects know that I am on a long track, surpassing ancient and modern times; Is that the worries of a good king can be shared from now on. Later, he became a darling, but he didn't want to covet it! ……"

This is my grandfather's chess game between Guangxu and Cixi. Not only can Cixi rest assured of him, but even those jealous of him among the general princes and ministers have no excuse.

Cixi's manipulation of Prince Chun's house is useful.

Cixi first used Prince Gong's heart and my grandfather to kill Su Shun and other princes and ministers who hindered the Queen Mother from listening to politics. Later, in addition to wooing grandpa through marriage, she also gave Yan the idea of further netting. Using Guangxu's young emperor to support the facade has managed to extend the life of the "hanging curtain". After Guangxu grew up, although he once returned to power, the failure of the so-called "reform and reform" gave Cixi the opportunity to listen to politics again. However, due to internal and external pressure, I had to depose Pu X, the "big brother" who wanted to replace Guangxu, and at the same time, I had to win over the second generation prince of alcohol, my father Zai Feng. Later, my parents got married, that is, Cixi continued to manipulate and use the second-generation alcohol prince. Next, I will talk about another aspect of Cixi's jealousy of my grandfather.

When I was a child, my grandmother Liu Jia showed me a gold hairpin inlaid with big pearls and told me: "On the eighth day of May in the 22nd year of Guangxu, your wife (my family called her grandmother's wife, my mother's grandmother) died, and Empress Dowager Cixi came to the house and hanged herself in tears. Because her sister died, and you, Amar, attacked Wang Jue again, she was so jealous that she found fault with everything and made trouble everywhere, which frightened us all. The queen mother angrily ordered that the best jewelry and hairpin rings in the house be put in your wife's coffin, leaving us nothing good. This pearl pin was the only thing that was not found by the Queen Mother at that time. When you grow up and marry your daughter-in-law, I will give it to your daughter-in-law as a family heirloom in the palace. "

I also heard from an elder in my family that my grandmother Liu Jia finally suffered from intermittent insanity because of the three stimuli of the Queen Mother of the West.

The first big stimulus was in the 23rd year of Guangxu. In order to make trouble with my grandmother Liu Jia, I was instructed by the Queen Mother to take my grandmother's favorite youngest son, namely my seventh uncle Zai Tao, as my heir, and adopted Jiaqing's fifth son, the sixth son of Prince Mianyu of Shuohui Duan. "My grandmother didn't dare to disobey because something happened suddenly, so she had to crustily skin of head. Unexpectedly, after the adoption, the old couple played a play in the mansion to entertain relatives and friends because they were very happy about their adopted son. After hearing this, Cixi took her anger out on Imo (because he loved my seventh uncle and touched the jealousy of the Western Empress Dowager) and ordered my seventh uncle to be adopted as the heir of Imo, the king of Duoluozhong County, my grandfather's eighth brother, which led to the death of Imo's old couple in succession.

The second big stimulus was in the twenty-seventh year of Guangxu. In order to win over politically, Cixi used the queen mother's big hat of "referring to marriage" to forcibly betrothed my mother to my father, Rong Lu's daughter, a trusted scholar. At that time, my father was engaged to a daughter, which was arranged by my grandmother Liu Jia. However, this time, due to an order from the court, my grandmother had to divorce the family with a guilty conscience, which was the saddest thing for my grandmother.

The third big stimulus was that on October 21st, the thirty-fourth year of Guangxu, Cixi suddenly brought my eldest brother into the palace in the form of a bolt from the blue, and immediately became the last emperor of the Qing Dynasty. Because my eldest brother was brought up by my grandmother at an early age, she suddenly took her beloved eldest grandson away, and my grandmother knew the result of Guangxu's later years, and thought that Puyi's entry into the palace was not only equal to where you went with my grandmother, but also made him more afraid. So since then, she has suffered from a mental illness that gets worse from time to time.

My mother once told me that Cixi hated and envied Chunwangfu because of Guangxu, especially after the death of my first grandmother Yehenara. It is said that Prince Chun was born in the tomb of Miaofeng in Chungong (Guangxu) because there are two big white fruit trees buried under it-Prince Chun. If the words "white" and "king" are combined, it is not an "emperor". Hearing this, Cixi ordered people to saw off the two ginkgo trees. Who knows this is even more misleading, saying that when sawing trees, many snakes appeared on the trees. Even more far-fetched, it is said that the boxer rebellion in Guangxu's twenty-six years was transformed by those snake spirits.

The second generation prince of alcohol

Zai Feng, the second generation prince of alcohol, is also known as the cloud. He loves books and is obsessed with them. My father's style of modesty and concession, and his character of avoiding the important and neglecting the important are roughly similar to my grandfather's. However, my father's foresight in dealing with people is far less than my grandfather's. For example, my father's laziness and optimism can be seen from the interest of the self-written couplet "There are books rich and there are no immortals" hanging in the side room of Baohan Hall in the big study room. Also, what happened to the snail's horn by Bai Juyi, my father's favorite? Put the body in the fire of the stone. The seven-character quatrain of "being rich and poor, being happy, not laughing, being stupid" was once written on a round fan to show your ambition.

My mother once told me, "Your old Amar came back from the palace after the Revolution of 1911, and he told me,' It's all right from now on, I can go home and hold the baby.' I cried many times. When you grow up, don't be so unambitious! "

A short life experience

My father was born in the fifth day of the first month of the ninth year of Guangxu (1883), in Chunwangfu, Taiping Lake, Xicheng, Beijing. At that time, my grandmother Liu Jia 17 years old.

In October of the tenth year, when Guangxu was two years old, because Cixi was celebrating her 50th birthday, she could not be appointed as lord protector's eighth assistant.

In the 15th year of Guangxu, he was appointed as lord protector in Fengken Town at the age of 7, and began to study at home in 1996.

Guangxu was 8 years old in the 16th year, and in November he inherited the title of Prince Alcohol.

Guangxu 20 years, 12 years old, Rong Dai three-eyed Hualing.

In the 22nd year of Guangxu, 14 years old, my first mother, Yenara, was released.

Guangxu twenty-six years, 18 years old, was ordered to go to the imperial palace.

Guangxu twenty-seven years 19 years old. In the first month, he served as the minister of military parade, in February, he served as the chief suzerain of Zhenglanqi, in May, he served as the ambassador to Germany to apologize, and in October, he returned to China as the commander-in-chief of the Han army in Zhengbaiqi.

Guangxu was twenty years old in the twenty-eighth year and married my mother Guaerjia in August.

In February of the 29th year of Guangxu, he was appointed assistant minister.

In the thirty-second year of Guangxu, in the first month, he was appointed to manage the affairs of Jianrui camp, in September, he was appointed commander-in-chief of Manchuria, and in November, he was appointed to manage the affairs of new and old barracks. That year, the eldest son Pu Yisheng.

In the thirty-third year of Guangxu, he was ordered to be a minister of military affairs in May, rode horses in Xiyuanmen in August, and wore a mink coat in November.

In the first month of Guangxu's thirty-fourth year, he won the honor of riding two people's shoulders in Xiyuanmen and served as minister of military aircraft. Guangxu died in October, and his eldest son, Puyi, entered the palace to inherit Tongzhi. He also served as Emperor Guangxu (Xuan Tong) and was appointed Regent of the State Supervision Bureau to govern the country.

In February of Xuantongyuan, the Anhui Army uprising was suppressed at the age of 27.

In the second year of Xuan Tong, the court ordered to shorten the constitutional period in an attempt to alleviate the pressure of the revolution.

In the third year of Xuantong, Wuchang Uprising took place in August, and he announced his return to the palace in December.

19 13 (2 years of the Republic of China) married Deng Jiashi at the age of 3/kloc-0.

192 1 August, Pei Di Guarga committed suicide.

1925, Liu Jia, the mother of leap April, died.

1928 moved to Puyi's home in Tianjin British Concession "13 Road 166", and my third grandmother Li Jiashi died in November.

1June, 934, I went to the northeast to visit Puyi and lived in Changchun for more than a month.

1938 moved to "Fujian Street 15", a Japanese concession in Tianjin.

Tianjin was flooded in July. 1939. In August, Shixia returned to Beijing to live in Haichun Palace.

1June, 942, Deng Jiashi died.

1944, Wang Fu No.1 Middle School as a school.

1September 1949, Wang Fu was sold to a high-tech school,1/month, and moved to No.46, Jia Wei Hutong, Dongsi North, this city.

1in June, 1950, the house was sold to the Government Affairs Bureau, and in July, it was moved to Lipuying 1 1 in Dongcheng.

195 1 died on December 27th of the lunar calendar.

Brothers, sisters, wives and children

My father has four brothers, all of whom were born to my first grandmother Ye He Na Lahu. My eldest brother Jahan died when he was two years old. Zai Tian, the second brother, was from Guangxu period. The third brother died shortly after he was born. Fourth brother died at the age of five.

My brother and mother are both my fathers. Sixth brother was born on the seventh day of April in the eleventh year of Guangxu. In June of the 28th year of Guangxu, Cixi appointed Wang Yizhi of Ruimin County (after Withthe Princerui, the fourth son of Jiaqing, encouraged him) as his successor and attacked Baylor. When my father was the Regent of the country, he was awarded the titles of County King and Minister of Ren Haijun. 191/kloc-0 lived between Beijing and Tianjin years later,1died in Tianjin on March 2, 949.

Zai Tao, the seventh brother, was born on May 3rd, 13th year of Guangxu reign. In April of the 23rd year of Guangxu, Cixi appointed Baylor as the heir to Gu Shanbei Mo Ziyi (the fifth son of Jiaqing and the queen of Mianyu, the prince of Shuohuiduan). In May of the 28th year of Guangxu, he was ordered to succeed Wang Yi (Daoguang Eight Sons) of Duoluo Zhongduan County and attack Baylor. When my father was a regent in prison, he was made king of the county and served as a minister specializing in training the Guards. Later, he served as Minister of Military Advisory Department and Minister of Military Advisory Department. After the founding of People's Republic of China (PRC), he was elected as a member of China People's Political Consultative Conference and a representative of the National People's Congress, serving the people on behalf of Manchu.

There are three sisters, the oldest of whom was born to Yanza's grandmother. The second sister is my father's mother and died at the age of 3. Third sister was born to my grandmother Li Jiashi and died at the age of 28.

My mother's surname is Guaerjia, and her name is Youlan. She is the daughter of Rong Lu, the confidant of Cixi. The marriage between her and my father was arranged by Cixi, who broke my father's engagement with a big hat of "referring to marriage". The heir got married in August of the 28th year of Guangxu reign. My mother's personality is different from my father's: she has never been reconciled to the failure of the ruling forces in the Qing Dynasty. For example, after zhang xun restoration's plot failed, she was very happy when she heard absurd rumors, and even kowtowed to heaven to pray for peace in Zhang Xun. At one time, she intended to let me marry Zhang Xun's daughter, but she gave up because fortune-telling didn't work out. She and the toffee Duan Kang (that is, Zhen Fei's eldest sister Jin Fei) made a promise to each other, and each of them wooed her confidant eunuch and the Fengxi warlord at that time. As a result, the property was cheated and could not be won over.

When I was a child, my mother often taught me to "restore my ancestral business", such as hating revolutionaries and cursing Dr. Sun Yat-sen and so on. So when I was seven or eight years old, whenever I saw photos of Sun Yat-sen and Yuan Shikai published in magazines and books, I had to pull my eyes out with my fingers, so I was praised by my grandmother's inferior family and called me "ambitious".

One year, I saw my father's monthly card, and there was a dead word next to the word "people" in the Republic of China, so I asked why it was changed to China's "self-protection" country. My father smiled knowingly, and I realized the meaning of the word "self-protection". In the suicide note my mother wrote to me before she committed suicide, she said, "When you grow up, don't be as hopeless as your Amar. Study hard and help your brother, so that I can be worthy of you." ……"

Even my mother killed herself because of Jin Fei. Because my mother is very kind to Jin Fei on weekdays, especially trying to collude with warlord Feng. Therefore, when Puyi fell out with Princess Jin, her mother felt heartbroken: she thought Puyi was disobedient and felt sorry for Princess Jin, so she committed suicide by swallowing opium in a dilemma.

My father's "second wife" Deng Jiashi married my father at the age of 18. Because she is usually honest, and my mother succeeded despite her reluctance under the environmental pressure of "women are not jealous".

My father has four sons and seven daughters. The eldest son Pu Yi, the second son Pu Jie, the third son Pu Qi (3 years old) and the fourth son Pu Ren. The eldest daughter Hua (died at the age of 18), two women Hua He, three women Hua Hao, four women Hua Xian, five women Hua Xin, six women Hua Entertainment and seven women Hua Huan.

Manage housework

Not only has my father been uninterested in politics, but he is also troublesome and indifferent to family affairs. He only depends on my grandmother Liu Jia, and he's the only one left.

After grandma died, although she had to do it herself, she only relied on the government's affairs and her trusted "running errands" to take care of everything, and still lived a leisurely life of "reading behind closed doors" and enjoyed herself.

Although my father thought it was a waste for my mother's delicious food, good clothes and good shopping, he lived a carefree life under the ignorance and fraud of the housekeeper. For example, once I heard my father call the valet who was ordered to sell things and say, "Eight dollars is not enough. You said to add two more pieces and call him a miserable integer. " That is to say, I want to sell eight pieces of fox fur and other clothes at the price of 1000 yuan. If there are no eight pieces, I will add two pieces to make a whole number.

My father treats the servants in the yamen differently from my mother, so neither eunuchs nor mothers, nor even us, are afraid of my father, but my mother. Once, my father asked an errand eunuch named Li why he didn't "close the window" because it was already dark (at that time, a square carved paper window was placed outside every glass window, called closing the window). The eunuch confidently replied: "Because' Grandma' (referring to my mother) is not at home today." At that time, other eunuchs were laughing internally and worried about their colleagues. Although my father was angry, he just said loudly, "I'm still at home!" " Damn it, close the window! "

A person's way of dealing with others in society.

Father is indifferent to anyone and perfunctory. Neither trust nor reject anyone. Even if you know that you are being used, as long as you see that person, you can only be used and cannot get rid of it.

192 1 around, there was an old bureaucrat named Song Ling who wanted to get some vanity satisfaction from the "clean room and small court", such as "enjoying riding the Forbidden City" or even "yellow jacket", so he pestered my father. I often come to chat, but once I sit down, I won't leave. I also hooked up with the old relationship of an aristocratic school and called my father a teacher. When my mother held the funeral, she even sent sacrifices, sent scriptures, people who had been buried alive and corrected, and even specially invited famous chefs from Beijing to the countryside to make exquisite dishes and delicious dishes for us during the funeral.

My father hated him the most, but he refused. He just scolded us behind our backs. Seeing his face, he was very passive, and Nuo Nuo tried to elaborate. On one occasion, he brought the famous warlord leaders Zhang Jinghui and Zou Fen to my father, and plausibly publicized to them how my father admired and cared about Zhang local government. Zhang and others didn't know what medicine he was selling, thinking that my father had any political relationship with Zhang, so they said to my father, "We are going back to Fengtian. If your majesty has anything to do, we can be responsible for telling' Yu Shuai' (Zhang Zi Yu Ting). "

My father was embarrassed for a long time and only said, "Give my regards to Zhang Yushuai". Song Ling, who wants to pull the optical fiber, can't help blushing and dumbfounded; Zhang Jinghui also glared at Song Ling, then got up to leave. This Song Wang may have been complained by Zhang and others, or he saw through my father's attitude, so he never bothered me again.

My father is most afraid of socializing. No matter how long guests sit and talk, they will not stay for dinner or go to other people's homes. Even relatives only show up as usual when celebrating important events. Meeting is limited to a few greetings, and then they get up and leave. Although my mother is very gregarious, as usual, she has to sit at the same table with my father for lunch and dinner, and she is too embarrassed to leave guests to eat together. On one occasion, Baylor Yu Lang's wife even asked my mother, "I heard that your western food here is very good. Since you don't want me to eat here, why don't you give me two kinds to try? " So my mother had to send the meal to her house with a wry smile.

Views on imperialism

When I was a teenager, my father complained to me: "You see, Britain conquered India, but the nobles of India still exist today. Japan destroyed Korea, and the Li Wang family continued to hold the title of Japanese aristocrat. But we can't stand any preferential treatment now. ..... "I heard this, very impulsive. I thought that "it is better to give a friend than a slave" is really a famous saying.

Due to the September 18th Incident, Puyi sold herself to the enemy and became the leader of the Puppet Manchukuo. Because I went to Japan to study ... This series of facts has developed more and more in my father's sense of national inferiority, which was eroded by imperialist powers since he was a child, thinking that "only by imperialist forces can we survive". For example, the confrontation with my first married wife, Tang Yiying, was "won" under the background of the Japanese army.

In the winter when my father was 49 years old (193 1), Yiying left Tianjin for the northeast with the support of Lu (son of Zhejiang warlord). My father didn't have a chance to return to Beijing for a while, so he transported a lot of his father's relics by truck.

After receiving the urgent report, my father came up with a way to make use of Japanese imperialist power because he could not resist Yi Ying. So he negotiated with Japanese banker Harada Ryojiro, threatening that Chunwangfu had already been mortgaged to Japanese businessmen. Ryuuji Harada Lang met Tang Yiying to stop her from stealing. At that time, as long as foreigners came out, even the government at that time would be scared. Yiying had to stop smuggling and leave the alcohol palace.

Since my father won this "victory", he hired a Japanese ronin to hold the original Beowulf and gave him a one-yuan allowance every day to live in the house as a "bodyguard". Later, relying on the self-respect of the original palace, he colluded with the Japanese gendarmerie and set foot in Beijing. Some people say that they have seen the Japanese flag hanging in Chunwangfu, which was at that time.

1939, my father moved back to Beijing Jiugui Palace because of the flood in Tianjin. In order to take credit, he relied on the forces of Japanese imperialism to rob the old drunkard palace in Taiping Lake, Xicheng. Because it was the birthplace of Guangxu, my grandfather Yi Xuan returned it to the Qing government in the 14th year of Guangxu, so after the Revolution of 1911, it became a university of the Republic of China. Later, due to the Japanese invasion of North China, the teachers and students of the school moved south to take refuge, and the University of the Republic of China was actually cancelled. Originally, the mansion had nothing to do with Chunwangfu, but it was sold by my father as the private property of Chunwangfu for no reason. Thanks to the influence of the Japanese aggressors, it was also fattened. Until 1945, when Japan surrendered, Chihara was in the Alcohol Palace.

Although my father used the power of imperialism, he never had any political ties with the puppet Manchukuo. 14 years, my father went to Changchun Puyi only once in 1934. Although he lived in the Puppet Manchuria Palace for more than a month, he did not engage in any political activities. Especially in 1937, when Yoshioka Anzhi, the chief spy of the Japanese Kwantung Army who manipulated Puyi, persuaded my relatives and family to move to the Japanese Concession immediately on the grounds that it was not easy to "protect" my father's life in the British Concession, my father slapped a big table to express his opposition. Regarding the above two situations, it can be said that the father is better than our son who willingly sold himself to the enemy and died several times. "