As the saying goes, a husband and wife who become monks halfway will always be thieves. How to understand this sentence?

To sum up, some couples' marriages are not based on love, but have their own scheming, some for money and status, some for beauty, and so on. In short, the combination between them is not based on love, and some even live together. Of course, there are still a few couples who are calculating from the beginning, and most of them are caused by some contradictions in life. As long as you can learn to adjust and deal with it, I believe that even couples can be happy together halfway.

Halfway couples also have many situations:

1, middle-aged widowed: A tragedy of life is "middle-aged widowed". Such halfway couples generally cherish each other, but if the other party is particularly loving in the past, there will be a strong contrast mentality, which is difficult for the other party to accept, but this does not affect their feelings. After a period of adjustment and adaptation, they can still find happiness. There is generally no calculation between each other, if there are no children.

This is also one of the main reasons why most couples were unwilling to take care of their children halfway in the past.

2. Both of them divorced impulsively: this is an embarrassing situation. Some young people are irrational and impulsive to divorce, hoping to find a better one, and the result is not as good as before, or find the benefits of their predecessors after marriage. Immature people will compare their predecessors everywhere, which is the most hurtful. There is a saying that "it is better to marry a widow than a wife", which means that if the husband is still alive, so are women. If a man marries for the second time and his ex-wife is still there, it will definitely be a trouble, and it will definitely happen. With more children, the days when chickens fly and dogs jump are inseparable.

Most of these situations are immature and don't know much about the nature of marriage. Divorce and marriage are impulsive. When I looked back, I thought of all the benefits of the past and began to regret it. Any result can happen.

3. Cautious type: If both parties are cautious people, they can know each other's thoughts under any circumstances. After in-depth communication and thorough understanding of each other, they made a careful decision, at least found the basis for loving each other and found the advantages of attracting each other. After marriage, I can think of each other, know how to take care of this love, cherish each other's feelings, and leave enough private space for each other. Couples who become monks halfway like this can last for a long time, and there are many people.

Summary: don't give up eating because of choking;

In fact, marriage itself is the reunion of two strange families, which is quite complicated and needs enough time to run in. However, the complexity of the halfway couple is greater than that of the first marriage, which requires more efforts by two people to run in, and the difficulties can be overcome. Isn't there a saying called "give up eating because of choking"? We should not be discouraged by difficulties. It is everyone's right to pursue love and a happy life. As long as we cherish each other, a happy life is our own efforts.